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Thousands of Prop. 8 opponents protest LDS Church at Temple Square
Thousands marched in downtown Salt Lake Friday night to protest the passage of California's Proposition 8. Like their counterparts in California, the Utah protesters targeted The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
November 7th, 2008 @ 10:00pm
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Mike R.
Report Comment 7:28am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Whatever We are tired of Mr. Whipple and his ilk trying to ram his morals down our throats also. He should keep his nose out of what doesn't concern him also.
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Pleg201
Report Comment 7:36am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Sore Loser @Mike R. - Mr. Whipple is just upset that they lost!
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Supernurseboy
Report Comment 7:43am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Interesting... @Pleg201 - Just a month ago, I read a story on here that during conference President Monson urged unity and tolerance. When making those statements, one would expect that you would not follow that up with urging members to donate to such a divisive issue.
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Sandywig
Report Comment 7:47am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
So... @Supernurseboy - because the issue is controversial and somebody will probably end up with hurt feelings, the church should leave this issue that is loaded with moral implications alone... is that right???

In that case, the church should just stop taking a stand on anything and should just let anybody with any idea roll right over them. And why? Cuz someone might get their feel goods hurt.
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Supernurseboy
Report Comment 7:50am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Not what I was saying Sandy. @Sandywig - My whole point was that you cannot support both unity and division. The words are antonyms so somebody was either unaware of the social implications of meddling in another states business or they really had no intention of seeking unity in the first place.
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Sandywig
Report Comment 7:58am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Well then... @Supernurseboy - let me be the first to say that the church is all about division. It is about setting itself apart from what it considers the evils of this world by being what it considers to be the standard of what is good and righteous in this world.

The church also invites all to come and partake of what it considers the good and the righteous... no one will be excluded... but the church will never bend on its core standards or doctrine.
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Supernurseboy
Report Comment 8:09am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Please don't open that can of worms. @Sandywig - I addressed this yesterday but it is obvious that I must repost my comment from yesterday.

"This is a temporary set-back. This civil rights fight is really in its beginning stages and historically, the LDS church doesn't change its mind on issues until it is painfully obvious that their membership will suffer if they do not. In the late 1800's, the LDS leaders chose to remove polygamy from its practices after "Deseret" was rejected from statehood. Soon after the rejection of polygamy they attained the goal of joining the union.

They did this despite Brigham Youngs previous state of "Now if any of you will deny the plurality of wives, and continue to do so, I promise that you will be damned." The same thing happened with "Woman Suffrage" It took The Utah territorial congress twice passing it before it stuck.

The LDS church waited until 1978 to give African Americans full rights and privelages in the LDS church. This was after Brigham Young had said the following two statements Brigham Young said his discourses are as good as Scripture. "I say now, when they [ His Discourses] are copied and approved by me they are as good Scripture as is couched in this Bible . . . " (Journal of Discourses, Vol. 13, p. 264; see also page 95.) And he said the following: "You see some classes of the human family that are black, uncouth, uncomely, disagreeable and low in their habits, wild, and seemingly deprived of nearly all the blessings of the intelligence that is generally bestowed upon mankind....Cain slew his brother. Can might have been killed, and that would have put a termination to that line of human beings. This was not to be, and the Lord put a mark upon him, which is the flat nose and black skin." (Journal of Discourses, Vol. 7, page 290)

Since God told him these things, wouldn't it be prudent that the LDS church follow his prophecy? The answer is no, the LDS church gave African Americans the priesthood because they would have ceased to exist as a church if they had not, just as they would have ceased in the previous two instances. I know that there will be a day that their stance will become so unpopular that they will once again be forced to change their stance on Gay marriage or they will lose their memberships.

I know that it is a matter of a few decades and Homosexuals will be getting married in LDS temples even if that seems far-fetched now, so did the disbandment of polygamy and blacks receiving the priesthood in the 1800's. Wait and see.."
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aubh727
Report Comment 8:15am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Nope... @Supernurseboy - Looks like you already did.
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Hardtaill
Report Comment 8:37am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@aubh727 - Jacob Whipple says:

"We're tired of the church injecting its politics and its morals into the lives of those that don't belong to their church."

Jacob,

The Church has a moral obligation to teach the truth about any subject upon which it sees fit to comment in a non-political manner. It has done so.

The Church has dispensed money and facts in a worthy effort to maintain the proper definition of marriage and its proper place in the lives of citizens. It has also taught that same-sex marriage is improper and should be banned as an option for society. The Church's decisions in this matter are correct.

Voters, overwhelmingly, have agreed with the Church's response to this issue and many other right-thinking religions have, and will, teach the same principles.

When one is faced with a moral dilemma, the correct course of action is to respond with wisdom and correct thinking brought about by experience. Same-sex unions or relationships, have, more often than not, caused a decline in the quality of life for all who are connected to the act. It was the responsibility of all concerned to show support for Prop 8 and to clarify the laws and desires of the majority. We did.

Jacob, it is now your responsibility to uphold this law as you would any law and obey it, live it, and enjoy the benefits of it. I suspect that you will garner the strength to do so.


'Tail.
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Ned McHaggis
8:53am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
And Hardtail @Hardtaill - Will be "UPHOLDING" and "LIVING" and "ENJOYING ALL THE BENIFITS" of all the laws passed by OBAMA and PELOSI and the other left wing socialists in power? Cant have it both ways there Hardtail. What will YOU do ? YOur arguement is "a law is a law is a law" and one MUST obey . Lets see you wiggle your way out of that one Mr Conservative
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Heber-ite
Report Comment 9:02am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Ned McHaggis - LDS believe in living, honoring, and sustaining the law. I may not like Obama's policies but on January 20th I will have respect for our president. If he passes a law I will follow it because its just that- a law.

What are these benefits you speak of?
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ICS4S
9:27am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Heber-ite - If that was true why did they wait so many years to renounce polygamy?
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Utah 101
9:35am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
And... @ICS4S - ...why does the church continue to support people who are in this country illegally?
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iliveforfall
Report Comment 10:03am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
It's called compassion... @Utah 101 - If you were struggling to feed your family, wouldn't you do anything you could to feed them, including crossing a border where there is a better life? I agree that we should try to enforce our laws better, but now you are crossing a line by saying that the church supports someone who is every much deserving of it as you are. Did you do something to be born in this country? No. Pure luck. You are just looking for one more thing to bash the church on, and it shows your lack of education.
huh? -13
MindFarked
Report Comment 11:03am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Re: It's called compassion... @iliveforfall - It's also called, the Mormon Church is in those poor and striggling countries so why can't the church support it's members and their community on their own soil in a LEGAL manner?

If a Law is a Law is a Law, then the church is not following the letter of the law or the spirit of the law by supporting illegal aliens in this country.

You can't have it both way. You can't mold the laws and scriptures to fit your way of thinking and then expect to be right all the time.

I certainly have compassion for them and if the LDS church truly has compassion for those struggling families then they could certainly help them out finacially instead of building a $2billion mall!
huh? -1
I am smrt
Report Comment 11:25am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@MindFarked -
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Rick P.
Report Comment 11:10pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@MindFarked -
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Lee D.
Report Comment 11:08am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
So.. @iliveforfall - If I lose my job and start struggling to feed my family, is I o.k. for me to visit your house and steal from you? Or maybe I should steal from Utah's governor. After all did Jon do anything to be born into his extremely rich family? No. Pure Luck.

From what I understand the LDS church disfellowships or excommunicates all felons, except for repeat illegal aliens. So it's sort of a double standard. If you're going to stick up for the churches doctrine you should at least by 100% consistent.
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Paul P.
Report Comment 7:52pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Lee D. -
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Moreno
Report Comment 12:12am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Better ways to handle the situation @iliveforfall - The church could support people in other countries without supporting a flood of illegal activity. Activity that drives down wages for the poorest people of the US.

First, the Church should call for the repeal of NAFTA

http://www.sanders.senate.gov/news/record.cfm?id=296446

Second, the Church should call for the IMF and World Bank to forgive all of Mexico's debts.

Here are some links, but if you want more info, Google IMF World Bank and Mexico

"How the International Monetary Fund and the World Bank Undermine Democracy and Erode Human Rights:
Five Case Studies"
http://www.globalexchange.org/campaigns/wbimf/imfwbReport2001.html

"Press release: World Bank and IMF share in blame for Mexico's crisis"
http://www.hartford-hwp.com/archives/46/018.html
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Betty V.
7:40am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Hipocrits @iliveforfall - The CHURCH needs to keep it's nose out of the business of other states. Most people in other states don't agree with what the LDS church stands for, but they don't stick there nose into it.
renogirl
Report Comment 9:26am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@Betty V. -
HowISeeIt
Report Comment 3:05pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@Betty V. -
Staci S.
Report Comment 8:24pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@Betty V. -
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Micah M.
Report Comment 10:49am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Follow the Money @Utah 101 - Illegal Immigrants make more money in the US and if they are mormon, they will thus pay more tithing as well as do business with other mormons increasing everyone's tithing donations. 10% is not fair and equal across all income earners. 10% is much harder on the family making $20,000 vs the family earning $200,000. This is not a christian method of tithing.
ditto +12
Dwight s
Report Comment 11:42am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Really? @Micah M. - Do you know what the root word of tithing means? One tenth. What are you talking about?
ditto +8
DJC 47
Report Comment 12:57pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Not Christian? @Micah M. - It is straight from the bible fool.
ditto +4
cp1120
Report Comment 11:14pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Micah M. - check out Malachi in the Bible Dude!
paratrooperjay33
Report Comment 3:04am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
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iliveforfall
Report Comment 9:56am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Come on now... @HuntingFisher73 - I am all in favor of Prop 8, but now you are being a bigot. The moment you stoop and start throwing around names like that is the second you lose your credibility.
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HeavyAir
Report Comment 11:31am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
I remember when "Gay" meant you were happy and joyful.. @HuntingFisher73 - Thanks to "evolutionary misfits" the word had been prostituted to mean your preference or association to deviated sexual orientation.

"Don we now our gay apparel...."
now means you're crossdressing.
huh? -11
Black Blood
Report Comment 11:57am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Happy and Joyful @HeavyAir - That means the LDS are Gay!
Frankjohn
Report Comment 1:56pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Black Blood -
Mike E.
Report Comment 9:28pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Black Blood -
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Frankjohn
Report Comment 1:53pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
HeavyAir... @HeavyAir - That's a good one.
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paratrooperjay33
Report Comment 3:08am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
"Gay" @HeavyAir - I remember when the word gay was getting tainted. My friend used to hit me in the face when I did something stupid. Like pass gas in a public place, he would say...."Dont be gay" fallowed by another hit to the face or punch to the stomach. Good times..eh eh.
Chattertrap
Report Comment 3:53pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
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iliveforfall
Report Comment 9:58am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Seriously... @ICS4S - this issue isn't about polygamy. I can't figure out why you people keep bringing that up. Is that the best you can do?
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ICS4S
Report Comment 10:45am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@iliveforfall - No its not about polygamy, its about the government restricting how people are married.

I was taking issue with the church honoring and sustaining the laws of the land when they clearly did not do that for 20 years, until the government brought a lot of hardship down on them.

The mormons didn't want to be told how they could live and marry and yet 150 years later they are now all for telling others how they should be married.

It was called oppression and intolerance by mormons in the early church years, but now its moral and just in their views.
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I am smrt
Report Comment 11:40am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
ICS4S @ICS4S - The government isn't restricting how people are married it was put to a vote and the majority passed the proposition!

By the way it was the government (California Supreme Court) who recognized gay marriages, the people overruled them. So now what, do you want the government to step in and ignore the majority and rule the vote invalid?

I find it really funny how everyone is blaming the Mormon church for this, they're not the only church that spoke out against gay marriages, why are you only mad at the Mormon church on not the Catholic and others?
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ICS4S
Report Comment 12:00pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@I am smrt -
DarkStar
Report Comment 1:47pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@I am smrt -
DarkStar
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@I am smrt -
allatwitter
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Raja
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@I am smrt -
Jmd
Report Comment 9:11pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
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tah2
Report Comment 8:39am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@I am smrt -
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ICS4S
Report Comment 12:07pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@ICS4S - oops sorry I am Smrt, we seem to have reached the KSL message board argument limit here.

Regardless of how it was decided, the issue is still that the church is trying to institute the same type of oppression they received many years ago, disguised as morality.

I dont blame just the mormon church, but since this article is about the church, im just discussing the hypocrisy involved on its part.
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I am smrt
Report Comment 12:12pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@ICS4S -
Sammie
Report Comment 12:19pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@ICS4S -
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I am smrt
Report Comment 12:21pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
ics4s @ICS4S - Dang, I think we just discovered a problem with KSL's site. Anyway agreed, let's not argue anymore

How bout them utes!!!!!
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ICS4S
Report Comment 12:26pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@ICS4S - yep we definitely broke the comments on this one.

and yes go Utes!! :)
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Wildman_001
Report Comment 8:29pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The government restricting how people are married @ICS4S - You do realize that the second same-marraiges are legal so would polygamy, right?

Since many states have offered civil unions and and other "terms" other than the term marriage to allow same-sex couples to be legally joined this is not about being able to carry insurance on your partner, or doing your taxes. It is about the religeous element and sanctity of a traditional marraige. That being said, I cannot support their cries of descrimination.
Fred charles rayovac
Report Comment 8:33am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@Wildman_001 -
ditto +1
Jmd
Report Comment 9:04pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Hardship Down On Them @ICS4S - So should the queer have a lot of government hardship brought down on them in order for them to straighten up, is that what you are implying?
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mrsd23
Report Comment 9:16pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@iliveforfall - this has everything to do with polygamy. if the mormons are so worried about marriage sanctity why was polygamy legal? so it's ok to have 4 wives but gays can't marry?
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connemara
Report Comment 10:50am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@ICS4S - You and many others need to read the manifesto on polygamy. No where is poligamy being renounced. Church memebers are encouraged to obey the laws of the land. Also, we are expected to obey all laws yet we have the God given right and obligation to, through poroper political channels, do what we can to change laws when we object to them. "The Church" has the political right and obligation (to it's members and gospel teaching) to go to the proper and political channels to make it right. That's what they did the other day in California. That is the right of any organization or entity.
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ICS4S
Report Comment 11:37am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@connemara - Maybe you should read the second or 1904 manifesto.

