Former head of Salt Lake Diocese comes to defense of LDS Church
The former head of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Salt Lake City issued a statement this evening defending The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints' support of California's Proposition 8. November 7th, 2008 @ 8:20pm
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The gay supporters are acting like the LDS church and other church's has " cheated them " but the thing they don't realize is this was a vote that everyone eligible to vote could put in their thoughts. The vote passed. Deal with it and move on and quit singling out 1 church because of it.
Good job old man! Way to stand up for what you believe in and unite other religions to come together for a common cause of goodness and to stand up for what you know is RIGHT.
They must think that a majority of the people who voted in favor of Prop 8 were mormon. Maybe they should actually do a rundown of population statistics in California and realize that there's no way the mormons alone could have influenced the vote that much. If mormons really had that much influence, a few other things would be changing as well:
Mitt Romney would have won the presidential election.
Every business in the country would be closed all day on Sundays and after 5 PM on Monday nights.
Beer would not exist.
95% of teen clothing stores in the country would be closed for selling immodest clothing.
Protestors wouldn't be allowed within 200 miles of Salt Lake City on general conference weekend.
Mormons don't even have enough pull in Utah to get EVERYTHING they want (they do get most of it however), does anybody really believe the tiny minority of mormons in California has that much sway with all the baptist and catholic people who voted in favor of Prop 8? Honestly...
Apparently that is why the gays are up here protesting.
Just trying to clarify the issue.
If it is wrong for members of a church to donate of their own free will to a cause that they have religious convictions about then this country is in serious trouble.
Even if the church did provide financial backing I still don't understand why the protests and stuff...seems kind of pointless to me since the church didn't do anything illegal or unethical.
1) I am personally not comfortable with the gay agenda, especially their social experiment to raise children. I believe there are too many unknowns in doing this. It is risky to expose children to this, in my opinion. When in doubt, WHERE CHILDREN ARE CONCERNED, I err on the side of protecting children.
2) This is not simply a California issue. The problem is that as United States, we agree to honor the unions and contracts of other states. Gays are not obligated to live their entire lives in California. When they come to a state where their union is illegal, what is society supposed to do?
3) I personally believe that marriage is an institution between one man and one woman. What California was doing by marrying gays was to set a precedence for many other types of unions which, I feel, would cheapen and demain the meaning of marriage.
4) I do not hate gays. I am not comfortable with their lifestyle, but I respect their choice to do whatever it is that they do. AND, I respect my choice to work towards keeping the definition of marriage as it was.
5) I will always aid my daughters when they are engaged in a good cause. I'm very lucky to have such great daughters. They have all of the respect in the world for those around them; too bad that the world is not always fair. This will pass.
2) The US Supreme Court has clearly determined that states do not have to honor gay marriages performed in other states. But it is a bigoted denial of equal protection under the law to do so, and is wrong regardless the state.
3) If you think gay marriage cheapens or demeans marriage, don't participate in a gay marriage, but don't FORCE others to share in your bigoted anti-gay agenda through enforced government policies. Why should you be allowed to use government to deny equal protection based in your religious bigotries? You shouldn't have the right to deny others equal protection just because you have a religious superstition against a group. Your marriage will only be cheapened by YOUR behavior. Your "cheapening and demeaning" argument is blatantly bigoted and silly. If marriage is being cheapened, it is by heterosexuals who aren't honoring their commitments. Your side cheapens marriage by using it as a cheap political weapon against a select group you aren't "comforatble" with.
4) Being gay is not a lifestyle. Gays, like heterosexuals have varied lifestyles. Their sexual orientation is all they have in common, and sexual orientation is NOT a lifestyle. Is your heterosexuality a lifestyle? Lifestyles vary more between individuals than they do across groups--especially when grouped by sexual orientation. You seem to have some shallow imaginary view of a stereotyped gay lifestyle. I can't even imagine how you can assume a common lifestyle across such a diverse group.
5) This will pass. You are right, eventually you and your daughter's cause will be seen by most Americans as blatant bigotry and as a period of embarassment for those who denied equal protection to a select group. This is not a good cause, and willingly and zealously causing suffering to a select group is bigoted and it is hateful, regardless your personal emotions towards gays or your justification of your motivations. It is immoral to deny equal protection, and the anti-gay actions are based in a willingness and eagerness to cause suffering based in religious superstitions against gays. One doesn't show "all the respect in the world" for a group by denying them equal protection or by considering their participation in marriage as cheapening and demeaning. You are right it isn't fair and that it is too bad that it isn't, but then you contributed to the unfairness and injustice.
You may not care, but I do. It matters to me that people go out of their way to deny equal protection to a select group for no logical reason. I was raised to be empathetic and to have a strong sense of equality, justice and service. I guess that is one reason I have served so long in the military--I value protecting the Constitution and the rights it protects--including the right to equal protection under the law found in the Fourteenth Amendment.
As far as being a bigot, I am very willing to listen to reasonable justifications supporting your agenda Jason, but I honestly have read almost no reasonable arguments for denying equal protection to gays. I am willing to change my mind, but I won't be persuaded by faith-based superstitions Jason. Why should I be? Most of the comments I read in support of Prop 8 are based in religious bigotry and superstitions and blatant lies, not strong reasoning or self-evident moral principles. I have read a few reasonable arguments from the denial-of-equal-protection people, but they were few and are outweighted by the arguments against denying equal protection.
