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- A Herriman bar hosts discussions on first responder trauma, led by Bret Morley.
- Firefighter Dave Terrion highlights stress impacts and offers coping strategies like EMDR therapy.
- Morley emphasizes the importance of addressing trauma, especially for older first responders.
HERRIMAN — The experiences of first responders can lead to depression, anxiety trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder.
One Utah firefighter hopes to tackle those issues head-on through a series of community discussions hosted at his new bar in Herriman.
Called "Real Talk, On the Rocks," the monthly chats will be focused on a host of different community issues, according to bar owner Bret Morley, but the inaugural discussion Monday featured a topic very close to the firefighter's heart.
"Those long-term damages that are caused by the lifestyle — we can mitigate those and live a lot happier," Morley told KSL-TV during an interview Monday afternoon.
Another local firefighter, Dave Terrion, was the presenter and talked about the impacts of stress and trauma on the brain and daily functions such as sleep.
"Rather than deal with this stuff, it wakes us up," Terrion said of traumatic memories.
He explained that some common warning signs may be harder to detect in first responders.
"When they're depressed, they don't say they're sad," Terrion told the group in attendance on Monday. "Suicide can be a very impulsive decision, and first responders can act on it very impulsively — without a plan, without all the classic suicide signs that we talk about."
Terrion also talked about several potential resources and ways first responders can help deal with work trauma, including healthy and consistent sleep, healthy diet and exercise, eye movement and desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy, and having the right kind of therapist.
"Having somebody to talk to, to deal with small problems before they become big problems, is just as important," Terrion explained at one point during the discussion. "The key to that is finding somebody that understands you and understands our job, and that's a really hard thing to do if you're in crisis."
The trauma causes problems in us that we can fix.
–Bret Morley, bar owner
Terrion said it is good to have family members or friends around who can recognize potential issues.
Morley said departments have gotten better at offering resources to first responders, and the younger generation has been more aware of the potential issues.
"For that older generation, it is still a trudge, right, to get those guys to really look at the problems that it's caused and to seek out and get that help," Morley said. "The trauma causes problems in us that we can fix."
Morley hopes the discussions will grow and be of great value to firefighters, police and other first responders as they navigate work stresses.
"It's nothing to be ashamed of, it doesn't mean you're not good at your job," Morley said. "It's just another part of the job that you have to take care of."
Suicide prevention resources
If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, call 988 to connect with the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.
Crisis Hotlines
- Huntsman Mental Health Institute Crisis Line: 801-587-3000
- SafeUT Crisis Line: 833-372-3388
- 988 Suicide and Crisis LifeLine at 988
- Trevor Project Hotline for LGBTQ teens: 1-866-488-7386
Online resources
- NAMI Utah: namiut.org
- SafeUT: safeut.org
- American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, Utah chapter: afsp.org/chapter/utah
Warning signs of suicide
- Talking about wanting to die
- Looking for a way to kill oneself
- Talking about feeling hopeless or having no purpose
- Talking about feeling trapped or in unbearable pain
- Talking about being a burden to others
- Increasing the use of alcohol or drugs
- Acting anxious, agitated or recklessly
- Sleeping too little or too much
- Withdrawing or feeling isolated
- Showing rage or talking about seeking revenge
- Displaying extreme mood swings
The more of these signs a person shows, the greater the risk. Warning signs are associated with suicide but may not be what causes a suicide.
Information from the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.
What to do if you see warning signs of suicide
- Do not leave the person alone
- Remove any firearms, alcohol, drugs or sharp objects that could be used in a suicide attempt
- Call the U.S. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255)
- Take the person to an emergency room or seek help from a medical or mental health professional
Information from the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.