"I hereby announce that all such marriages are prohibited, and if any officer or member of the Church shall assume to solemnize or enter into any such marriage, he will be deemed in transgression against the Church, and will be liable to be dealt with according to the rules and regulations thereof and excommunicated therefrom.

JOSEPH F. SMITH,
President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints."

So you are right, the original manifesto was a little vague and just said hey we aren't doing anything wrong and we aren't teaching it. Not until 1904 did they actually condemn it.

Im not say they do or dont have a right to say anything, im just saying the hypocrisy is really showing here.
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larubia
Report Comment 3:11pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
History @ICS4S - So if you're going back in to history to show the the LDS church is being hypocritical, then isn't our country being hypocritical voting in a black man for president, to uphold a constitution that when it was written, classified him as a slave, without the rights of other men? Our country has changed as times have changed. The LDS church also makes changes according to the times, but they never change their doctrine.

The doctrine of plural marriage is still a doctrine. But it has never been a doctrine that was meant to be practiced at all times. Such is the case of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob practicing polygamy, but Adam did not, neither did Noah. It takes a simple math calculation of the amount of women to men to figure out that not all people could be polygamists. The LDS church did not "change their mind" on polygamy in order to become a state. They were greatly harrassed and endured hardship until finally the revelation came, from God (the LDS church does not make decisions by voting, but according to revelation from God)to end the practice of polygamy. It is not a doctrine meant for all to practice at all times, only when needed.

Further, enough has been clarified about blacks and the priesthood, and as was stated, it was a time based condition, I believe mostly due to the state of the world. Look at the feeling of the entire country towards the black population at that time and you will see that it wasn't an accepting environment.

Now onto gay marriage. This isn't an action of the church against gay marriage, even though it is not condoned by the church. It is an important part of the legal process to protect the definition and protected status of marriage. If that is changed, then there could eventually be all kinds of actions taken against the church because of their stand, and this supposed civil liberty would take away parent's rights to sheild their children's innocense from sexual indoctrination that goes against the values of their parents. The church will never perform gay marriages in the temple. If you think that then obviously you don't understand the doctrine on eternal marriage. Eternal marriage means that couples will live together forever with the ablitity to bear children. That's what eternal life means. It would be impossible for a gay couple to do so, there will not be pregnant teenage girls to adopt from in that exalted sphere. So you're absolutely wrong! The LDS church will not support other issues such as abortion, and they will never allow for homesexual marriage. It has no place in God's plan.

Further more, it has no place in the well being of society and children. Step outside of religious beliefs for a moment and take a good hard look at what this would do for society? Legalizing homeseuxual marriage supports and promotes it. It sets it on equal ground as traditional marriage. Traditional marriage is no longer protected, which means that neither are the children. There have been many studies showing that for a child's optimal well-being, they need to be raised by both biological parents, by a male and female influence. What happens to all these children raised in families that don't include their real parents? Have you or do you know anyone who has had issues in their life because they lack a relationship with a biological parent? Would you like to be raised in a homosexual environment? This issue is often approached from the selfish interests of adults, but think of all the children now involved and yet to be involved as marriage becomes nothing more than an agreement between 2 people who are looking for their own fulfillment.

Forget religious views for a minute, take a good hard look at how this would impact our society.
ICS4S
Report Comment 4:25pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@larubia -
tree*star
Report Comment 10:11am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@larubia -
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ICS4S
Report Comment 4:26pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Larubia @ICS4S - No you have it wrong, it would have been hypocritical if they didn't vote for him because he is black and we as a society are beyond that foolishness now.

A lot of the points you are bringing up here dont seem to apply to what I stated, but, my point was that the government should not have been telling the mormons how they should marry, and I cant seem to find anything that says the church agrees with what the government did back then, and likely you wont.

But now the church is helping promote doing the same thing to another group.

As far as gay marriage being an accepted practice, it does not force the church to recognize or perform such marriages, the church itself has said thats not a concern because they are protected by the constitution from that kind of thing. Are mormon churches being forced to marry gays in other states? No.. That's simply untrue.

The whole argument about protecting the status of marriage is ridiculous, there is not one valid argument other than your perceived fears that it will do anything to destroy your family or anyone elses. Without getting into what you believe is in store for the afterlife and your religion, there is no valid reason to deny them marriage.

Beyond religion, legalizing gay marriage does not promote it or even force you to accept it, you can continue to believe its wrong and not practice it just like you do now. Also, having a child raised by both biological parents would indeed be ideal but there are millions of single parents out there that do a fine job on their own. Having two parents regardless of the parents sex would be even better.

Your belief that gays have no place in society is no more right than those who said mormons had no place in society and set out to murder, drive them out and force them to give up what they believe.
Technuz
Report Comment 7:15pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@ICS4S -
Wildman_001
Report Comment 8:37pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@ICS4S -
larubia
Report Comment 11:24pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@ICS4S -
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Wildman_001
Report Comment 8:16pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Renounce polygamy @ICS4S - Since Utah didn't exist as a "state" there was no law that dictated what should be done. It was by design and desire to be part of the United Stated of America that polygamy was rejected.
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Jeff L.
Report Comment 10:26am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Ned & Heber The President and governor don't pass laws @Heber-ite - Congress and state Legislatures do. Even the State legislature passed a LAW that allowed the people to vote to change the language of the state Constitution.

Prop 8 does not ban anything, it only defines what marriage is and that is between a Man and a Woman.

Marriage is not a right granted by government any more than being born is but the government has been delegated permission BY THE PEOPLE to regulate it.

Marriage is for the purpose of perpetuating the human family. Homosexuals cannot perpetuate the human family and so there is no need for them to be married.

If it's about love, they can love just as a heterosexual or unmarried bisexual can love. If it's about the same benefits and privileges that married people have regarding health care benefits or taxing issues, then let them petition the government for them.

Let's not make this a race issue as it is not, let's not make this a discrimination issue as it is not, we don't need to give a special classification for every person or type or person. This is not an entitlement issue.

I could say more but I think I've said sufficient to raise significant dander.
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mrsd23
Report Comment 9:24pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Jeff L. - what about the unfertile women or the men who can't produce? should they be banned from being married also, or the couples over 50 who can't have kids. what about them? you know in the state of utah you can marry your cousin if your over the age of 60? and gays can't be married? thats ridiculous.
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mugsy29736
Report Comment 12:18am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@Jeff L. - marriage is for perpetuating the family? then what about couples that can't have kids? shouldn't they be banned from getting married?
it is about love and also the same benefits and privileges that straight couples automatically get upon marrying. and yes, health care and tax benefits are very important, and especially hospital visitation rights!!! what if your significant other was in the hospital and you couldn't visit him/her because you can't legally get married? wouldn't that make you enraged?
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Robert A.
Report Comment 8:25pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Rights @Heber-ite - I agree, he is now my president and I will honor him as such, however, respect is earned. If he fails to follow the Constitution, I will also exercise the same right the protesters are exercising on the "public sidewalks" in SLC, to protest and express yourself. However, they are missing the point here, all that was done was to define "Marriage". Since they can not use that name for it, have your representatives find another name for it and allow you that legal definition.
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tah2
Report Comment 9:05am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@Heber-ite - There is a difference, you can bet that Obama will not put forth legislation that is about DISCRIMINATION. No matter how matter people vote or support discrimination, even your leaders - you should not follow.
split vote 0
Diedre J.
Report Comment 9:09am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Once upon a time it was the law @Ned McHaggis - that any man or woman who was caught praying was put to death. A decent man named Daniel refused to follow that "law". For that he got thrown in with lions. It takes courage to stand and not be moved.
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Utah 101
Report Comment 9:32am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Once upon a time... @Diedre J. - ...there was a decent man who was murdered because of his belief in the non-traditional family - Joseph Smith refused to follow the law at the time and would be in violation of this law as well.

It seems homosexuals are following in some pretty big footsteps in an effort, much like Daniel and Joseph, to do what they think is right.
ditto +31
Web geek
Report Comment 9:41am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Wrong @Utah 101 - Joseph Smith wasn't murdered because of polygamy. It was because he spoke the truth. His life was in danger long before the doctrine of polygamy was introduced. It wasn't law abiding citizens that killed Smith, it was criminals and out-laws acting against the law.
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Utah 101
Report Comment 10:02am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
"It wasn't law abiding citizens that killed Smith" @Web geek - You’re right - it was religious fanatics who feared his sexually deviant lifestyle would corrupt this nation and destroy marriage as they knew it.
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Beatus
Report Comment 10:10am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Utah 101 - Wrong. Polygamy was not the driving force behind the persecution of the church, it was the church's perceived political power that scared its neighbors into acting irrationally.

Why is the LDS Church being targeted on this? Why are there not protestors at the Catholic churches? The LDS Church merely joined in a coalition of other groups. Moreover, without the votes of blacks and latinos in California, prop 8 would not have passed.
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MiddleLinebacker
Report Comment 10:29am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Beatus -
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I am smrt
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@Beatus -
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I am smrt
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@Beatus -
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VanBar
Report Comment 10:52am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Beatus -
Black Blood
Report Comment 12:03pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
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Lee D.
Report Comment 10:17pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Beatus -
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Utah 101
10:43am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Beatus - Why is the LDS Church being targeted on this? @Utah 101 - Why not go after the Catholics? Or Southern Baptist?

Unlike Mormons, they were not founded by someone who had, and religious teachings include, a non-traditional family.

Unlike Mormons, they do not continually complain that they were persecuted for their belief in the non-traditional family.

Unlike Mormons, they have always supported marriage as between one man and one woman
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aurorapandora
Report Comment 11:04am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Utah 101 -
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Ginski01111
Report Comment 6:23pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
re: "It wasn't law abiding..." @Utah 101 - Wow! That statement is so poetically ironic, I don't think most of the brainwashed people posting here will even understand its implications. Good job Utah 101!
law
Report Comment 12:32pm - Sun Nov 9th, 2008
@Ginski01111 -
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Reasonable_One
10:40am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Excuse me..... @Web geek - but JS was practicing polygamy in secret long before the doctrine was introduced. It wasn't a very well kept secret either.
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I am smrt
Report Comment 12:00pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
reasonable one @Reasonable_One - A bold statement for having no facts to back it up.
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Nuf Ced Mcgreevy
Report Comment 12:13am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Reasonable, you are most definitely not reasonable, your full @Reasonable_One - of crap. Joseph Smith did not practice polygamy before the doctrine was itroduced. Joseph Smith refused to accept polygamy and was told that he would lose his Prophetic calling and would be damned if he did not comply with God's commandments. He recognized better than anyone that polygamy would be a double edged sword, taking members away from the church and keeping people from joining. He also knew that it would do the same thing when it was commanded by God to be stopped. He prophesied that it was not a permanent thing, he also prophesied that many members would not give it up when the commandment came.

The thing you people fail to understand is not every member was a polygamist. Polygamy was a calling and it came by way of calling. More than anything else, it was a test of faith for that man and his wife who were asked to accept the calling. Can you imagine how difficult it would be to accept it? It was a test commandment, to prove them, whether they would be obedient or not to God's will. Many weren't, and many weren't when the commandment to end it came as well.

Joseph Smith himself never had any children with any of the other wives that he married under polygamy. He only had children with Emma, whom he always considered to be his wife, his one and only. In Nauvoo, all of his wives lived in a separate home. He lived with Emma, and his children and he provided for his other wives but Emma was his. He obeyed because God commanded him to. Just as He commanded many prophets in the old testament to do the same.

Get your facts straight before making ridiculous and outlandish, ignorant comments.
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litqoe
Report Comment 12:52am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Reasonable_One???? @Reasonable_One - Guess you don't know much about the LDS church ... LOL ... and ... proposition 8 was voted on by the people of California, not the LDS church ... all they did was join a coalition of churches to call and talk to California voters. Do you really think they made that much of a difference? What a hater! Did a mormon hurt you feelings?
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Micah M.
10:59am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Actually, it was because he... @Web geek - Destroyed a printing press and was jailed for breaking this constitutional amendment. While in jail, masons who he stole his temple ritual from along with exmormons who smith stole their wives and daughter from stormed the jail. Do your history. Don't trust the biased watered down version forced on you in Sunday school.
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I am smrt
Report Comment 12:26pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
micah @Micah M. - Same can be said for you not to trust the biased watered down version that was forced upon you.
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P T.
Report Comment 10:02am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Big difference. @Utah 101 - Daniel and Joseph did not yell and scream in front of
places of worship. They were God-fearing and humble.
They did not blame one group of people for a decision made by a multitude.
Apples and Oranges, here.
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Micah M.
11:02am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
what do you know @P T. - Joseph's Myth and Jesus are about as opposite of two people on earth.
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Richard C.
Report Comment 11:46am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Some clarifications... @Utah 101 - Joseph Smith was not murdered for polygamy. He was not even in jail at the time for polygamy. He was in jail on charges of treason for ordering the destruction of the newspaper called the Nauvoo Expositor. Polygamy was not against the law at the time. Other religious groups such as the Onida Free Love Community were practicing non-traditional unions. They eventually evolved into a silverware manufacturer and gave up their religious practices. Not until the Edmunds-Tucker act after the saints had migrated to Utah was polygamy made against the law in the US.
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Big Love
12:01pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
You're mostly right, Richard, as @Richard C. - Mr. Smith was indeed jailed as a result of his illegal order of destruction on the local newspaper....a direct violation of the First Amendment....though his aim was to distract the paper from further publishing his exploits/marriages/crimes against the children of the community....some as young as 14 were forced to be wed to the sick (no swearin', please).