If not for religious bigotry against gays, I do not believe many people would deny them equal protection.
Why would you assume I am gay? Do you find it so inconceivable that a person would care about the equal protection of a group of which they are not a member?
I am a heterosexual father of five. My wife is beautiful and not "equipped very much like" me at all. I don't get depressed. I have faced many challenges including the loss of two children and many combat tours, but I don't get depressed and I certainly don't feel dejected. Why all the dehumanizing assumptions? It seems you do care enough to make the time to dehumanize me.
And what if I were gay? All things being equal, why is a gay person any less worthy of respect than a heterosexual person? To assume they are less worthy seems inherently bigoted and immoral. No person should participate in excessively dangerous or exploitive sexual relations, but this is the same for homosexuals and heterosexuals. It is the risk and exploitation that makes some sexual behavior wrong. Heterosexuals have proven themselve equally capable of exploitive and risky sexual behaviors. One justification for the state support of marriage is the providing of a context for safe and non-exploitive intimate relations. This is not the only purpose, but it is one purpose that is applicable to both gay and straight people.
It would be perverse for a gay person to have sex with a person of the opposite sex, because that is inconsistent with THEIR sexual orientation. It is not perverse for a gay person to have sex with a gay person, BECAUSE THEY ARE DIFFERENT. Do we all have to be the same to be good? They are different from you and me, but they are no less worthy of respect, and protection of the law. I also think they are no less worthy of love and respect generally, but that is not a legal issue.
It isn't that complex Jason. Gay people are different from you and me, and to expect them to live as if they are straight in order to be worthy of equal protection and respect is as perverse and wrong as expecting me or you to live as if we were gay. Enough. You don't care.
It's truly sad that in all your years of service you still either haven't learned or choose to dishonestly define "equal protection" as if that were the issue here. When in the history of the world has marriage ever been defined as being between man and man or woman and woman? To redefine marriage to include those terms is just that, a re-definition in order to grant a special right to someone who chooses to mock and pervert human sexuality. It is your God given right to freely pervert and mock all you want and you have all the "equal protection" in this country you need to do so without fear of reprisal. To demand special and additional public benefits for privately pursuing new heights of sexual perversion is a misguided and ineffective attempt to sooth a burning conscience.
You're right. I don't care.
It's not special rights, it's equal rights; the right to marry the one you love, just as heterosexual couples do. I'm sorry you feel homosexuals are out to "mock and pervert human sexuality". Many people felt the same way about interracial marriage 150 years ago. I, for one, am happy we as a society have progressed from such bigoted nonsense.
I know....it's not a choice, right? Explain that to the thousands who have found the courage to change and leave behind their once chosen homosexual behaviors. While your at it, name just one black person who changed who they were in order to escape slavery.
It's for this reason, that young girls and boys go through this short period of confusion, that I say that gay's raising children is a very dangerous experiment. For society to condone this behavior with the status of "marriage" would be akin to child-abuse. Don't we always want to give our children every chance to live normal, productive lives with a chance of genetic proliferation? Don't we want to keep them happy, and lead they toward loving natural relationships which are in harmony with the mainstream of nature?
I've noticed that most gays are young people who have not yet had kids, they're simply young and think that they have the world figured out. They have the ignorance and denial of youth going for them... they simply do not know that later in life, once the kids grow up and leave the nest... 99% of us know better. To paraphrase, "If you don't have liberal idea's when you're young, you have no heart. But if you don't have conservative idea's when you're old, you have no brain." There are few older people fighting for gay rights, who aren't simply trying to be popular with a majority of younger people.
My babies? What does that even mean? Weird.
Name calling and violence have been tactics of the anti-gay bigots for centuries and continue, but the actions of anti-gay bigots do not justify any in-kind actions from those who are against denying equal protection. These actions also do not show that all anti-gay people call names, vandalize or are violent. That would be a stupid assumption. Speaking of stupid assumptions:
How do the actions of a few people who are protesting the denial of equal protection to a select group prove my stupidity? That is stupid none88.
It almost didn't pass none88. Although some are alittle slow morally, we will wait patiently for you all to catch up as most of you did with civil rights for blacks and women. It is a matter of time. Of course fear could throw the moral progress down at any time, but we will lovingly and patiently work with you all.
The government guarantees student loans because having an educated population is important for perpetuating society.
Is it, therefore, discriminatory if the government refuses to guarantee loans for some other purpose? Namely, is it reasonable for me to claim that I'm being discriminated against if the government won't guarantee a loan for me to start a business?
I assert that the benefits of marriage granted by the state are legitimate means of encouraging men and women to marry, have children and raise balanced, enlightened and self-disciplined children who understand the value of virtue and are devoted to and capable of carrying civilization on their shoulders; that the state has a compelling interest to that end; and that MARITAL RECOGNITION AND MARITAL BENEFITS SHOULD NOT BE EXTENDED FOR ANYTHING LESS.
Thus, I believe, the State does have a compelling interest in incentivizing heterosexual marriage.
Pray tell, what is the state's implicit compelling strategic interest for incentivizing marriage between two men?
I believe it is self-evident that the purpose of marrying a man and a woman is fundamentally different and richer than any purpose you can articulate for "marrying" two men.
Marriage constitutes the sanctioned institution for the legitimate exercise of procreative power.
