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Jill Atwood ReportingWas it blatant neglect or was a Utah woman just in way over her head when it came to caring for her sick grandmother? Today Susan Alexander appeared in court, charged with starving her grandmother to death.
Alexander pleaded not guilty to a charge of elder abuse this morning. It's proving to be a case that is quite complicated beneath the surface and may be one we can all learn from.
Susan Alexander says the only thing she is guilty of is loving and caring for her grandmother.
For three years, Alexander says she took care of 86-year old Lucille Tinker, the final months the most difficult as she watched her wither away. Prosecutors contend she purposely neglected her, and left her in a room to die.
Michael Sikora, Defense Attorney: "There is a lot more than the public is hearing. There's always a much bigger context that what is originally reported, yes."
Alexander claims that when her grandmother was in the final stages of Alzheimer's she had stopped eating and drinking. She says she did the only thing she could think of, to let her die at home.
Nancy Stallings with Salt Lake County Aging Services says often times caregivers become overwhelmed and that's when poor decisions are made. That's where her office comes in; it can give support and advice.
Nancy Stallings, Salt Lake County Aging Services: "One person really can't do it for very long. It really really takes a lot of information and it's possible if you don’t know what you’re dealing with or you don’t understand home nursing technique, then you can neglect them."
Alexander can't really tell her story yet, but she did say this just before Christmas.
Susan Alexander, December 2003: "I truly believe that everything happens for a reason, and education is everything. And that must be the reason why my case was brought to the forefront. And in time, the truth and the whole story I'd love to tell."
Alexander's trial begins April 7th, if a plea agreement isn't reached sooner.
On a side note, if anyone finds themselves in a caregiver role and needs a little help, Salt lake County Aging services would love to help. Follow the links to their web site or call 801-488-2460.
