'A pivotal moment': Father and son find healing in Charlie Kirk memorial after UVU shooting

OREM — Thousands across Utah and beyond gathered — virtually and in person — to honor political activist, Charlie Kirk, whose murder at Utah Valley University on Sept. 10 shocked the nation. Among those mourning — Ryder Warner, a high school student. And his father, Ryan Warner. Although the experience traumatized the family, they’re now focused on healing. “I’m still emotional about it,” Ryan said. “My son was there during an assassination.” Ryder was at UVU that day to take a test as part of a concurrent enrollment program between his high school and the university. “It has affected me drastically,” Ryan added.

A nation in shock

In the days following the incident, a memorial service was held in Arizona, drawing attendees from around the world. Erika Kirk, Charlie’s widow, addressed the crowd with gratitude and grace. “Thank you for coming … from all over the world … to celebrate my Charlie,” she said, wiping away tears. For Ryder, the memorial offered a sense of peace. “It definitely brought peace to my understanding about it … that has helped me overcome the situation too,” he said.

Finding hope in tragedy

The Warner's said the memorial was more than a tribute — it was a turning point. “I do believe it will be beneficial for everyone involved, and everybody that sees it,” Ryan said. “I think this is a pivotal moment. I truly, honestly, do,” From the music to the speakers, the Kirk memorial deeply inspired this father and son. As the nation continues to process the loss, they hope Charlie Kirk’s legacy will spark unity and healing.

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