This only becomes an equal rights or equal protection issue if we were to recast marriage as nothing more than a legal commitment between two people who love each other. Thus, the gay movement seeks to do violence to the traditional institution of marriage by fundamentally redefining its purpose; and stripping it of its most salient and unique feature.
Back to the business loan/student loan example. Just as a reasonable person will conclude that my claim of discrimination (because the government won't guarantee my business loan while it guarantees student loans) is specious, likewise, any reasonable person will conclude that denying marriage to gays is not an equal protection or equal rights issue unless you radically redefine the purpose of marriage.
You are mistaken and deceived if you buy into the lie that the churches' defensive stand is offensive in nature. It is the immoral/amoral who are on the offensive and seek to impose a new worldview by recasting the purpose of marriage as something else - and it does have profound implications for civilization and society.
You might still think that such a change is desirable and that you want to live in a society wherein the contrast between virtue and decrepitude is blurred. Perhaps you like the idea of loosening moral restraint and want your kids to inherit such a world. You are within your rights to attempt to instantiate such a place. But at least be honest enough with yourself to recognize that you are thus seeking to impose a new world view in place of the old one.
And be warned, your choices will define your destiny. Those who work to do violence to the ordained institution of marriage by redefining it will find themselves answerable to God for what they've done. Those who stand on the sidelines, blind and apathetic to the stakes will also inherit the wind.
So, with that logic, heterosexual infertile couples are not very worthy of marriage?
It's like someone applying for a pizza delivery job who has a car that is completely broken down beyond repair, and claiming they are more qualified for the job than someone who has no car at all.
Second, the more complete statement is "I assert that the benefits of marriage granted by the state are legitimate means of encouraging men and women to marry, have children and raise balanced, enlightened and self-disciplined children who understand the value of virtue and are devoted to and capable of carrying civilization on their shoulders; that the state has a compelling interest to that end; and that MARITAL RECOGNITION AND MARITAL BENEFITS SHOULD NOT BE EXTENDED FOR ANYTHING LESS." Not every couple will have children, not all children will be sound of mind and/or body, not all children will grow into model members of society as I've depicted. However, the exceptions prove the rule.
Third, can you tell by inspection which married couple will attempt to exercise procreative power but fail because of infertility? I think not. Conversely, with absolute certainty, I can tell you that coupling men is an infertile proposition in all instances.
Fourth, if you abandon the definition of Marriage as the state sponsored institution for sanctioning procreative power for the perpetuation of civilization and society, I submit that the state has no compelling interest in marriage and should get out of the business of licensing them and incentivizing altogether. If not the purpose outlined, then what justifies state involvement in the institution of marriage?
It is one thing if a couple of men decide to live with each other in a committed relationship. I might try to reason with them; but I wouldn't constrain them since they are legally consenting adults.
However, it is, in my opinion, quite a different matter to inject children, who cannot legally consent, into such a home and to subject them to an unnatural, biologically degenerate environment. There is much more to raising children than simply loving them. Parents imprint themselves on the children on a subconscious level and are the model for many of the child's a priori perceptions, beliefs, and understandings about the world, about adult roles and what constitutes healthy, virtuous relationships.
I do not believe it is in the children's interest, nor do I believe it is in the state's interest to do this to children. In fact, I believe that imprinting the rising generation with homosexual parents is contrary to the state's strategic interests that I outlined.
Every country on this earth has laws, religion, and moral definitions that keep their society intact. For most of the middle east it is the principals of Islam, for Asia it is Buddism. Each of these countries derived most of their laws to reflect the majority of the moral and religious belief system.
Some third world countries have matriaricle societys, they believe in polyandry, the men are subsurvient to the women. Their society has functioned that way sucessfully for thousands of years because they adhere to the moral principals laid out.
So back to America, our laws reflect the major religious values that were intentionally established in the beginning.
So today a minority group (gay and lesbians) want to change major laws for them. Tommorrow it will be groups who believe in pedofilia (they already exist) wanting laws to protect them, then Beastiality and so on. So where does it end????? If you think this is redicolous then you need to do some research on the pedofile groups.
So if a society constantly changes it's principals and values to meet all the needs of a minority the country eventually the country ends up dissolving.
So this is where it ends, it ends by not starting, not starting to appease every minority group regarding issues that redefine the nations laws.
They allowed an adult store in their city for Husbands and Wives. Don't you find that a little bigoted?
Chris and his wife started up the shop and slid it through city council. Yes in the very heart of downtown you can witness a mild sex shop. Let it be known that there is very little shopping to be found by Gays and Lesbians at the shop. Is it because they are not Husbands and Wives? You tell me why not one Gay Rights group in Utah has gone after the shop. You would think they would since they do not sell to that community.
Most any child can tell you what nature intended and what is supposed to go where.
I can't deduct any part of my donation and would not expect that. This is not a charity; it's a political proposition.
http://www.mailonsunday.co.uk/news/worldnews/article-1078505/Barbra-Streisand-host-stars-support-gay-marriage-campaign-California.html
Steven Speilberg and others
http://www.looktothestars.org/news/1267-steven-spielberg-says-no-to-proposition-8
Apple Computer
http://news.cnet.com/8301-13579_3-10074793-37.html
Google Cofounders
http://www.mercurynews.com/samesexmarriage/ci_10795816
Satan knows no boundaries, and he has full control over a lot of people right now. He is not hiding anymore either.
