Reflections from people close to Newtown tragedy

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(AP) - Reflections from people connected to the shooting on Dec. 14, 2012, at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Conn., in which 20 first-graders and six educators died.



The father of a 6-year-old girl killed in the shooting, Richman and his wife, Jennifer Hensel, have been trying to rebuild their lives without their only child, Avielle, as they juggle their jobs and a foundation they started in their daughter's memory. The Avielle Foundation is dedicated to preventing violence through a better understanding of brain health.

"I don't get a lot of sleep and I work a lot, but I'm committed. There's the Nietzsche quote: Those that have the why' can endure anyhow.' Avielle used to be my why.' It didn't matter what else I did in life as long as Jen and myself were raising a happy, healthy kid. And we don't have that. So now mywhy' is something else, and I have to endure the `hows.'"



Llodra, Newtown's top elected official, said she still breaks down occasionally when talking with others privately about the tragedy, but she resolved on the day of the shooting not to give in to her emotions.

"I could not allow myself to fall apart because there were things to be done. I had to model for others the behaviors that said, `I'm not going to be destroyed by this horrible thing. I'm going to lead,'" she said.



Weiss, the pastor of Newtown's St. Rose of Lima Roman Catholic church, officiated at funerals for eight of the children killed at Sandy Hook. He said he hopes the tragedy leads to changes in what he sees as the overwhelming amount of violence in American society.

"I just can't even fathom how 26 good, innocent people's lives can be taken and it doesn't change the hearts of this country," he said. "Everywhere I've been, people still cry. They still cry. I still cry. It's just not right. Hopefully, this will at least change some hearts about, `Man, we've got to do something to be better. We've got to do something to make this a better place.'"



The leader of the Newtown Police Department was among the officers who responded to the shooting. In the weeks that followed, he worked long hours as the department kept watch over a jittery town and helped coordinate an outpouring of help and donations, including flags from overseas military bases that were given to the town and still fly at the police building.

"We were just thankful people were so concerned about our welfare," he said. "You only expect great nice things to happen periodically, and they were happening in rapid succession. The generosity was overwhelming."



As families gathered in the Sandy Hook firehouse to await word of their loved ones on the day of the shooting, Malloy was the one who broke the news that they had been killed. In April, he signed new gun restrictions into Connecticut law.

"Dec. 14, for me at least, and I'm sure for most of the people in Newtown that day, changes everything to some extent. And it certainly has changed many things in the last year, most directly whether it's public policy or the things that we talk about or the baggage that we carry around," he said.

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