May he continue to rot in (we said no swearin', please!), and may Mr. Jeffs join him soon.
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iliveforfall
Report Comment 2:58pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Wow! @Big Love - Those are some hateful words for someone you never met. How do you know what his aim was? And where does it say he was married to a 14 year old? I see those claims all over on these posts, but never any solid evidence to back it up! Why don't you bring some logic and good facts to the table in this argument?
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Big Love
Report Comment 8:51pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@iliveforfall -
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@iliveforfall -
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Hardtaill
Report Comment 9:09am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Ned McHaggis - My support of John McCain was a choice which was not made lightly. My support of Barack Obama, now that the votes have been cast, will also be handled in the same manner. Please keep in mind that men and women do make mistakes and voters have a way of taking care of of those who make too many. Obama will be handled much the same way. On the other matter, God makes no such mistakes and his laws leave you no choice if you are wise.


'Tail.
ladylee
Report Comment 8:52pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
AN inquiring mind would like to know @Hardtaill - Can you explain your comment?
Hardtaill
Report Comment 9:05pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Hardtaill - Yes. It was in reference to a post quite farther up the list. Yesterday, the two posts were quite close in proximity.
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Paul L.
Report Comment 8:58am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Hardtaill - The LDS Church has its right to speak its opinion the same as any other organization. However, to keep people from being happy is against the constitution. The LDS Church has overstepped its bounds on this one.
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boardnski
Report Comment 9:12am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Really? @Paul L. - I don't see how the LDS church is keeping anyone from being happy. If they're holding you down and torturing you, then that's one thing but keeping people from being happy? Find a better argument.
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Linda B.
Report Comment 9:25am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
boardnski @boardnski - I think Paul brought up a fine argument. Obviously you are not in a the shoes of a homosexual. How do you know how this is effecting their happiness?
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boardnski
Report Comment 9:33am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Perhaps... @Linda B. - you shouldn't be so quick to make assumptions. You're right, I don't know how this is effecting their happiness and neither do you. None of us know how it's affecting their happiness because we're not them. We are the only one who can decide if we will be happy or not. If you're not happy, then toughen up and make your own determination to be happy. You can't rely on anyone else to make you happy.
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Linda B.
Report Comment 9:47am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@boardnski - Yes, we shouldn't rely on others to make us happy. But imagine knowing what would make you happy, and not being able to obtain it because fellow man says you cannot.
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swank
Report Comment 8:39pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Hmmm.....what would make me happy? @Linda B. - I think I would be REALLY REALLY happy if I could have more money. It will probably take at least a million (tax free) to get me to my happy place. I want more money, it will make me happy and so I am entitled to have it. The laws against theft and robbing a bank are in direct conflict with my constitutional right to happiness, therefore lets abolish those laws so I can move forward on my road to happiness. Oh, and that darn Mormon church needs to change their rules on stealing too, after all, being happy is what I need. And fee airfare to wherever I want to go would be great too...I mean I would be VERY HAPPY
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mugsy29736
Report Comment 3:34am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@swank -
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iliveforfall
Report Comment 9:30am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
I agree @boardnski - Happiness is not forced upon nor taken from you. You make the choice to be happy. If a heterosexual has a desire to be married, yet they haven't had the opportunity, does that mean that they are forced into being unhappy? No. You may not be able to choose whether you are attracted to a member of the same sex (notice, I think that acting on your homosexual feelings is a choice), but you can still choose to be happy no matter what your circumstance.
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C L.
Report Comment 9:29am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Paul L. - So it is ok for comcast and google and at&t to have opinions in the matter, but not a church? Interesting.
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sgillies
Report Comment 9:44am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
um yeah it is okay @C L. - See comcast google and at&t are not NON FOR PROFITS!!! AND they are not churches! Churches to keep their nonforprofit standing cannot take a direct role in politics.
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Wil H.
Report Comment 10:15am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
They didn't... @sgillies - This was not a political issue...It had no canidates form any party...What was at stake was a decision to either allow or disallow something. Politics is where there are 2 or more canidates running for a public office. That did not happen here. SO this does not count as politics. Therefore not only one church, but many churches advised their members to vote no. Many of them did it over the pulput. They violated no law, they enforced Gods Law. Now Gods Law is Mans law in California. It is just a piece of paper. Marriage is defined as Gods Law between Man and Woman. Not between anyone else. Every Christian Religion who supports Gods Laws does not supoport gay Marriage. Remember the mainstream people did not force this ballot issue...The gays did and they were expecting everyone to accept it as discrimination. Problem is that most mainstream people think there are enough laws already on the books to protect everyones rights. Real discrimination is a very rare thing these days to find where no law of the land does not cover the right to protect a group.
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iliveforfall
Report Comment 10:27am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Where does it say that? @sgillies - Where does it say that churches who are tax-exempt cannot take political stances? Could you please show me? Do you really think an organization as large as the Mormon church would go into that kind of legal debate without knowing their legal footing? Are you some kind of tax lawyer that knows the law inside and out? Or are you just following the rest of the herd blindly, just like you accuse Mormons of doing? It's a funny double standard, isn't it?
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aurorapandora
Report Comment 11:18am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The reason @iliveforfall - The reason that the mormon church did not contribute DIRECTLY to this campaign (they contributed through their members and through their business entities) is because if they had contributed DIRECTLY, they would have lost their tax-exempt status. Did you not notice how careful the church was about how the contributions were made? If the church could have contributed directly, they would have donated a massive sum, you can be sure.

When my grandfather was a Stake President, he wasn't even allowed to put lawn signs on his front lawn in support of any one candidate, so careful is the church about this status.

Specifically: "For a 501c3 church to openly speak out, or organize in opposition to, anything that the government declares "legal," even if it is immoral (e.g. abortion, homosexuality, etc.), that church will jeopardize its tax exempt status."

Does that answer your question?
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Craig S.
Report Comment 1:08pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Aurorapandora @aurorapandora - Nice try at bootstrapping your argument.

Your Stake President grandfather is an irrelevant and tangential argument. There was no candidate involved in Proposition 8. However, I suspect there would have been no problem if your grandfather put a ‘Rock the Vote’ sign in his front lawn. (BTW Rock the Vote is a 501c3 organization).

As long as you’re going to pull a direct quote from a website at least have the courtesy to credit the website: http://hushmoney.org/501c3-facts.htm. BTW you will not find this exact verbiage in the tax code. To put some perspective on section 501c3 of the tax code, Wikipedia.org is organized under this same tax code, as is the America Red Cross, as is the ACLU, etc. This is a tax code used by many not-for-profit organizations who on a regular basis mobilize their volunteers/members to create, put in place, maintain their agendas and raise money.

How many organizations who wanted people to vote ‘no’ on proposition 8 are 501c3 organizations? How active were these organizations in contributing funds or asking people to contribute funds on their behalf? Did they preach from their bully pulpits in their meetings asking their members to vote ‘no’ on prop 8?

As long as you are going to quote tax code please specify what part of the tax code was violated by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
aurorapandora
Report Comment 8:34pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@Craig S. -
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swank
Report Comment 8:54pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
"Churches to keep their nonforprofit standing cannot take a direct role in politics". @sgillies - Tell that to Barack Obama's former pastor.

While church's need to be careful to maintain their non-profit status, and participation in "partisan" politics and endorsements should always be avoided, advocating for a citizens initiative seems well within the boundaries. Let's not forget that "the church" consists of people, citizens of this country who have the right to vote and advocate for legistlation. I completely disagree that the church, meaning church members who are also citizens of this country, have the right to participate in this legislative process.
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4Brtndr1
Report Comment 10:01am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Wise Up @Lucky13 - All of those things you listed are ILLEGAL activities. And while being gay may be morally reprehensible to you and your ilk, it's not illegal.

I know about a bazillion gay people and not one of them has ever said a thing about being molested as a child. Maybe some were, who knows?? But molestation does not cause homosexuality, regardless.
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Shaun B.
Report Comment 11:00am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
sorry your wrong @4Brtndr1 - Almost every state in the union has a law against sodomy. Its just not enforced
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bless_those_who_aren't_all_here
Report Comment 11:05am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Bazillion??? @4Brtndr1 - If you know about a bazillion gay people, and bazillion is not a number or even a word in the dictionary, logic would dictate that you don't know any gay people.
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Wil H.
Report Comment 11:17am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Funny... @4Brtndr1 - But less than 5% of the population is estimated to be Gay...
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Arthur
Report Comment 8:16pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Don't Worry..... @Wil H. - It's coming on winter. Some of them are gay and they won't like the cold Utah weather....Then they can go back home. Are they weaker sex? Seems like their logic is weak.
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DLH
Report Comment 4:06pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
So why are those activities illegal? @4Brtndr1 - It's because our society long ago decided that those things were so morally reprehensible that they should not be tolerated.

Gay marriage has also, and still by many people, been considered so wrong and deviant that it should never be legalized.

So Lucky13's point still stands - should we legalize anything that some very sick people want because they think they need it to make them happy?
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P T.
Report Comment 10:06am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
wickedness never was happiness... @Paul L. - enough said.
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beccam
Report Comment 10:31am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The right to happiness... @Paul L. - is not in the consitution. The line "life, liberty, and the persuit of happiness" come from the Declaration of Independence. People are not guaranteed to be happy in this country, and if they want to be, they need to earn it. The gay community at this time hasn't earned it because they did not defeat prop 8. That doesn't mean they wont in the future, just that they haven't yet.
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Jeff L.
Report Comment 10:38am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Beccam, your mostly correct @beccam - The line in the Declaration of Independence about the "pursuit of happiness" has direct relation to the ownership of real property and has nothing to do with the emotional state of the individual.
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aurorapandora
Report Comment 10:55am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
I am so glad to hear it. @Jeff L. - I am tired of American's using the Declaration of Independence as proof that they deserve to be in a happy state of mind. That is not at all what was meant by that phrase.
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Jeff L.
Report Comment 10:34am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Paul L, @Paul L. - Please don't make stupid comments about the constitution you don't know anything about.

Since when is the constitution supposed to make you happy? If it makes you happy it may make me unhappy.

It's all about selfishness!
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Just me
Report Comment 10:39am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Overstepped its bounds? @Paul L. - Seriously, how can anyone say it is preventing them from being happy? Being happy is a state of mind. Allowing homosexuals to be married isn't going to make anyone happy. Look at how many of these couples stay together just the same as heterosexuals.

Seems like everyone who is not a member of the church targets it just because it is an organization. To think with all the problems we have in this world such as child abuse, kidnapping, murder, and other crimes against humanity and all people can find time to protest against a group who stands for peace and morality. I suppose we know where people stand in their values.
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ardg65
Report Comment 11:21am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
You are kidding me! @Paul L. - So to be happy you need to have a piece of paper that says you ar married? How many times have I heard heterosexual couples saing I don't need a piece of paper to confirm what I know or to make it "legal" for example Kurt Russel and Goldie Hawn among many others. So you think that having a spouse will do the trick and you will be happily ever after, have you seen he rate of divorce in this country? It comes down to this: You claim that "all should be equal", well ok then "all" will be equal, not just the homosexuals but: the swingers, the pedophiles, the polygamysts, the Bygamists, the woman that wants three husbands, the man that wants to marry his daughter... Do you see what I am getting at here? Once you open that door, how do you stop the slow decline? If they are happy having a partner of the same sex why do they ned the paper saying they can be happy? Legal rights? no, they can arrange for that with a layer, health care issues? the government, like in SLC can provide that for them although tax payers may have a different point of view, hospital visitations? if the family does not want the partner there then ther is a problem, but no one else could prevent anyone for visiting whoever they want; so what is the real reson behind this push to legalize same sex marriage? to push it down our throats! Listen the people of California voted, I did not see any Mormons with guns to anyone's heads telling them how to vote. That should be it, end of discussion; by the way this is the second time around. But no, these "tolerant" people can not tolerate that the majority of the people objects to same sex marriage. Give me a break!
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mugsy29736
Report Comment 3:41am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@ardg65 - oh wow, the slippery slope argument. a dad marrying his daughter? pedophiles? come on..are people gonna marry animals too just because gay marriage is legal?
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mrsd23
Report Comment 9:31pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Paul L. - i agree with you. i believe in life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, guaranteed by the constitution, the supreme law of the land. it's not about gays it's about what we are guaranteed, and upholding the constitution, no state law can go against that.
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Danika A.
Report Comment 10:39pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
uhhhhhhmmmmm, that wasn't the Constitution @Paul L. - Paul, you said "to keep people from being happy is against the Constitution."

The Constitution doesn't say that anywhere.

The Declaration of Independence does state that people have a right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

Having a right to pursue happiness is different from the government keeping people from being happy.

They're keeping me from being happy by all the taxes I pay but that's not against any law.
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Nadja
Report Comment 9:18am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Hardtail @Hardtaill - Why doe the church not confine itself to teaching its morals to people who want to learn, i.e. it's members? The thing people take offense at is not that the LDS church is opposed to gay marriage. Highly understandable that they are! The objectionable thing is that they are trying to influence the lives of millions of non church members who have professed absolutely no desire whatsoever to be ruled by church law. I'm all for the LDS church telling its members they can't marry individuals of the same sex. it would be their prerogative to do so. but what business does the church have to try to pass a law like that for everyone else? None that I can see. Govern thyselves, mormons.
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gaint
Report Comment 9:56am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Last time I looked @Nadja - The Church didn't make up 52% of Californians.
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DLH
Report Comment 4:15pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Nadja - Well, the church and its membership are part of this society just like everybody else, and the decisions society makes can and do affect the church and its members, just like everybody else. Considering how extremely important the definition of marriage is to the church, the church and its members are perfectly within their rights to take a strong stand on this issue.
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Nuf Ced Mcgreevy
Report Comment 12:33am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Nadja @Nadja - In your comment you state something that no one, until they have found out for themselves, will understand. This church is led by a living Prophet called of God to be His mouthpiece on earth. That is what a Prophet does, they declare to the world what God has commanded them to declare. Why do you think that the church has such an active missionary program? It's not to "up" the number of members worldwide. It's to declare to all what God has commanded and what He wants them to do.