Memebrs of the church gave a lot of money, but so did Catholics and other religious people.
besides, the people donating money didn't have to declare their religion so where are you getting your figures from AND are you subtracting the amounts that members gave supporting the anti-prop-8 cause?
But correct me if Im wrong, A church is made up of a "people" otherwise its nothing more than a building.
Therefore the LDS church gave 2 million!!
and besides, the most money came from the LDS church thats why you stand out more than the rest! not to mention most of whining came from the LDS too!!
Whining, I guess I haven't heard any gays whining, like Melissa Ethridge said she is now not going to pay her state taxes anymore and said that Ellen D. shouldn't either, and that she voted for Obama so she could get more rights.
Obama raised over $600mil for his campaign- where did all of that money come from??? Should we track down it's religious ties???
Like the LDS, Obama is a negative member of society!
All the God Fearing people should then protest Apple. This makes me mad. The media is not mentioning this, when In the gay community I got an email with the article.
A few suggestions: Feed the hungry in our own backyard, help homeless people find quality affordable housing, work toward ensuring everyone has access to quality health care at an affordable cost, make sure no man/woman/child has to go without warm coats and winter protective clothing, etc.
If they are contributing money to a political cause, wouldn't that then make them a political lobbyist, which they claim to not be.
So which side of the fence do they want to be on? A non-biased religious organization, or rich corporation with funds to influence political decisions?
The gay coalition outspent pro-Prop 8 coalition - 38 millions to 32 millions.
2.4 percent of pro Prop 8 votes were LDS. The rest of other church groups made up the rest of the votes.
The stark difference can be noted..... those who supported the Prop 8 are church-going (Hispanic Catholics, Black Baptists & Evangelicals, etc.
fewer whites going to church while much higher percent of blacks and latinos do, hence the disparity -
The HARD question must be asked, why isn't the gay coaltion picketing the hispanic Catholic Churches, black Baptist Churches, even NAACP offices, since they made the overwhelming majority of the voting bloc in support of Prop 8?
Feel free to look it up yourself, but no it does not. It only gives a description of "a Church", which could be any Church, that loses sight of their own beliefs for something else. Possibly with the same things that Satan tempted Jesus with in the desert while he was fasting.
Even members of the Mormon Church who find themselves apostate from their own beliefs could be members of this "Church" Looks like some mebers have on this issue.
Which is a really good point. Be true to your beliefs and don't sell out under pressure.
book of mormon 1 nephi
Without the Mormon involvement, do you think Prop 8 would have passed?
You are correct that Mormons would remove many more individual rights and freedoms of others if it weren't for the US Constitution. It is the US Constitution that keeps Mormons from removing people's civil liberties in Utah. When unchecked, the LDS Church is VERY willing to mess with people's rights. Thank goodness and reason for the wise Founding Fathers who added the Bill of Rights to the US Constitution.
You are sour because they lost. Targeting the Mormons just shows how irrational the other side is being.
It was a fair fight. One side will always loose.
We have a great country with a system in place to create laws or revoke them. Your explanation does not make any sense when we apply the laws.
When those opposed to Prop-8 decided where to target their after-election protests, it was VERY rational to consider how much the LDS Church contributed. How can you say that it is irrational to protest against the largest contributer? Did you think about what you were saying AF?
You seem to be defending your Church against a claim I did not make. I did not say the LDS did not have the right to donate money or participate. I am explaining why the LDS Church is taking extra heat on the issue. I think they deserve to be protested. I see this very much like the protests over civil rights in the 1950-60s South.
It is not irrational to target an organization for protest that certainly ensured the passage of the Proposition by their disproportional contributions. Again, I am not saying this is illegal. I don't accept their position (I find it immoral and bad), but I am not saying they don't have the right to hold it.
I am sorry that Prop 8 passed, but I am not surprised, and I am not that broken up, because I believe bigotry is slowly dying out. Anti-gay prejudince is the last major bastion of bigotry in this country. Things are going in the right direction, and with Obama in the Whitehouse, I have hope that things will get better generally. I plan on dedicating myself to being more charitable, but no more tolerant of bigotry.
Was it a fair fight? The pro-Prop 8 side spread a lot of silly lies, but that is part of the game in American politics, and smart people were able to see the lies for what they were. We smart people still lost:)
Three minutes on scopes.com showed how many fear-based lies were being spread.
I agree we have a great country and I celebrate the peaceful process we have, but I don't even know what your last sentence means in the context of what I wrote. I do appreciate that you are a gracious winner, but I also celebrate the protests, if they are peaceful. I am sooo grateful for the Constitution and the Bill of Rights. Can you imagine how bad it would be if anyone who isn't a Religious Right Christian had to rely on the fairness and goodness of the pro-Prop 8 crowd? Sure we can imagine it. It was called the dark ages. Ahh the Enlightenment.
Another thing to consider with these gay rights is HIGH RISE IN HEALTH CARE COSTS Aides was first introduced by the gay people. Soon after heterosexuals and other innocent people became infected, so now it is not just a gay disease anymore. Thanks to the gays, it is now a disease that does not discriminate. Gay men have 52% higher infection rate of hepatitis than the general population does. By legalizing gay marriage it would thereby increase health care costs for all. This would effect the majority of people, and not just the minority for gay marriage anymore.