Thomas S. Monson IS a Prophet of God, called of God to declare His will throughout the earth. Whether you believe that or not is of no consequence. It doesn't change the fact that he is a Prophet. Prophets do not speak to their own. They speak to ALL God's children everywhere. That is what Thomas S. Monson has done. That is what EVERY Prophet since the beginning of time has done.

What President Monson has done regarding gay marriage should be a sign to all those out there who are looking for truth, as it is one of the signs of a true Prophet or not. He condemns sin, but does not condemn the sinner, just as Christ did. A Prophet does what Christ would do, as He is called to emulate the Savior as best as he can, being an imperfect being still. That is what President Monson did and is doing. Your ranting and railing against the church will not change that, it's not changeable. Deal with it.
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sgillies
Report Comment 9:40am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
A church can say what ever it wants @Hardtaill - If the LDS church wants to retain its Non-forprofit status it cannot become directly involved in politics. I believe that there will be many lawsuits against what the church did in california because they overstepped their boundries. In utah the church gets away with a lot of over stepping of their boundries, but in Utah most are mormon and see nothing wrong with that. It is a churches job to guide their followers personal lives, not the personal lives of non-followers. Would you want a Muslim group to give 20 million dollars to an issue here in utah? Where the muslim population is very small much like that of california. If you do not believe in gay marriage then don't marry someone of the same sex! And dont say that gays will sue the church so that they can get married in the temples. That would never happen because the church is a private organization and can deny anyone without the treat of being sued.
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gaint
Report Comment 10:23am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
They did just guide their followers lives.... @sgillies - They told them to stand up for what is right. They did not tell non-followers to stand up for what is right....
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Wil H.
Report Comment 10:25am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
It Was Not... @sgillies - Just one church...You had almost every christian church involved in this. They read messages over the pulput, they sent out letters to their members, they supported the LDS church in it's calling people in California. This was the entire religous community that stepped into this issue.

Also this was not a political campain. There was no political party involved. This was an issue and nonprofit organizations are allowed to get involved with issues. Otherwise Green peace and others would not be allowed to be involved in laws forcing environmental issues on the ballot.
Nuf Ced Mcgreevy
Report Comment 9:30am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
sgillies @sgillies - I believe I have already addressed this issue on a different forum before. There have already been lawsuits in Maryland and other states back east where gay couples have wanted a pastor, reverend, or preacher to marry them in a church and he refused. There have already been cases where the judge had to side with the prosecuting party because of equal rights issues in that state, simply because of how their state constitution is worded. Go ahead and google it if you don't believe me. It's already happening.

Since when does the fact that your a private organization or entity protect you from lawsuits? That is ridiculous! NO ONE is exempt from being attacked by some idiot who tries to use the law for his own selfish gain. The gay community are masters at using the law to silence anyone who has a differing opinion and who is not afraid to let that opinion be known.

The gay community constantly spouts off about "love and tolerance" and this is what they do when the MAJORITY votes against them. They single out one group out of THOUSANDS that helped to educate people about this issue. They are hypocrites of the highest calibre and they are disgusting, low lifes that try and use the law to destroy other peoples rights and beliefs.

Well this time we proved to them that WE WILL NOT BE SILENCED. The people have spoken, they lost, nuf ced!
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billie b.
Report Comment 12:47pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Jacob Whipple's comments @Hardtaill - Are you even remotely aware that many of the churches in California called the LDS Church to request that they assist them in this fight? Yet you and those like you are focusing on just the LDS church? What is that all about. All I can say to you is open up your eyes and your heart and listen to what is really being said and not harden your heart just because it comes from the Leaders of the LDS Church!!!!
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aubh727
Report Comment 8:42am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@aubh727 - For the huh?'s, He said don't open the can of worms. To which I replied that he is the one that opened them. Sorry for the confusion.
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OggieDog
Report Comment 9:20am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@emt-i - There are protests against the Baptist churches also, and against that hateful church you mention in KS that protests soldiers' funerals to promote hatred and bigotry. Those groups did not provide funding to a campaign to take away rights and equality.
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Bob S.
Report Comment 9:49am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Oggie-Dog @OggieDog - There is a huge misunderstanding on these boards about what Prop 8 really is. You say that it took away your rights, but it didn't. Under CA law a Civil Union carries with it the same rights as a Marriage. The only thing Prop 8 did was reinstate what voters had already chosen in CA to be the DEFFINITION of marriage, and that liberal Judges over turned. The voice of the people has been heard twice on this issue.
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OggieDog
Report Comment 10:15am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Bob S. - Hmm.. Where in CA law are Civil Unions defined? Marriage = Civil Union in California.
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Bob S.
Report Comment 10:54am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Does this help it's off of CA's State Web site @OggieDog - California
Main article: Civil Unions in California
In California where domestic partnership/civil union has been available to same-sex couples since 2000, a wholesale revision of the law in 2005 has made it, like the New Jersey civil union law, equivalent to marriage in every respect at the state level, though neither is recognized by the federal government.
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Maestra
Report Comment 10:33am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Bos S, @Bob S. - The title of Proposition 8 on the ballot said "Eliminates Right of Same-Sex Couples to Marry". That is what people specifically voted on.
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Nadja
Report Comment 9:21am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
emt-i @emt-i - If you read past KSL.com, you'd know that there are protests in front of all the churches that opposed this measure in California. KBYU managed to report that.
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Jbaaaby
Report Comment 12:19pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
so wrong.... @Nadja - anyone who believes that gay people aren't allowed to live their life how they want are so wrong if you think that this country is going any direction but forward.

gay people aren't hurting anybody. they just want the same rights that everyone else gets.

this is suppose to be a free country. proposition 8 is a contradiction to that. prop 8 stands for oppression and a step backwards.

remember karma, people. what are you going to do if your own child comes to you and tells you he/she is gay? are you going to shun your own child just so you wont have to admit that you were wrong? or are you going to accept your child because you love and support them. if you think that gay's are going to he11 for their choices, that's fine... but no amount of preaching nor oppression will make them become straight.

god forbid if you were a little different, you would pray for the acceptance of your country, because you cant change who you are.

would it kill you to just close your eyes right now and say "i accept you, because we are all god's children and that's what god would want.. my support and my acceptance of my brothers and sisters."

i bet not one single person here can do that, except for the ones who already have.
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Kellie S.
Report Comment 9:22am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Fact @emt-i - Fact....this proposition did not pass on just the "white" vote alone. In fact. More hispanics and blacks voted for this than whites. If this had been up to the white vote, it would not have passed. Now lets think, what religion are most Hispanics? Catholic. And what religion are most blacks? Southern Baptist, I believe. It is not just the LDS church who were against this proposition. But for some reason, and I think it is because the LDS church is a visible/vocal defender of marriage rights, they have chosen to attack the church. Why not go after the Catholics? Or Southern Baptist?
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Tina A.
Report Comment 9:27am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
This is a great comment. @Kellie S. - The LDS church is always the easy target. These people coming down on the church need to take a good look at who voted. Over 60% of the voters in CA agreed on it and I seriously doubt that ALL those 60% were mormons.
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sgillies
Report Comment 9:53am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
? @Tina A. - by 60 you mean just bearly half right? And um... 77% of the donations for prop8 came from mormons... the population of mormons in the state of over 36 million is just 529,575. So a religious group of just half a million donated 77% of their money so that they could influence people to enforce their lifestyle on others.
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4Brtndr1
Report Comment 9:56am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Pay close attention @Tina A. - The reason people are so pi__ed about the LDS church over this one ISN'T because they're they usual, easy target.

People are angry that the church was the #1 contributor of funds in support of Prop 8. Estimations are that $22 million+ came from LDS donations alone.

So when we start hearing reports that the Catholics, Baptists and others have contibuted monies even close to that amount, then they'll begin getting their share of protests too.

If the church is against homosexuals getting married, fine.

But when they start contributing heavily to campaign initiatives, then in my opinion they need to forfeit their tax exempt status and wear the "Lobbyist" label appropriately.
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P T.
Report Comment 10:10am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
It is your money to do with what you want. @4Brtndr1 - people who belong to any church can donate money to
whoever or whatever they choose...
Barack Obama raised over $600 million dollars on his campaign... better find out what church those people belong to!!!
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Tina A.
Report Comment 10:18am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
to my earlier post @Tina A. - sorry I had my numbers wrong, it was only 52.5% of voters that passed it in california, not 60%. Sorry, but this is STILL the majority. All people have a right to stand up for what they believe in and obviously state of CA has spoken. I'm sure those who didn't vote for Obama were initially upset, but now they must support him as president, the majority spoke.
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Black Blood
12:25pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
"The LDS church is always the easy target" @Tina A. - and WHY IS THAT? I will tell you.... you LDS make it easy for us to TAGET you. Your beliefs and your logic and your actions say alot about you. You have a controversial Religion and your practice raises many questions!!!

You LDS members dont see your religion the way others do. You think everything you do is correct and others are wrong. We are on the outside looking in, and we dont approve of what we see and you cant understand why that is! You believe everything you read and are told by your leaders, HAVE A MIND OF YOUR OWN FOR A CHANGE!!! SO, thats PART of the reason why you are such an easy target!
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janeareja
Report Comment 2:18pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Blackblood @Black Blood - I'll tell you why the LDS church is an easy target...
because we are a peculiar people.
Anyone judged as 'peculiar" will always be a target. Those on the outside looking in dont approve because they dont understand.
The LDSchurch is an easy target because the adversary wants it that way. YOU find out why he does...
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ICS4S
Report Comment 4:35pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@janeareja - I'll tell you why the gays are an easy target...
because we are a peculiar people.
Anyone judged as 'peculiar" will always be a target. Those on the outside looking in dont approve because they dont understand.
The gays are an easy target because the adversary wants it that way.

Hey look your argument works both ways...
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janeareja
Report Comment 12:37pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
ICS4S @ICS4S - "the Gays are an easy target because Satan wants it that way."
You have no idea how true that statement is.
Not only that, you are forgetting one Major difference....
The Lord condones the actions of one and Satan condones the actions of another.Just to help you along a little with your thinking... The side who screams, pickets outside sacred temples, drags along children in an issue they probably dont understand, spews out hate, revenge and contention against a single church only..
Who's side do you think they stand for?
The LDS church has been singled out and the Gay community is nothing but an instrument in the hands of the Adversary to do his work.
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ftw3
Report Comment 2:28pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Easy target? @Black Blood - Why is it that the gay community can shove their morals down our throats. Gay days being taught in kindergarten? Adoption organizations being sued because the gay couple was turned down? Give us a break. Why can't a church group mobilize to defend a moral issue it's always stood for? The LDS church isn't standing in front of the gay community businesses and others that supported their side. You lost! If you don't like it, go back to the drawing board and work on getting things changed legally. In the mean time the majority has spoken.
And we're not taught to follow blindly. Most of us happen to agree on this issue.
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Did i say that out loud?
Report Comment 7:09pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Black blood ..... @Black Blood - Must necessarily spring from a black heart... your vitriol seems to indicate that you do indeed have a mind of your own, just not a very good one
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Utah 101
Report Comment 9:56am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
More facts - @Kellie S. - Why not go after the Catholics? Or Southern Baptist?

Unlike Mormons, they were not founded by someone who had, and religious teachings include, a non-traditional family.

Unlike Mormons, they do not continually complain that they were persecuted for their belief in the non-traditional family.

Unlike Mormons, they have always supported marriage as between one man and one woman.
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OggieDog
Report Comment 11:17am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Utah 101 - There are protests happening in the Vatican, and on the steps of Baptist churches. Even the KKK actively supported the measure, but none donated as much as the Mormon Church, whose members include thousands of homosexuals angered at their own families, who are pressured by the church against accepting their own sons and daughters.

"Be honest with yourself and others" doesn't hold much water when in practice.
Nuf Ced Mcgreevy
Report Comment 9:43am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Your wrong their Oggie @OggieDog - If those "thousands" of "members" are engaging in homosexual activity, they lose their membership status in the church. Just as any heterosexual who enages in an affair or incest, or swinging, or any other deviancy. There is a law called the law of chastity and the breaking of that law is something very serious in the eyes of God. The repentance process is not easy and more often than not a member is either disfellowshipped or excommunicated and is required to go through a long repentance process before full membership in the church can be recognized.