This yahoo in Washington DC (John) who is the editor on Americablog.com is the one pushing this. Hey idiot: No wonder your not getting support for change you big freakin vindictive baby. He is blaming Utah mormons for the loss on prop 8. He is trying to find info on the biggest companies in Utah and drive them out of business, (good luck).
I am disgusted with SOME of the gay community who has lashed out to members of the church who had nothing to do with this. You are losing support and making yourselves look bad by vandalizing churches, temples, houses and even beating people up.
Should I go down to Castro in SF and start burning shops and beating the crap out of gays? Whats the difference? This is sad.
If you want to add to the "fairness" of it . . . 10 million people can't be wrong twice -- can they?
It was the CA Supreme Court that said that gays could get married. The Supreme Court does not have the authority to do this.
Prop 8 was placing an amendment into the CA State Constitution (the most amended constitution on the planet, by the way,) in order to prevent just this sort of thing from happening again, and to represent the views of the majority of Californians (not just the LDS ones) that Marriage should be restricted to between a man and a woman.
So where does that leave gays? With domestic partnerships, which carry most, if not all the rights of marriage. I've heard arguments that "straight couples can go to Vegas and get married and go to any state and have all their rights recognized, but I and my partner can't." This is both true and untrue at once. Some States are joint property states, some are not. Some states recognize common law marriages, some do not. The laws regarding the rights of married couples vary somewhat from state to state. So do the laws regarding domestic partnerships.
Instead of spending all this money to usurp marriage and change its definition to something that it has never meant anywhere at anytime, maybe they should focus on securing transferable rights under a domestic partnership.
People are objecting to the constitutional rights of Mormons. Suck it up, you lost this time. We respect you when we lose.
GOD HAS MORE GAY CHILDREN THEN LDS FOLLOWERS!!!
1% MORMON
12% GAY
1 MORMON = 2300 GAY PEOPLE!
[Please don't shout with ALL CAPS.]
Or does that mean that up to 12% have had a homosexual experience?
1% Mormon? Actually, more like 0.03%. Or 0.0075% if you count the entire world's population and use real church attendance numbers.
BTW, 90% of all statistics are made up. And 100% of your comment is stupid.
How many under age kids have you taken advantage of?
90% of all statistics are made up? Isn't that a statistic?
It's obvious you need another cheese burger!
Guess they knew the amendment had NOTHING to do with "RIGHTS".
Check yourself.
http://aclu.org/lgbt/relationships/37706prs20081105.html
http://www.latimes.com/news/printedition/california/la-me-gaylegal6-2008nov06,0,5471913.story
"The petition charges that Proposition 8 is invalid because the initiative process was improperly used in an attempt to undo the constitution's core commitment to equality for everyone by eliminating a fundamental right from just one group – lesbian and gay Californians. Proposition 8 also improperly attempts to prevent the courts from exercising their essential constitutional role of protecting the equal protection rights of minorities."
I don't know if they will prevail, but I think they are in principle correct. I am aware of the various ways this issue can be viewed, and you are right that I am sure this is about the denial of equal protection to a select group. I have heard other arguments, but I don't find them convincing. I'm still listening and open however, but don't expect lame, faith-based bigotries and superstitions against gays to persuade me. Most of these arguments come from immoral positions that are not founded in sound, self-evident principles.
Regardless, what I think doesn't really matter. What matters is what the court thinks and also what the people think. It is a balance. I think the blatant denial of equal protection takes this beyond a majority-rules situation. The minority sometimes must be protected from the majority by the court.
The Supreme Court probably doesn't agree with me right now. I would wait to file suit if I were the ACLU and others concerned with equal protection. I would wait until we have a more balanced court. We currently have three rabid religious right justices. It isn't the best time to push a case for civil rights up to that level in my opinion. Unfortuantely, neo-Conservatives don't care about civil rights for individuals anymore. They care about corporate rights and state rights (the states' right to deny individual rights that is). Barry Goldwater was for individual rights. What has happened to your party people?
I personally think the suit against Prop 22 was just, but I don't know if it was helpful strategically for the cause of equal protection. Regardless, I do think that eventually the courts will see this for what it is--blatant denial of equal protection to a select group. The Supreme Court is not set up to do anything yet, but after a couple of replacements by President Obama and it could be.
Also, I think a propostition that reverses Prop 8 will pass in California before long. Gays are no less worthy of respect and love and equal protection than you people are. It is about your behavior towards others, not your sexual orientation. When will you all catch on to this fundamental self-evident truth? Wrong is about exploitation and causing unnecessary suffering, not one's sexual orientation. Stop dehumanizing gays and treating them in shallow, stereotyped ways.
And yes I do think this is a civil rights issue and that there are valid comparisons among the denial of equal protection to blacks, women and gays. There are differences, but they are similar enough to justify the comparison. I don't much care if you all think this is hate. I have read the attacks against civil rights protesters in the 50's and 60's and they sound oh so familiar. They were accused of the same things. Yes, these causes are VERY similar. I believe that some day we will look back at this period and wonder how so many could be so bigoted against gays. They are no less worthy of love and respect. The dehumanizing of gays is bigotry. Not all do it, but many do.
What a bunch of whining babies! I love how tolerance and love are preached by the homos, but practiced only as long as it is directed at them. Since when is tolerance and love a one way deal?
nothing but sore losers!!!
I don't call them either, BTW. I prefer the more colorful vernacular...
Troll away
Oh yeah, and your empirical evidence for god is...?
It IS being taught in the schools in Massachusetts because it was passed back there and now has to be taught as normal. and yes I know this for a fact because I moved out of Mass. I/We Lost that vote so I moved. ( sounds like a common theme posted on these boards ( "don't like it move" )
If you moved for that reason. Why don't you trust your children, they know (as well as you) if they are gay or straight!!
Goggle "teaching homosexuality" it is being taught
In Provincetown, Mass., the school board has voted to begin teaching preschoolers about homosexual lifestyles and to back hiring preferences for "sexual minorities." Susan Fleming, superintendent of Provincetown schools, said "The whole question is making gays and lesbians, whether through visuals or examples or acknowledging different family structures, ... visible."
Funny how they removed prayer and religion from schools but can introduce this.
http://www.wnd.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=54420
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=puI4pfRB0w0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=puI4pfRB0w0
The universe!
I believe we are all here for a reason. We will learn and grow and answer for our actions.
Now, in response to the notion that all homosexual individuals have learned their sexual orientation has been shown to be incorrect. Some, not all, have a condition while growing as a fetus where a portion of the brain is subject to varied amounts testosterone. This is caused by either extreme stress on the mother which denies testosterone or intake of excessive test. by the mother which supplies an excess to the fetus. There is a "grayish" spot which forms as a result. The spot is usually the same size in males and a different size in females. With the hormone variance the fetus' development may be altered to exhibit traits of the opposite sex. Thus, a male born with female tendencies or a female born with male tendencies. Once again I stress that this is some not all. This is slightly more seviere than a baby born with drug dependencies, and slightly less than one born with down syndrome.
As a result, SOME individuals in the homosexual community suffer from a condition that cannot be helped. In the future tests may be made available to detect and remedy this condition while in the fetus' developmental stages.
I have wondered why the opponents of Prop 8 have singled out the LDS Church? I know they say it is money, but the percentage of California residents that are LDS is very small -- at least it doesn't even approach the 52% that voted in favor of Prop 8.
Why aren't these people protesting in front of Catholic Cathedrals and Jewish Synagogues?
It always seems to be one sided there way or whine until they get their way.
Do you actually have access or knowledge, factually of where and what the members' tithing is used toward? It's not what you believe, it's what can be proven openly and honestly with facts.
Do you know what your tithing is supposed to be used toward? You might want to do a little research and determine what your tithing is being used for. I can name a few sources, lucrataive salaries, stocks in corporatons, real estate holdings, book deals, etc.
BTW, the No on 8 campaign spent more money than the Yes on 8 campaign. So if you think money spent on the Yes campaign is what caused prop 8 to pass, by that rational it should have failed.
This country allows for opposing voices!!! There will always be a loser when an election happens..Thank God for this amazing country.
Now we see the true colors of the GLBT movement. I haven't read any stories of people wanting to firebomb Planned Parenthood or NARAL after the proposed anti-abortion amendments failed in ND and CO. The Pro-life crowd just shook their heads in disbelief and started to regroup and reorganize.
However, within hours of the official word that Prop 8 was passed there were calls on gay blogs to "Burn their temples to the ground" and "burn their churches and tax the charred timbers."
The came for the Mormons,
and no one stopped them . . .
This is not just or justice. These techniques are straight out of Lenin, Stalin, Mussolini, Hitler and Mao's playbook.
This cannot be allowed to stand.
I suggest that any person or organization who is harrased, boycotted, threatened, etc. file complaints with the local and federal authorities (if it crosses state lines.) If it is targeted at a person because they are affiliated with the LDS church, it should be prosecuted as a hate crime. Furthermore, individual and class action civil suits should be layed at the doorsteps of each identifiable individual and every organization participating in this type of intimidation. And seek punitive damages, make sure it has at least 7 or 8 zeros after it.
Use their weapons against them. Irony is sweet.
If those who are so vocal in singling out the LDS Church would conduct themselves in a manner that shows respect for themselves and for others, they might have some credibility.
How the tide has turned!!!
Give it up already! We live in a democracy...YOU LOST! I don't even think it's about morality as much as prrservation of religious freedom! Why should churches be forced to go against their basic tenents so as not to "discriminate" against gays and lesbians???
They shot themselves in the foot with threats of legal action etc.
Kudos to you Bishop!
Thank you again
hit them where it hurts!!
To endorse gay marriage is to contribute to the moral decay of our society (assuming one believes homosexual relations to be immoral). I am interested in keeping our society as morally strong as possible, for as long as possible. It is hard enough for our children today; what will it be like for the next generation, or the one after that?
http://www.ornery.org/essays/warwatch/2004-02-15-1.html
You will see his letter mentioned on news for SLC, but I have been watching news sites in Sacramento, San Francisco, and LA and they make no mention of this this letter.
Sac is silent, SF is glorifying peaceful demonstrations in the Castro, and LA is cheering on protests of the Hollywood types.
http://www.marketwatch.com/news/story/Former-Catholic-Bishop-Salt-Lake/story.aspx?guid={BE149180-C54A-41B7-B3DC-14EAC89B5D6E}
Go to this page and look under Barrack Obama on civil rights...
hhttp://www.ontheissues.org/senate/Barack_Obama.htmim?
Protesting this him would probably at least get you a little farther than protesting the church...what do they think the people inside the church are doing... "oh no they don't like us?" They probably do the same as most of the rest of us and roll our eyes and say "are they serious?"