So in response to your comment, if those "members" are engaging in a homosexual relations, they are BREAKING THE LAW OF CHASTITY and are UNWORTHY to consider themselves active members in the church.
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James K.
Report Comment 9:43am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
FYI @emt-i - Westboro Baptist Church of Topeka, Kansas; headed by the Rev. Fred Phelps.
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Jim J.
Report Comment 11:00am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
you are full of bull @aubh727 - I think that it is hilarious that you feel that it is just a matter of time until gays are able to marry in the temple. Why even have a religion at all? I really do not understand why the gay and lesbians do not just go and form a church of their own that they can bend and twist to their will. Religion does not come to us, we go to it. If you do not like the ideals of that religion, then do not join that religion. I am so sick of being told that my religion has to bend and twist in order to conform to the will of others. THAT IS NOT RELIGION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DJC 47
Report Comment 2:05pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
2nd KIngs @aubh727 - "Fear not: for they that be with us are more than they that be with them".
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Sandywig
Report Comment 8:19am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Excellent use of resources... @Supernurseboy - though you have a lack of knowledge concerning the doctrine of this church:

This church will never bend on the issue of gay marriage.
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Supernurseboy
Report Comment 8:21am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Sandy, @Sandywig - We will see. They have bent on every other civil rights issue so far. Once it is painful enough,they will change their views.
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gaint
Report Comment 8:28am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
You have forgotten. @Supernurseboy - The mormon people are not strangers to persecution. We will just band together and become stronger, we will not change our stance on homosexuality.
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Ned McHaggis
8:43am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Oh SO Now @gaint - You are being "persecuted" because people who disagree with your leaders want to have a protest? Seems Mormons are very touchy when it comes to how they are treated but they can do whatever they like.The LDS Church at one time was the victim of persecution for practicing an UNPOPULAR SEXUALITY . Odd given this historical fact that they are so ready to oppose others who practice an UNPOPULAR SEXUALITY. The Mormon arguement is that "God told Joseph Smith It was OK" It was OK to marry woman who were already married ? It was OK to marry 14 year old GIRLS? Basically the LDS Church has absolutly NO ROOM to talk about the sexual desires of other people but they do it anyway.
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renogirl
Report Comment 8:53am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Facts @Ned McHaggis - Uh, maybe you should look at your facts before you post. Polygomy back then was nothing like the Warren Jeffs thing. It had nothing to do with "sexual desires."
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Ned McHaggis
Report Comment 8:57am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The purpose @renogirl - was to have children right ? Last time I checked having childern required having sex.Maybe you should learn to spell POLYGAMY. It was VERY much like "The Warren Jeffs thing" except I dont know if Warren ever destroyed a printing press.
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Diedre J.
Report Comment 9:15am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Nedster @Ned McHaggis - Take your lithium and calm down. One thing Joseph didn't do was make an [no swearing please] out of himself by "protesting" anybody. He taught principles. Clearly you disagree. Good for you. You don't have to agree. But only a tyrant attempts to force their views on others, and that is what your homosexual community is doing. They use tools like accusing Mormons of bigotry to attempt to compel their views. I don't care what your are screwing, just don't shove it in my face and tell me I have to call it marriage.

Like my father used to say about you and yours: "They're plumbing just doesn't work right". I've come to understand that is both physical and psychological.

Now go one Neddie and do your thing. Allow me to do mine. No one is attempting to stop you from your deviance. Just don't tell me I have to call it good and right.
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Ned McHaggis
10:49am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
First of ALL @Diedre J. - You have NO IDEA who I have sex with and it is really none of your business. Your father was old fashioned to be nice, a mindless bigot to be honest. I suppose you are LDS so you really have a lot of guts to talk about taking psycotropic pills to feel better. TO you J Smith was a prophet to me he was a horny FRAUD . I suppose we just disagree .
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renogirl
Report Comment 9:27am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Spelling Schmelling @Ned McHaggis - It doesn't change the fact that this "cause" is wrong. Marriage is sacred and fundimental to society and it should be protected.
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ArgArg
Report Comment 12:48am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
It was a different age @Ned McHaggis - No the purpose wasn't solely to have children. If you'll reflect on that time in history, women couldn't own property, have lone bank accounts, or jobs. It would have been impossible for many woman and widows to support their families and homes without a husband.

The Warren Jeffs tribe have deviated substantially from what it began as. The women were asked for their hand in marraige, the first wife was asked permission. There wasn't a hostage community. All members could come and go as they pleased. They didn't purposely assign child-bearing teenagers to old men. Nor was the prophet mapping out the marriages for his convenience or his friends advantage. Some specific men were specifically asked to participate. They then asked permission from their current wife and then selected their other wives, each selection was generally approved with the first wife and the new wife was asked, invited, and not obligated to enter into the marriage. It was all much less dramatic than people make of it. There are some interesting journals, not biased books, just true and earnest emotions from people who lived it.
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dirty.martini
Report Comment 7:59am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
fact check this @renogirl - Sorry but it is true,
Ned is right on this one.
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gaint
Report Comment 8:54am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The practice of pologamy @Ned McHaggis - Was done so everyone could be taken care of. It was also done because like you said a prophet of god received a revelation that it needed to be done. Oh by the way they did not marry woman that where already married. Pologamy was not done as a sexual thing. As for being persecuted it started out like this before we were different from the other religions and stated that their religion was not Jesus Christ's true church. So they persecuted us for our beliefs. Now we are different from the rest of the world on a stance and it wont take much for it to go back to the times of persecution. The reason the world will be persecuting us again will be because of our beliefs.
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gaint
Report Comment 9:04am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Sorry for the miss spelling..... @gaint - Polygamy.
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Ned McHaggis
Report Comment 9:05am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Diagreeing and Persecuting @gaint - are two different things. The article did not say "A mob will be buring down the temple and tar and feathering Boyd K Packer" It is a disagreement . Nothing more, Nothing less than people exercising their free speech rights just like the LDS Church did in California.
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ICS4S
9:15am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Ned McHaggis - The church history seems to only be convenient when it suits them.

You go and look on lds.org about the Edmunds Tucker act and how it affected the church and its members when the US government decided they would force them to give up plural marriage by disbanding the church corporation and seizing all of their assets.

No one seems to stand up and say hey good job government, we were immoral and you straightened us out thanks a lot! The church held out as long as they could and then 3 years later they buckled and conformed.
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Web geek
Report Comment 9:53am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Something you should remember @ICS4S - The Mormons left what was then the United States because the government wouldn't let them live the way they wanted. The Mormons didn't care if the government would leave them alone. They didn't need the government to approve of their marriages, nor did they attempt to change the law. Instead, they just moved out of the country.

If gays really want to compare the persecution of Mormons to what they are going through now, why don't they just move out of the country? There's plenty of other countries that accept gay marriage.
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ICS4S
Report Comment 12:15pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Web geek - Since 1848 the land in and around Utah was part of the US territory, and bound by ts laws.
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Web geek
Report Comment 4:27pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Exactly @ICS4S - And what year did the Mormons arrive in Utah?

(Hint: Days of '47)
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ICS4S
Report Comment 4:47pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@ICS4S - And they settled in 47' as a US territory... Not another country.

Not until 1857 did they want to secede from the US so they could continue to practice as they saw fit. Which of course did not work. But they continued for more than 20 years to go against the law of the land for their beliefs.
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iliveforfall
Report Comment 9:38am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Check your facts @Ned McHaggis - Polygamy was not illegal when it was practiced by Mormons. And I love the retaliation of "Well, your prophets only received revelation to change their ways when the government forced them to". First of all, polygamy is not a doctrine, it's a practice. Second, God isn't some supernatural presence that is anywhere and everywhere. He has a mind that is logical and reasonable. When he sees that his sons and daughters, no matter what faith they are, are about to be exterminated unjustly, he can tell them what they need to do. That is the whole point of having a prophet. That is what we believe in our church. If you don't believe that, fine. But don't claim that Mormons changed their doctrine just because of a governmental decision.

See, this is the problem. Mormons aren't allowed to be proactive and stand for what we believe in! Some of you agree with gay marriage rights, and we allow you the freedom of campaigning for your belief. We as Mormons believe in traditional marriage. How about you let us campaign for our belief? We aren't taking away your rights. They aren't there to take away. Some of you claim this is a civil issue, not a religious or moral one. I'll agree to an extent, and add that if it is only a civil issue, you are still remiss. Nowhere does it state that it is okay for two gays to be married. Pretty straightforward.
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ICS4S
Report Comment 10:01am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Facts? @iliveforfall - In 1850 the church officially endorsed polygamy, which had been in practice since the early 1830s.

In 1862 the government passed the Morrill anti bigamy act, making it a felony to practice polygamy. The church continued to endorse polygamy even after the law was passed but the government had no budget to prosecute the violators.

In 1874 the government passed the Poland act that took control of the courts and removed mormons from all positions of power in the government. Mormons still continued to practice polygamy...

In 1882 the Edmund's act was passed because the mormons 20 years later continued to violate the law of the land and endorsed polygamy. This act took away the mormon right to vote or to hold office.

And finally in 1887 the Edmunds Tucker act. It disbanded the church corporation and the perpetual immegration fund, it provided fines and imprisonment for anyone convicted of polygamy and seized the church property. The church STILL continued to support polygamy.

Not until the 1890 manifesto did the church attempt to conform to the law of the land, but only because the government had take nearly all of their assets. and even then the practice was alive and well but hidden.
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iliveforfall
Report Comment 10:52am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Nice facts... @ICS4S - The only fact that matters is that Utah didn't become a state until 1896. They were living in a territory that wasn't governed by the laws of the United States. The U.S. government wouldn't consider them for statehood unless they stopped polygamy. So no, it was not illegal for the Mormons to practice polygamy when they were doing so. There were no laws in the territory that they had to abide by.
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ICS4S
Report Comment 11:18am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@iliveforfall - They werent allowed to become a state until 1896 because of polygamy, they were still a US territory long before that and still accountable to the laws of the US government.
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Nadja
Report Comment 2:21pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
ICS4S @ICS4S - I love when people disagree with facts! This is actual history, folks. You can read up on it. Disagreeing is like saying: "No, Columbus did NOT sail the ocean blue in 1492."
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Browneyedgirl L.
Report Comment 10:31am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
iliveforfall @iliveforfall - How is polygamy not a doctrine but a practice??? Its in the Doctrine and Covenants..that would make it Doctrine.
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iliveforfall
Report Comment 10:49am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Really? @Browneyedgirl L. - It's in the doctrine and covenants? Will you show me where?
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snoshu
Report Comment 12:43pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
D&C 132 @iliveforfall - Revelation given through Joseph Smith the Prophet, at Nauvoo, Illinois, recorded July 12, 1843, relating to the new and everlasting covenant, including the eternity of the marriage covenant, as also plurality of wives. HC 5: 501–507. Although the revelation was recorded in 1843, it is evident from the historical records that the doctrines and principles involved in this revelation had been known by the Prophet since 1831.
iliveforfall
Report Comment 2:56pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@snoshu -
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iamreal
Report Comment 8:55am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
GIVE IT UP tiny giant @gaint - Every race and every religion says they have been persecuted in some form or fashion. You need to quit useing that as an excuse to force your beliefs on other people. By refusing to accept that other people have different beliefs and live in different ways you are persecuting them. This only goes to show how your bigotry and hatred are taught to you by your religion.
I know some gay people that have stronger morals then half the mormon I know.
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ghpz
Report Comment 9:06am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@iamreal - Mormons had the only extermination order issued against them in the history of the United States...kind of a big deal!
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iamreal
9:21am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
ghpz @ghpz - And that gives them the right to butcher innocent people and kidnap their children. And that gives them the right to continue telling everyone else their beliefs are wrong. This kind of thinking is Nazi like. You want everyone to forget your mistakes and the people your religion butchered but you do not want to forget what was done to you. Get over it.
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gaint
Report Comment 9:30am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Butchered? @iamreal - Since when was standing up against homosexuality butchering someone? I just don't see the connection.
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iamreal
Report Comment 10:02am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
id-10-t @gaint - Mountain Meadows. Mormons want people to forget and forgive but not the other way around
SFfm
Report Comment 1:55pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@iamreal -
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James K.
Report Comment 9:47am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Sweet! @iamreal - I didn't know I had the right to butcher people and kidnap their children. Looks like I'll have to revise my weekend plans. I was going to rake my yard, but instead I'll be out doing some church-sanctioned pillaging. Thanks for the heads up.
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gaint
Report Comment 9:09am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
I am not using it as an excuse..... @iamreal - They are forcing their lifestyles on us we are just standing up for what is right. They can live anyway they like but they cannot force their lifstyle on me without me standing up and saying something about it.
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boardnski
Report Comment 9:16am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Have you forgotten... @gaint - that we live in America? You are not forced to do anything. The members of the LDS church in California were not forced to do anything. We live in this great nation where were can make choices for ourselves. If you aren't happy where you live, then perhaps you should move. If you don't want to move, then you need to recognize that you are making that choice to stay where you are and YOU should make the best of it. I'm tired of people expecting the world to take care of them and make them happy. Be an adult, be responsible for your actions, and enjoy your life.
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Ned McHaggis
Report Comment 9:26am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
"Forcing Lifestyles" @gaint - Kind of like the army of 20 year olds the LDS Church sends to almost every country in the world ? What if Gay people sent two drag queens to everyones house knocking on the door saying " Hi we are from Queer Nation and we want to talk with you about the homosexual lifestyle". YOu Mormons would be having a Carrots in the Jell-O coniption fit and please dont say you wouldnt.
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renogirl
Report Comment 9:37am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Ned McHaggis - Is this army forced to do what they do? Do they force their way into peoples homes? As a very active member, I can say I hate jello and never make it in my home-especially if it had carrots in it:)
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boardnski
Report Comment 9:39am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Excellent point @renogirl - the commercial that was circulated this past weekend portrayed something that is very false about the LDS church. Not once during my two years of service did I force my way into any home nor have I ever heard of that happening.
T M.
Report Comment 11:42am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@boardnski -
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ICS4S
Report Comment 12:23pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
boardnski @renogirl - But just like that commercial showing the mormon missionaries rummaging through the couples home and tearing up the marriage license, isnt that exactly whats going to happen to 18,000 married couples now?