Courage and integrity, yes, and now those priests have been transferred to other churches,, I am sure they stopped harming kids because they were relocated.
http://www.bishop-accountability.org/resources/resource-files/databases/DallasMorningNewsBishops.htm#Weigand
Thank you.
I would have voted to keep marriage between a man and women. I did when that was voted here.
It should be remembered a similar amendment was voted DOWN here in Utah.
I wonder who did that?
First, now that Prop 8 has been passed--what is the LDS Church's view and position on civil unions, which would provide rights and responsibilies for same-sex couples?
Second, will gay and lesbian Californians who wish to have a civil union be allowed to now that Prop 8 has passed?
Second, to what extent does the morality of a law compel the LDS church to voice its opinion and exercise influence in the political process? For instance, if there is a religious belief that alcohol is not permissable as it is a sin, does the church then act to see that made illegal or restricted from society.
2) By who? The goverment? Depends on the state. By the LDS church? Don't count on it.
3) The LDS take a stance on moral issue when it is appropriate to do so. Alcohol is not allowed in the church. The local regulations are regulated by the state.
Do gay religions even exist?
Or are gay religions just Protestant religions that have some kind of added but formal spiritual basis or special theology just for gay people?
Do they use the Bible, the Koran, Dynetics or some other Holy Book as their basis for their marriages?
Can you give me an example of a gay marriage from one of these "Holy Books?"
Why do gay marriages base their marriages on heterosexual marriage?
Do gay marriages ever use the vows of fidelity and commitment or the words "Holy Matrimony"?
Or do they prefer non-religious weddings given by judges or other State elected officials?
What percent of gay marriages end in divorce?
Do any gay religions forbid divorce?
Do any forbid political involvement?
And I would please like to know the answers to these questions without a response from someone who is going to just make a joke about it.
I really need some sleep or some caffeine. Either way, I look forward to reading some responses hopefully.
I just can't get over the fact that with marriage today being tossed away via divorce and couples who simply don't want to commit and they end up living together....marriage seems to be no big deal. And yet gays are all up in arms over it all. What gives? It is as if their main focus is to force everybody else to notice. They want to force their adgenda on whoever isn't paying attention?? Help me out here.
The Catholic Church is generally just as bigoted in their denials of individual protection under the law as the Mormon leadership, so their defense is not credible. In fact, it is laughable.
Neither organization has earned the right to accuse anyone of bigotry at this point. Their venomous anti-gay campaigns of lies, hatred and bigotry will eventually be an embarrassment to them. At that point both organizations leaders and blind-faith true believers will do what they have always done--the LDS will lie about their history, and the Catholics will ignore their history.
This is another example of how religion too often leads to moral relativism and causes real suffering to outcasts and shadow people (You remember them. Jesus hung out with them, and blessed them.).
Fortunately, I know many loving Mormons and Catholics who refuse to accept the morally retarded position to which blind obedience and moral relativism lead--these loving, brave, moral members were against Prop 8, and will vote to support equal protection when the issue is voted on again in the future.
I believe that eventually love and kindness will prevail, and the haters on this issue will have to go into the closet--unless fear drives people the other way--which is always a possibility.
Another fortunate thing is that we have a secular system of government that prevents religious zealots from having gays, witches, unbelievers, and disobedient children tortured to death. Remember the era when religion was in charge? We call it the Dark Ages. I'm sure you also know that the Bible Belt was the Lynching Belt, and that the Bible was used as a primary defense for slavery and against the fight for women's rights and women's sufferage.
The gay movement is really showing how much it cares about other people as well. When you disagree with someone else...do you stand in their face and yell? I'd be curious to know or if you can point out if either the Catholics or Mormons went to such violent measure as the gay movement is doing now. Why?? What is your/their point? What ever happened to civil, productive discussion? Or...is is that gays simply want to be noticed when nobody is doing so?
Frequently, the better informed you become about a spacific group, (who are different than you) the more you find that you can actually understand them and be supportive.
These people and their "supporters" are a bunch of spoiled babies. If they had gone about things the right way and not used threats about civil actions, I don't think churches would have felt the need to become involved on such a large scale. When you threaten that unless they are allowed to play their stupid games in our churchs as well as in front of a judge, and that we have to accept it or be punished, that changes the WHOLE picture!
Get over your selves already! You are abunch of publicity seeking [removed]! Work on laws for domestic partnerships...Put your money to use helping other people...I am all for you guys having rights, such as health insurance, survivors right's etc....JUST DON'T TRY TO TAKE MINE AWAY by making MY church go along with your stupid game!!!
Do your homework. The Mormon people who participated pay taxes. The Church did not pass any law or donate as a church. They just asked the members to wake up and protect the definition of marriage.
If the church said wake up and start a petition for polygamy, do you think it would pass? NO! You see, the residents of CA voted 52% in favor of prop 8. I'll bet the residents would vote 99% against polygamy. The church is harmless. You just want to wail and gnash your teeth.
Second, if he is our president, I will support his policies if they do not promote homosexuality.
Prince marries a prince is not an appropriate book for children.
I also support same-sex marriages and their families. Support for one is not mutually exclusive for support of the other. When same-sex marriages are legal and Constitutionally protected, as they eventually will be, then traditional one man-one woman marriages will still constitute at least 90-95% of all marriages. Same sex marriages will do nothing to threaten nor diminish this cornerstone of society. Support for same-sex marriage is not support for the dissolution or legal sanction of traditional marriages. They will continue to flourish as the overwhelmingly predominant form of marriage and family.
Same-sex marriages will succeed or fail in about the same proportion as do traditional. They will be religious and sacred or secular in about the same proportion. They will raise healthy, well adjusted, loving, nurturant, empathic and responsible children in the same proportion.
There will be two major consequences which some people might consider untoward.
First, parents will have a harder time teaching their children that homosexuality is a grievous and heinous moral sin when they see their next door neighbors and their school mates to be essentially the same as they are.
Second, with the legalization of same-sex marriages, polygamous marriages will also eventually and unavoidably be legalized. Then, happy day, the Mormon Church can return to living completely and fully The New and Everlasting Covenant as per their Holy Scriptures. The Manifesto of 1890 was a political expediency and not Scripture, and can easily be reversed. Doctrine &Covenants 132 is still The Word of the Lord. The restricted polygamy that the Mormon Church practices today will no longer be limited to sequential Sealings to be fully realized as Plural Marriage in Heaven, but can return to the Pure and Holy Covenant in this life which the Lord God intended for his children and Only True Church.
Praise God!
http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-moneymap,0,2198220.htmlstory
You will see that those who were for same-sex marriage actually had more money than those against it. Can we really make this a money issue?
I believe it is a moral issue. To me it looks like the funding was equal. I would expect that that fact alone would equal equal covering of the issue in the media and voters were informed and voted because of their beliefs. The claim that the LDS church is messing in another state is bunk too. Look at the out of state/in state statistics. Looks fair to me.
Why are you okay with a Court decision but not okay with a Voter decision?
There are many things in this country I disagree with---i.e. Abortion, but I don't spew hate for those who have them and perform them.
You have a first amendment right to protest, but do so in the right manner.
The African American protests were NOT anti-white as much as pro-integration. They didn't tag churches and speak of hate. They marched and spoke of unity as was their right.
I agreed with that movement , but disagree with your movement. However, my guess is you will eventually have your marriages, just like abortions. Still, the law does not make you moral, it only accepts your immorality.
A church should not influence any one on how to Vote
When it comes time for election all Churches should BUT OUT
They should stick to teaching the word of GOD!
When the government puts its imprimatur on a particular religion it conveys a message of exclusion to all those who do not adhere to the favored beliefs. A government cannot be premised on the belief that all persons are created equal when it asserts that God prefers some." Supreme Court Justice Harry A. Blackmun
Myth:
The phrase "separation of church and state" does not appear in the Constitution.
That is true, the phrase "separation of church and state" does not actually appear anywhere in the Constitution. There is a problem, however, in that some people draw incorrect conclusions from this fact. The absence of this phrase does not mean that it is an invalid concept or that it cannot be used as a legal or judicial principle.
There are any numbers of important legal concepts, which do not appear in the Constitution with the exact phrasing people tend to use. For example, nowhere in the Constitution will you find words like "right to privacy" or even "right to a fair trial." Does this mean that no American citizen has a right to privacy or a fair trial? Does this mean that no judge should ever invoke these rights when reaching a decision?
Of course not
We would not have all the controversy and all the problems we have to day
If all the Churches would BUT OUT.
Religion is a privet thing and should be keep that way
The Amendment says that Congress shall not "establish a religion", nor shall it "interfere with the free exercise thereof."
The same people who wrote that Amendment also established the offices of Senate and House Chaplains, and required that all sessions of Congress open with PRAYER. How do you wiggle your way around that one?
The Amendment forbids the establishment of an official State Religion. That's all it does.
As for your nonsense about rights to "privacy" and "a fair trial": Those issues are specifically addressed, though not by name. Habeas Corpus ring a bell? How about the right of petition, the prohibition of "cruel and unusual punishment", jury trails, etc? What about the requirement of search and seizure warrants, and the "due process" clause?
Perhaps you should READ the Constitution.
Just what is the State Religion of UTAH???
A majority of Utahns happen to belong to the LDS Church. This being a democracy, it follows mathematically that a majority of our elected officials will be LDS as well. The only way to avoid that would be to FORBID Mormons from running from political office, or at least to limit the percentage of Mormons who can serve. How would you reconcile that with "democracy"?
A majority of elected officials from the Bible Belt are Baptists or other related religions. The Great Lakes region elects a lot of Lutherans. Catholics predominate in Massachusetts. So what? It stands to reason that the elected officials from a given state do (and should) represent the people of that state.
You don't have a counter-argument for my post, so you fall back on the standard liberal bigot rhetoric. Typical.
2 : a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings
— hypocrite adjective
Children
They should be seen and not heard
Being "tolerant" and "loving" doesn't mean that I have to blindly accept everything that everyone chooses to do.
I like how all this "tolerance" and "love" is only supposed to flow in one direction.
Marriage belongs to The People, and nearly six million of the People of California have spoken. Only about 1% of those voters were LDS. The vote was almost exactly 50/50 in Los Angeles County itself, which is not exactly known as a hotbed of right-wing conservatism, to say the least.
When you can convince a majority of the people in the most liberal state in the Union, it should be obvious that your values are wildly out of touch with society. How that is the "Mormon's fault" is beyond my meager comprehension.
Thank you.
http://www.tips-q.com/content/so-who-funding-proposition-8