Not so much they are physically breaking in and doing it themselves but they help put in place a change that will do exactly that, tear up the marriage license.
boardnski
Report Comment 3:31pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@ICS4S -
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gaint
Report Comment 9:52am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Protests, gay pride parades= in your face forcing of a gay lifestyle. .... @Ned McHaggis - The homosexuals are trying to pass a law saying that states that gay marriage is acceptable. They are trying to force their lifestyle on us.
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Rudy
Report Comment 12:16pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Ned McHaggis - Ned, buddy, the Gays are 'knocking on the doors' and talking about their homosexual lifestyles' with this rally at Temple Square.
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iamreal
Report Comment 9:38am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
giant @gaint - How are they forcing their lifestyle on you. Are they holding you down and forcing you to have gay relations?????? All they want is equality as human beings the same as you want. If you have rights why can't they have the same rights as humans. Your arguement makes no sense.
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Bob S.
Report Comment 10:18am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Your arguement @iamreal - Your arguement is false. In CA homosexuals have ALL the same rights as heterosexuals. They have all the same rights today as they did two days ago.The only difference is the title of Marriage vs. Civil Union. What I have is a marriage what you have is a civil union, both are legal and binding, and both carry the same rights.
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Julie I.
Report Comment 1:47pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Amen to that! @gaint - I find it ironic that we have to be tolerant of others (homosexuals, etc.) forcing their lifestyles on us. However, they don't have to be tolerant of our choice of lifestyle? Why is it that if I stand up for what I think is a worthy proposition to support, I am trampling on their constitutional rights. But when they come and protest on my lawn, in front of my church, steal the signs of support off of my personal property that my rights are not being violated? Why is it not a 2-way street of tolerance?
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Web geek
Report Comment 4:33pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
That doesn't help @storms - Wishing others die is defeating your own cause. It's statements like this that feed their fire and give them publicity.

What you could and should be saying instead is something like "I hope they repent before it's too late".
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iliveforfall
Report Comment 9:55am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The problem is... @iamreal - The words "gay" and "moral" are antonyms. When used in the same sentence, you lose credibility. A moral person is one who is moral in all aspects, not just the ones that he chooses. We can all turn our heads and say "I don't care what someone else does in privacy", but I refuse to do that. Acting on homosexual feelings is wrong. You can try to rationalize it all you want, but it is wrong. Even if you don't believe in a God, it is still wrong by the fact that by the very nature of it, homosexual relations doesn't propagate a species. So please, don't throw practicing homosexuals into the same class as being moral.
litqoe
Report Comment 1:49am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
I guess @iamreal - your feeling were hurt by a mormon, I know gays who have tronger morals than non-mormons too. Stop being a cry baby!
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ditto +3
boardnski
Report Comment 9:18am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
"...including Murder"... @markwilk69 - really? When has this happened?
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markwilk69
Report Comment 9:29am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Mountain Meadow Massacre. Need I say more? @boardnski - There is incredible evidence that Brigham Young ordered this massacre.
ditto +1
boardnski
Report Comment 9:37am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
umm.... @markwilk69 - how about something that happened while either of us were alive?
ditto +3
gaint
Report Comment 9:42am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Evidence is non-existent. @markwilk69 - Unless you fabricated the evidence saying that Brigham Young had any part in the massacre.
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J H.
Report Comment 9:44am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
hmmmm @markwilk69 - "I know of atheist organizations who are planning on infiltrating the church to plant seeds of doubt in the children during primary. I call on people to follow suit, as I currently am."

Wow, you sound like a real nutjob! How exactly are you and your athiest buddies "infiltrating" our primary classes? It may take you a while to reach all 13 million of us, and it might be kind of hard to keep up with the new growth of the church, but hey, who am I to try to disuade you! (psycho!)
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markwilk69
Report Comment 9:56am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
There are approx. 30 million non-believers @J H. - in this country alone. There are millions of more Atheists in the world than Mormons. Although Atheists are a minority we make up much of the intellectual elite. For example 98% of members of the Royal Academy of Sciences are Atheists. You think it's going to be hard for us to pose as Mormons and totally revolutionize the thinking of children? It's already happening. And the best part, it's totally legal.
ditto +2
Wil H.
Report Comment 11:05am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
I take it... @markwilk69 - That you are one of the work horses so they can say they had nothing to do with your plan...You really need to get out of your chair and veiw the real world...And yes I think it would be hard for you to be a teacher of children...You are too full of hate and children would see through you in a second...I have found that in war there are no atheists in fox holes. Everyone when they think they are going to die prays to a God...I feel sorry for you...You have so much hate in your soul...In fact any christain would feel sorry for you and pray that someday you get the help you need...

BTW, Not every educated person in the world is an atheist...I wish you well and hope you get the help you need someday...
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insightful +1
gaint
Report Comment 12:43pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@markwilk69 -
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janeareja
Report Comment 3:12pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
atheists that are intellectuals.... @markwilk69 - " O that cunning aplan of the evil one! O the vainness, and the frailties, and the foolishness of men! When they are learned they think they are wise, and they hearken not unto the counsel of God, for they set it aside, supposing they know of themselves, wherefore, their wisdom is foolishness and it profiteth them not. And they shall perish.
But to be alearned is good if they bhearken unto the ccounsels of God."

quoted from an Ancient Prophet
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renogirl
Report Comment 9:53am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@markwilk69 - Wow. I don't even know what to say. I would like to see this "proof" that our church is a fraud. I think this issue will only make stronger members because we know what we believe in and know what we stand for. Bring in your infiltration! Attack us. Attack the sanctity of marriage. We will stand strong and defend with faith our leader... our LORD and SAVIOR, JESUS CHRIST.
ditto +3
Lucky13
Report Comment 9:56am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Really? @markwilk69 - sounds like they way people treated Jesus Christ while He was on the Earth; you know, the Savior of the world?

Just because so-called "experts" claim a Church to be "debunked" or invalid does not make it so.

Besides, what are the Church's motives? Family, strong community, good health, eternal live, the list goes on, but why wouldn't someone want those things?
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markwilk69
Report Comment 10:07am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The same way a virus works. @Lucky13 - Put down your fairly tale book and read a science book for once. A virus' DNA is encoded to survive and propogate. Not for an individual, but for the survival of its DNA. However, the LDS church brings this one step further: money and power. While its financials are highly secretive we do know the church is worth in the dozens of billions of dollars or more. It seems to be more like a viral accumulation of wealth and it's disputable whether any particular member is getting more than the other. In the same way a virus works.

We do not get our morals from religion. Religion gets morals from us. I am Atheist and I have strong moral values, strong family ties, and I want to do good for society. It's survival. If you hurt people you are more likely to get punished or get hurt yourself and your offspring are more likely to suffer as well. We do not learn this from fairy tale books.
insightful +1
aurorapandora
Report Comment 12:57pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The savior of the world? @Lucky13 - There we go again, trying to pass off religious dogma as historical fact.
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James K.
Report Comment 9:57am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Bwahaha. @markwilk69 - A-hahahahaha. Hahahaha. The 'brilliant' Christopher Hitchins. Hoo, thanks for the laugh.
ditto +4
NullAndVoid
Report Comment 9:59am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Don't hold your breath Mark! @markwilk69 - The LDS church will be here long after you and I are pushing up daisies.
ditto +1
Utah 101
Report Comment 9:13am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
"The mormon people are not strangers to persecution" @gaint - The Mormon people were persecuted for their stance on the non-traditional family - now this same Church supports defining what a traditional family is, the definition they support would condemn Joseph Smith as immoral and illegal.
ditto +3
gaint
Report Comment 9:40am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Actually.. @Utah 101 - They were persecutted long before the prophet Joseph Smith received the revelation of polygamy.
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Nadja
Report Comment 9:24am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
gaint @gaint - Just like the church didn't change it's stance on black priesthood, right? Gimme a break. You guys change your doctrine every time it becomes inconvenient. Polygamy, anyone?
ditto +1
gaint
Report Comment 10:06am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
I guess the other religions are wrong as well. @Nadja - Before Jesus Christ came to earth the people in the bible were following the law of moses. When Christ came the Law of Moses was put away for the Higher law which was taught by Christ.

The great thing about having a Prophet is modern revelation. All in all you are speaking of things you do not understand.
YSAMOANFAN2314
Report Comment 2:07pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
You should read more scripture.............. @Nadja - The church, under the direction of christ, knew when it was restored that the time was not right for blacks to recieve the priesthood, just like when the savior knew that the gentiles would not be ready to recieve it until he died. LDS doctrine has never changed, polygamy, WAS A PRACTICE, not a doctrine, ask king david and abraham.
ditto +13
renogirl
Report Comment 8:33am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - It's not a civil rights issue. It's a morality issue that affects the fundimental foundations of our nation and lives. The church will not bend.
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Jim L.
Report Comment 8:38am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The big difference @Supernurseboy - Blacks and the priesthood -

Prophets have always stated it would happen some day. It was always just a matter of when.

Polygamy -

Even the Book of Mormon states one man and one woman should become one--this was always meant to be temporary.

Adam and Steve -

This has always brought the destruction of the people that practice and espouse it. ALWAYS. The church would cease to be the true church if it accepted the practice of homosexuality.

That is why people like you who are holding your breath to see if the church will cave on this issue will be holding your breath a long time--like until the flames are upon you. At this point you might want to just let out your breath and run.
ditto +6
DaddyStuart
Report Comment 8:42am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
We must have been typing @Jim L. - our comments at the same time. Great minds think alike.
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DaddyStuart
Report Comment 8:41am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
A few comments: @Supernurseboy - Polygamy was practiced by prophets at times during Old Testament times, but not always.

At different times through the Old and New Testaments, different people and groups of people were authorized to hold the priesthood. It was never set eternally as one group of people.

Homosexuality was never allowed by God through the history of the scriptures.
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Supernurseboy
Report Comment 8:48am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
A few comments for you. @DaddyStuart - Could you please show me where in the Bible, Book of Mormon, Talmud, Koran or sacred Taoist texts that it states homosexuals cannot be married? The verse does not exist in any of these texts. Believe me, I have spent the last 15 years of my life reading each of them multiple times. I do not have a brief history study of Mormon history, it is a religion that I am more familiar with than any of the others I just mentioned. I have read the Book of Mormon cover to cover 7 times along with the D&C and POGP. I am probably more familiar with your religion than most people who are members of it. As for the Old Testament, which is the same as the Talmud, the problem with Sodom and Gomorrah wasn't that the people there were gay but rather that they were violently raping trespassers. Read it carefully and you will come to the same conclusion. As for the new testament, it does specifically mention homosexuality as a crime but you have to look at the historic context of the new testament. It was not written by anyone person and it was only formulated after the council of Nicaea where people bartered land, wives, livestock and goods to place the doctrine together. This occurred over 200 years after the death of Jesus, so historically, this can not be accurate since it was really more of a treaty/auction that assisted its formulation.
ditto +8
Heber-ite
Report Comment 8:55am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - So with your reasoning we should really not follow the Constitution of Declaration of Independence until we know the historic context of it, because it was obvious that they did it just to show the British who was boss- those documents are more like guide lines then actual rules that we can follow if we please but if it doesnt agree with our lifestyle then they go right out the window.
Resom
Report Comment 8:57pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
SUPERNURSEBOY - you're full of nonsense @Heber-ite - Are you aware that you interpret and rationalize the writings to fit your worldview? For example, your assessment of the "problem with Sodom and Gomorrah". Can you please show me where it says in the Bible that this was the problem. From my perspective, the problem was that their society was so perverse that the innocent children had virtually no chance of leading virtuous lives. It is at this point, when the children are being indoctrinated and immersed in perversion that their society was ripe for destruction. I have read it carefully and came to a different conclusion than you did.

What you've said about Nicaea has an element of truth; but your assertion that the writings of Paul were somehow a product of Nicea would be humorous if it weren't so misinformed. Nicea's mistake you've described was the production of creeds, not the preservation of the original apostles' writing. You are simply wrong in implying that the new testament wasn't "formulated" until 325AD at the Nicene Council. The fact is that the new testament was canonized in virtually its current form by 175 AD, 150 years prior to Nicea. Prior to that the individual writings of the Apostles were carefully preserved and taught by the church. You are either deceived or deceiving in your assertions.

Regarding your first question: Could you show me where scriptures explicitly teach that a man shouldn't marry his dog, or his cat, or his donkey, or his...." Do you think it necessary that God delineate each and every form of union that is unacceptable; or could it be that His pronouncement that his will that a man and a woman be wed and become one is sufficient to exclude the infinitude of erroneous potential unions.

I can certainly show you plenty of references that indicate that marriage between a man and woman is ordained of God. Where does it say that marrying a man to a man is acceptable in God's eye?

Wrest, wrest, wrest away; but do so to the everlasting detriment of your own soul.
funny +6
Claybuster
Report Comment 8:56am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
nurseboy.... @Supernurseboy - ...I only voted "disagree" because there isn't a vote for "complete moron"
ditto +4
DaddyStuart
Report Comment 9:19am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
So you presume @Supernurseboy - that the part in the New Testament stating homosexuality is a crime is one of those parts that were either translated incorrectly or was added inaccurately, or you just don't believe in the divine authenticity of the Bible? If the latter is the case, then the debate can never reach a viable conclusion because to those who supported Proposition 8, or at least to many of those, it is a belief in morality-as-defined-by-God issue. If God says it is, then it is.
insightful +8
crmeatball
Report Comment 9:33am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
A respectful response @Supernurseboy - The teachings of the LDS religion extend beyond what is the canon of scripture, as we believe in modern day prophets and continuing revelation. As such, a doctrine may not be explicitly found in the canon of scripture, but it may be made via an address in General Conference, in a proclamation or other media chosen by the First Presidency. Such doctrinal statements may not necessarily quote scripture, but always agree with scripture.

In 1995, The First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles released "The Family: A Proclamation to the World," in which it reads: "The family is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan." This statement is in harmony with Doctrine & Covenants section 132, where the covenant of marriage is defined. That scripture lays out several "scenarios" of marriage, specifically marriage outside of this covenant (v. 15), marriage not by proper authority (v. 18), marriage in covenant and by proper authority (v. 19), and marriage where the covenant is broken (v. 26). In each of these scenarios it clearly defines marriage between a man and a woman. In addition, in verse 66, the Lord states he will reveal more on this later. The statements given by those sustained as prophets, seers and revelators defining marriage as between a man and a woman just might this continued revelation.

I would respectfully disagree that Sodom was destroyed because of the actions of rapists. That idea stems from an interpretation of Josephus' writings, and only addresses one particular incident. If one studies the Talmudic, Koranic and Biblical accounts of Abraham's interaction with Sodom, it clearly refers to homosexuality as being one of the sins being committed in Sodom.
ditto +7
NullAndVoid
Report Comment 10:29am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Forever learning - but never coming to a knowledge of the truth @Supernurseboy - Common sense should prevail here. God commanded Adam and Eve to muliply and replenish the earth. How can two people of the same gender fulfill such a commandment. God put man and women together for a reason. In the first chapter of Romans God's feelings regarding homosexuality are pretty clear. Why would God need to say that marriage between two individuals of the same gender is not on His approved list of things to do when He condemns the practice of homosexuality. Perhaps we should all feel comfortable jumping off of a cliff because God hasn't condemned that particular act. God has given us intelligence and He expects us to use it. He doesn't need to tell us everything we can and can't do. He has given us tools (the light of Christ, conscience, etc) to help us know between good and evil.

With regards to the atheists out there -- how long did the notion exist that the world was flat? Did such a belief make it so? You can argue God's existence from now and through the eternities. Such arguments won't change His reality.
ditto +7
Itsa S.
Report Comment 11:02am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
You can't be serious! @Supernurseboy - You just said that the New Testament "can not be accurate", so why would you care that Romans 1:21-27 says:

"21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,
23 And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.
24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet."

Or that 1 Corinthians 11:11 says, "Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord."

More importantly, you claim to be familiar with the LDS religion, so you ought to know that we revere the current President of the Church as God's prophet here on earth, his mouthpiece to the world. So when Gordon B. Hinckley spoke to us on this matter in 1999, it wasn't just good advice from a senior citizen. It was the will of God spoken by his prophet to the people of earth. He said:

"We regard it as not only our right but our duty to oppose those forces which we feel undermine the moral fiber of society. Much of our effort, a very great deal of it, is in association with others whose interests are similar. We have worked with Jewish groups, Catholics, Muslims, Protestants, and those of no particular religious affiliation, in coalitions formed to advocate positions on vital moral issues. Such is currently the case in California, where Latter-day Saints are working as part of a coalition to safeguard traditional marriage from forces in our society which are attempting to redefine that sacred institution. God-sanctioned marriage between a man and a woman has been the basis of civilization for thousands of years. There is no justification to redefine what marriage is. Such is not our right, and those who try will find themselves answerable to God.

Some portray legalization of so-called same-sex marriage as a civil right. This is not a matter of civil rights; it is a matter of morality. Others question our constitutional right as a church to raise our voice on an issue that is of critical importance to the future of the family. We believe that defending this sacred institution by working to preserve traditional marriage lies clearly within our religious and constitutional prerogatives. Indeed, we are compelled by our doctrine to speak out.

Nevertheless, and I emphasize this, I wish to say that our opposition to attempts to legalize same-sex marriage should never be interpreted as justification for hatred, intolerance, or abuse of those who profess homosexual tendencies, either individually or as a group. As I said from this pulpit one year ago, our hearts reach out to those who refer to themselves as gays and lesbians. We love and honor them as sons and daughters of God. They are welcome in the Church. It is expected, however, that they follow the same God-given rules of conduct that apply to everyone else, whether single or married.

I commend those of our membership who have voluntarily joined with other like-minded people to defend the sanctity of traditional marriage. As part of a coalition that embraces those of other faiths, you are giving substantially of your means. The money being raised in California has been donated to the coalition by individual members of the Church. You are contributing your time and talents in a cause that in some quarters may not be politically correct but which nevertheless lies at the heart of the Lord's eternal plan for His children, just as those of many other churches are doing. This is a united effort."

For faithful Latter-Day Saints, that pretty much ends the debate.
Tyrel M.
Report Comment 7:50pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
dude... @Supernurseboy - you have got to be kidding me! for someone who claims to have studied the bible for 15 years, you sure don't know anything about it. Please see several of Paul's epistles and tell me on where he DOESN'T say being gay is wrong. WOW!
ditto +1
swimgurl_08
Report Comment 8:52am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
DaddyStuart @DaddyStuart - Great comment!! I agree 100%
Oh and i like the way you spell Stuart. That is how my maiden name is spelled!
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Donnette L.
Report Comment 8:50am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - It does not matter, these guys can protest all they want. It will not change anything, the temple entrance is on private property and those of us who choose to attend the temple will do so, and their "protest" will not affect me or mine. I say ignore them and do not give them any attention as they do not deserve any.
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Ned McHaggis
9:15am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
West Temple,South Temple and NorthTemple @Donnette L. - are ALL PUBLIC STREETS not owned by the LDS Church. I guess the names of these PUBLIC STREETS must have confused you Donette L.
ditto +5
gaint
Report Comment 10:19am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
umm.... @Ned McHaggis - The actual entrance is not on a public street.....
litqoe
Report Comment 1:01am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
ALL PUBLIC STREETS? @Ned McHaggis - You have no clue where the entrance to the temple is. You are talking about Temple Square entrances, the visitor areas. LOL
ditto +13
Achylady
Report Comment 8:58am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
There's a big difference, Supernurseboy. @Supernurseboy - First of all, the church always knew there would come a time when blacks could hold the priesthood. It was never in the church's doctrine that blacks could "never" hold the priesthood. So when blacks received the priesthood it was not a change in the church doctrine.

Secondly, polygamy has always been part of church doctrine since the old testament. But it is practiced only by command from the Lord. We are told in the Book of Mormon: "For IF I will, saith the Lord of Hosts, raise up seed unto me, I will comand my people; otherwise they shall hearken unto these things." (Jacob 2:30) So even though Mormons don't practice polygamy anymore, it is still in their doctrine.

Therefore, the church's change in policy on both blacks and polygamy did not involve a change in doctrine. However, the union between a man and a women as the basis for a family, and that family being the basis for a healthy society, is so deeply rooted in the doctrines of the church, that you will never see it change.

Will the church lose membership over it? Definitely. In fact, it has been foretold that the great sifting out of the wheat from the tares will begin within the church and spread out from there to the world. The ones who stay in the church will be those with the strongest testimonies and greatest faith. But the church will never change its doctrine on marriage.
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Utah 101
Report Comment 9:23am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
"even though Mormons don't practice polygamy anymore, it is still in their doctrine" @Achylady - What happens when the lord tells you to practice it again?

Will you obey the laws you created that discriminate against your gods will, or just ignore laws you create?
ditto +4
Brijo
Report Comment 9:59am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Utah 101 - The LDS Church has been commanded to obey all the laws of the land. I very VERY much doubt that Mormons will be commanded to break THAT commandment, as well as the laws of the country.

Bring this up again if it ever DOES happen.
ditto +4
Brijo
Report Comment 9:59am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Utah 101 - The LDS Church has been commanded to obey all the laws of the land. I very VERY much doubt that Mormons will be commanded to break THAT commandment, as well as the laws of the country.

Bring this up again if it ever DOES happen.
funny +2
Brijo
Report Comment 10:00am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Brijo - Sorry to post twice...computer fluke. :]
huh? -5
ghpz
Report Comment 9:02am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - That is not true...Women don't have the priesthood
ditto +1
Diedre J.
Report Comment 9:10am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Spoken like @Supernurseboy - A Missouri mobster......
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Wil H.
Report Comment 10:00am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Gay Marriage... @Supernurseboy - Is not a ciil rights issue...It is a morality issue. Gays are allowed to live together and be together without getting arrested. However, Marriage is not a definition that is allowed to them. Marriage has always been defined between man and woman. Otherwise you have a union. In 36 states it is a constitutional amendment that gays can not be classified as married. They can form a union. They are not discriminated against at all. Now if they were holding hands or kissing in public and arrested or they were refused any kind of service like refusedal to serve them then it would be discrimination. Gays are not discriminated against. If they wish to declare discrimination, then they are just as guilty of discrimination as those they claim are discriminating against them. They forget that in many people Gods Laws are the ultimate laws.

In the US it has become a fad to be gay. It represents freedom from what many call religous oppression. The minority would love to kill God and make us all free men from what is considered a tyranny. The problem is that Actors and famous people make the gay lifestyle seem romantic. Being gay is a choice, there is no real proof that it is nothing else. They gay population say there is proof, but what ever proof is out there is confusing and the experts can only agree to disagree. I would not agree if any of my children decided to be gay. I would not agree with the lifestyle. I would still love them, but would not agree with them. I do not believe the myth that Gays are discriminated against. They are given all the rights of any person in the US. They just can not claim the title of Married...Instead they have to use the word Union. Means the same, just not as romantic and Married. Laws have been passed that allow them to have medical insurance, life insurance and the right to live together. Yet they insist that the rights of those who disagree with them must be trampled and that their children must be taught that it is ok to be gay even though the parents of the children say no. We are not given a choice and what is considered unsatisfactory in the religous community is being forced into our lives. Discrimination is rearing its ugly head and yet only one side is claiming it. Just because gays are not getting the title of Married, does not mean they are not allowed to be together. But don't force our values out the window for yours. Live your lives, but remember that most people (the Majority) are religous and feel it is against Gods laws to be deviant. I have nothing against gay people. But I do have something against people who try to change Gods laws to make themselves look and feel mainstream. all you had to do was live your lives. You decided to force the mainstream to accept you and now the mainstream has spoken. It did not have to be this way. Laws have been put into place to protect all people. Real Discrimination is a rare thing these days. Many use it to put fear into the hearts of people to Force them to accept them. Yet the laws of this country protect all. Just because you don't get to use a term that has for centries been used to describe a union between man and woman does not mean it is descrimintaion. Just get on with your lives and enjoy them. To fight will cause more dislike and intolerance for your lifestyle. The harder you push against mainstream America the harder you will make it for your selves. You asked for a vote and now you don't like the outcome. Religion came into play. It was not just one religion, it was many religions. You have to stop and think what has happened and ask yourself why this happened. You did something that has not happened in a long time. You made the Religious people wake up and take notice. Never has their been a uninity with in the religions to defeat what they consider evil since the 1800's. You accomplished something in that.
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MiddleLinebacker
Report Comment 10:27am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Exactly @Supernurseboy - I am waiting for the day that there is a cross on all the steeples of the LDS churches. I know for a fact that there is a cross in the ceiling of the Bountiful temple, I saw it when I was a good mo and took the tour before it was dedicated.
nw1
Report Comment 10:07pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
hmm... @Supernurseboy - that's debatable.
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markwilk69
Report Comment 8:34am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The only way @Sandywig - the LDS church will bend on the issue of gay marriage is when the law supports it. They will have to start conducting civil gay marriages in the temple or else the LDS church will be branded as a discriminatory or hate church and lose their tax-exempt status. They would lose billions of dollars and would have to request 15% or more of their members income instead of a measly 10%. This is what is at stake here. Not morals. It's money...lots of it. I would do the same thing if I were to run this church!
ditto +16
Heber-ite
Report Comment 8:50am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@markwilk69 - There is no way that the church will EVER preform gay marriages in its temple. I can guarantee that, and you can hold me to that statement.
ditto +10
Hardtaill
Report Comment 9:00am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@markwilk69 - Mark, you are incorrect if you really believe that the Church will ever perform a gay ceremony in a temple of God. The recommend, which is required to gain entrance, is only given on the condition of obedience to God's laws, and all people who know God know how He feels about same-sex marriage. The scriptures cannot be re-written to satisfy the whims of the few and neither can this Nation's laws. God's laws are written in stone and therefore are Eternal.

It would be a rare condition indeed to find the majority of society voting against an Eternal law of such profound importance. Wise and moral citizens will most always vote properly and will choose to uphold the laws of God coincidentally. To do otherwise would be a total lack of common sense.


'Tail.
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Scott M.
Report Comment 9:06am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
It is not about money. @markwilk69 - God doesn't need our money. He commands us to pay tithing to increase our faith. If the church lost it's tax exempt status I seriously doubt anyone but the church audit department and the IRS would notice. The work of God would continue to go forth nobly, boldly, and independent.
As a point of clarification, the LDS church doesn't perform any civil marriages in the Temple.
Any worthy individual who has repented of their homosexual sin is welcome to be sealed in the Temple to any willing and worthy spouse of the opposite gender.
ditto +5
keli
Report Comment 9:22am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
that is the problem @markwilk69 - This topic I believe is the reason that the LDS chruch got so involved. People that are against the Church getting involved talking about separation between church and state. "The church should not get involved in civil matters." But if this would not have passed then some person would push the issue of homosexuals couples getting married in the temple. When the church say "no" then this couple would take the church to court and make try to make them. Then they would make it a civil matter right? How is that separation of church and state?
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OggieDog
Report Comment 9:40am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@keli - Who told you the law would push the issue of the church allowing homosexual couples to marry in the temple? The church has nothing to lose in this matter. Are you forced to allow all straight couples in? You still have your rights, and no one is trying to take them away from you. People are demanding rights for themselves, surely something we can all understand when we study the history of our church.
insightful +4
Christian H.
Report Comment 9:36am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
excpet the Constitution says... @markwilk69 - "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof;"

Government can't force a church to do anything of the sort. It's against one of the primary foundations of the country.
schrullenhaft
Report Comment 12:38pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Some info from the actual decision.. @Christian H. - From an FAQ by the ACLU:

Does this ruling require religious groups or clergy members to marry same-sex couples?

No. The court's decision said the GOVERNMENT may not discriminate against same-sex couples by barring them from civil marriage - a legal institution established and regulated by the government. Religious groups and clergy members remain free to recognize or REFUSE to recognize marriages within their religion as each sees fit. While some faiths do not permit same-sex couples to marry within that faith, a growing number do.
troll -2
Stearman
Report Comment 8:40am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Good point Sandy @Sandywig - supernurseboy is too use to bending over for his butty
disagree -2
Utah 101
Report Comment 10:58am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Great example of... @Stearman - ..."It has everything to do with the unbridled hatred that people have for others, who are not like them."
ditto +8
Jason T.
Report Comment 8:24am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Since you "know".... @Supernurseboy - you can now move on and live your life in peace and blissful ignorance. Knowing that this will come to pass should make sodomy a more enjoyable and fulfilling experience and you should be able to find peace in "knowing" that it is only a matter of time before the LDS church condones the lifestyle you have chosen. All guilt should be washed away and you should feel no more desire to beat you head against the wall seeking happiness in perversion because as you said, it really isn't perversion and its only a matter of time before the LDS church realizes it. Congratulations nurseboy on what must be one of your greatest achievements. You've outsmarted even God Himself this time.
troll -3
Supernurseboy
Report Comment 8:31am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Jason, what are you talking about? @Jason T. - I am straight, just not narrow. I have a wonderful wife that I have been married to for 5 years. I appreciate you complementing my intelligence however. Although, I don't actually believe I can ever be as smart as a God.
ditto +13
BD
Report Comment 8:33am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - The Church has not changed its position on moral behavior issues. The Church is still against abortion. The Church is still against adultery. The Church is still against alcoholism. And the Church will always be against gay marriage.
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Dave F.
Report Comment 8:35am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Sounds like "supernurseboy" is the name @Supernurseboy - of the next prophet! What insight he/she has. Maybbe some day this will be included in his/her discourses. I admonish all who read this to follow him/her. All hail "supernurseboy"!!!
troll -3
Supernurseboy
Report Comment 8:41am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Dave, @Dave F. - The best predictor of future behavior is past. Look at history. I voted you "ditto" btw just for fun.
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C.R.
Report Comment 9:08am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Yes @Supernurseboy - You are soooo right.
One of my close friends requested that her name be removed from the LDS records over this issue.
I believe you are correct and anti-gay bigotry will be increasingly seen as just a wrong as racism.
Another person I know who moved to Utah about two years ago discontinued their meetings with the LDS missionaries over this issue. They did not want to invite bigotry into their home.
ditto +6
renogirl
Report Comment 9:32am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
bigotry @C.R. - So are they being bigots towards the LDS for their beliefs?
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Jubilee
Report Comment 10:53am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@renogirl - anti-gay bigotry sill be seen as just as wrong as racism....but apparently, religious bigotry will continue to flourish.

LDS voters only made up a small percentage of those who voted for Prop 8, yet they are the ones being villainized. It's just so easy for those who dislike the mormon church to make them the scapegoat. How convenient.

If the LDS church is in the wrong, and their views on gay marriage don't reflect how the majority feels, then why did Prop 8 even pass?
persuasive +3
AwakeAndAriseOrg
Report Comment 3:15pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
C.R., That is pathetic, Do you know how Bigotry is defined? Let me give you the Definition @C.R. - Bigotry: Intolerance toward those who hold opinions different than oneself.

There it is. The definition does not apply to the Church as you wish it would, or if it does, you must apply it too to the gays who don't agree or tolerate the Church's doctrine and view. They too would be bigots. You know someone who couldn't continue seeing the missionaries because they didn't want to "invite bigotry into their home." Lame. Pathetic. I've been holding up "Yes on 8" signs on the corner of major intersections here in California, and you have never seen bigotry until you witness the militant "No on 8" people. They vandalize, steal signs, scream and shriek obscenities as if possessed by demons from hell. It is most unfortunate to see this take place. I didn't go by and steal their "no on 8" signs, and I'd object were I to see someone else doing so. My freedom of speech is only as good and secure as when I ensure that yours too is upheld.

Yes, in 2000, there were on average 3 people per ward in California who left the church over this stance for the family---for religious protection under the 1st Amendment. There are more now? Surely. That is their choice, and it is sad they can't figure out that what they think is "bigotry" has nothing to do with the term. Those who voted "Yes on 8" are not bigots, but mercifully, US Patriots helping keep the hand of tyranny from rising against religion by activist USSR type judges.

As pointed out in one of my other posts, "bigoted" government power in England in the 16th Century had William Tyndale burned alive for publishing the English Bible. That dear C.R., was the atmosphere that drove boatload after boatload of Englishmen to the shores of the new world, in search of religious liberty, free of the tyranny of "bigotry" in the law.

Jefferson swore upon the alter of God "eternal hostility toward any form of tyranny upon the mind of man."

Religious liberty was the first and foremost issue with these colonists in the forming of a Constitutional Republic. The first amendment in their Bill of Rights forbade the wicked and bigoted hand of government from doing anything upon religion, which reads:

"Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

So, the First Amendment was to keep the damned hand of government tyranny off of religion, for "Congress shall make no law" concerning religion, and neither shall the vicious Soviet Courts in the United States today. Prop 8 was not an "anti-gay" measure, but a 1st Amendment measure to protect religion from the wicked courts who are hostile and seek an inroad as slaughtering the First Amendment. Judges the ilk of Governor Lilburn W. Boggs of Missouri are ready and anxious to criminalize religion if they can do so.

An example of these most wicked courts. Recently, the Soviet US District Court in San Francisco ruled that "parental rights are severed" when a child crosses the threshold of the school. Where did this Stalin/Mao/Hitlarian ruling come from? Straight from a tyrannical hell, a US Court that is as un-American as anything you hear of today. People 30 years ago would have laughed you to scorn if you would have predicted a court ruling could take place in America that followed the Marxist ideology of the USSR. But, here we are. Such Soviet rulings have been made and will continue to be made. That ruling enforced a plank of the Communist Manifesto.
Resom
Report Comment 9:17pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Awake and Arise: Great perspective on what is at stake @AwakeAndAriseOrg - Thanks for a thoughtful and poignant post.

The liberals are attempting to interfere with religious liberties. This isn't about the church exercising political speech, which is constitutionally protected. It is about the state inserting itself into and curtailing religious liberty.

C.R. is a self-avowed atheist: an inherently illogical position. He considers religion and belief in God as anachronistic superstitions that need to be supplanted by his preferred philosophies of naturalism and humanism. He pretends to be a defender of Constitutional liberties; but seeks to support changes in the law that would, in effect, impose state sponsored secular humanistic values on the Church.

With you, I agree that his self-professed motivation of defending Constitutional liberties is little more than disingenuous smokescreen and that his real intent is to enforce secular humanism as the state's official philosophy in clear violation of both spirit and letter of the 1st amendment.
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Oh yeah!................Oh no!
Report Comment 9:10am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Supernurseboy @Supernurseboy - You couldn't be more wrong.

The church will never accepts Gays in the temple. It defeats the very core of the regigion. That is, marriage is between a man and a women.

I know you wish it will happen, but it will not. Regardless of what you think the reasons about allowing blacks to receive the priesthood are.

This whole thing against the Church is stupid and silly.

Mormons do not believe in homosexulity, either do the Catholics or many sects of the Baptists. This is not new! Yet this rage has come out of California against the mormons from the gay community. They are forgetting that the mormon population only consists of 2 or 3 percent of the states population. Yet, over 50% of the population has voted for Prop 8.

HELLO! Does that tell you something. This is not only a mormon belief, but the majority of the voters of the state. If not it would not have passed.

For a group of people that fought hard to get discrimination and hate laws passed they sure are hypritical.

The church does not hate gays. They were well within their constitutional right to stand up for what they believed in. Just as the Gay community has done for what they believe in. But when it has to come down to a vote and they lose. Don't point your finger out to one group of people. Remember is was over 50% of the state that was for prop 8
ditto +4
KimberlyDD
Report Comment 9:30am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
You are so Unfortunate @Supernurseboy - The LDS Church is directed by GOD thru a Prophet! Don't be confused over God's direction and your passion. God set up commandments several thousand years ago and they still stand today.

Being gay is not a civil rights issue! Not even a social issue. You're sexual orientation can stay in the bedroom, not the office. Nobody knows [removed] unless you let them know. Hense they can't discriminate.

What's next, reinstate polygamy? Once you open "sexual" rights, there is no closing the door on what is "legal".

As far as benefits are concerned, thats a business issue. Companies don't have to extend rights if they don't want to no matter what the law says! If you have had cancer in the past, insurance companies do not have to insure you.

You don't have to have a law to state whether you can or can't receive benefits. DOn't like it, start your own business catering to gay people.

As it was said before - "The church also invites all to come and partake of what it considers the good and the righteous... no one will be excluded... but the church will never bend on its core standards or doctrine."

The church will not weaken its standards. In fact they have been tightening them!
persuasive +11
Revilo
Report Comment 9:57am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Likewise, I addressed your assertions in the other thread. @Supernurseboy - You seem to be well-versed in revealed doctrine, so I'll speak to you in clear terms. The world in which we live is in a fallen and temporal condition and its inhabitants are undergoing a great sifting and proving. We are here, after eons of preparation to finally choose for ourselves what eternal verities we are willing to accept. Our agency is much more fundamental than just choosing what we will do. I testify to you that I know with absolute certainty that our agency allows us to choose what we think, what we believe, what we hope, and even what we desire. There is no moment that is not pregnant with choice while we sojourn here.

And this is the condemnation of the world and of man: that light has been revealed; but that we reject it, spurn it and hate it: choosing instead to act, think, believe, and desire alternate, less worthy perceptions.

I bear solemn witness that the day will come when all men will realize that reality here is presented ambiguously before our eyes for agency's sake, viz., that we may choose for ourselves what we will believe.

The day will most surely come when all men will know that there is a perfect order that has been architected and ordained by a living and loving Father and God; that our potential place in the universe was truly without limit; but while today lasts, that reality is hidden from view, so that we can choose for ourselves.

I tell you these things so that you might understand that your perceptions about what is going on around you, and why it happens, is a manifestation of your choice of what you want to believe. In effect we choose our worldview and then interpret the universe to fit it: and this is possible because of ambiguity. The world is in a state of mass hallucination: darkness covers the world and gross darkness the minds of the people.

So, you say, the church decided to ordain Blacks because of political constraints and it abandoned polygamy because of political constraints. Is it possible that there is an alternate view?

How about Polygamy: The Book of Mormon implies that God ordains polygamy in order to quickly grow a rising generation. From a legitimate frame of reference, the establishment of the latter-day church faced great opposition: its adherents were driven, raped, and slayed in the most free country upon the earth - largely, incidentally, because of its opposition to slavery. It seems reasonable that this was such a period that necessitated the rapid embryonic growth required to set the Kingdom firmly in place. Once the critical mass was achieved, polygamy was no longer 'required' for the Lord's purposes.

How about Blacks and the Priesthood:
In the colonial days of the Americas, slavery was a common and ACCEPTED practice in most of the world. Black men were not free. The founding fathers, many of whom were slave holders themselves and subjects of their own times, wisely set in motion a political system that was not in their own self-interest and that would eventually politically liberate the slaves. To understand the early restrictions on the priesthood, I believe you have to understand the solemnity, oath and covenant of the priesthood.

A man who accepts the priesthood incurs a solemn obligation to magnify that priesthood and to function in the world as a free agent in the service of God in administering truth and light to others. Instead of viewing the Priesthood as a privilege that was denied from some because of their skin color, I view the Priesthood as a grave obligation that results in condemnation when not handled properly; and that God mercifully withheld that obligation from Blacks until the time when very real political, educational, and cultural impediments were removed; and conditions were such that they could take upon themselves these sacred obligations with a reasonable probability of success. I'm convinced that Blacks in the early history of the United States, because of their limited liberty, will be judged to a different standard than their white contemporaries who had, but abused, greater liberty; and that the priesthood restrictions correlate to this reality.

Now, I recognize that you likely won't jump to my frame of reference just because I showed it too you. However, I wish that I could merely convince you to renew a childlike, meek, humble, search for truth and to recognize that the ultimate reality typically transcends our poverty of perception.

Choose wisely what you believe... it is the foundation of your perceptions... it comprises the self-imposed limits on what you can see. What is "obvious" to you is an artifact of where you stand spiritually. Your conclusions are built upon the foundation of your desires.

You hold your conclusions up as objective truth; you measure yourself and the world by your own light (and the light of others who stand with you) instead of submitting yourself to the measure and light of God.

I know that there is a living God in the Heavens, that Christ has set forth his hand in these latter days to restore his Kingdom upon the earth preparatory to his coming in great glory. The Book of Mormon is exactly what it purports to be and Joseph Smith truly saw the Father of Heaven and his only begotten Son. I solemnly affirm that just because you don't know these things doesn't have anything to do with whether such knowledge can be held; and I do hold it, and that it has been given to me by the power of the Holy Ghost. Such things may sound nonsensical to the world; but so it is, and I know it.

I've always been fascinated by folks who stand on lower ground and confidently declare, "all that I see is all that there is!" Will you tell me that I don't know these things? Or will you stand there and insanely bear witness of what is not? Please come quickly out of darkness and ignorance: humble yourself before God. Believe that He is, believe that he has power to change our natures, believe that he can lift us from our fallen state, believe that he operates among men according to their faith because of free agency.

Nevertheless, you may choose for yourself: for it is given to you to choose life or death, light or darkness, truth or error, salvation or damnation. This is a great key to understanding: God has prepared a plan for each soul to choose its own destiny - therein lies tragedy; therein lies triumph.

Choose wisely what you desire!
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Revilo
Report Comment 9:59am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
This post was addressed to Supernurseboy, in case anyone wonders @Revilo - Oh, and "choose wisely what you believe" too.
ditto +4
Conejo
Report Comment 7:37pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Thank you Revilo. @Revilo - I don't often come across great insight on a comment board but I have here. Once again, thank you.
ditto +4
Slagathorisnear
Report Comment 10:11am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
It's not the same. @Supernurseboy - The church will never allow practicing homosexuals to be married in the temple, for the same reason they will never allow people that are sexually active with different partners of the opposite sex to go in the temple, because it is against our moral code. That is because the people can choose who and when they have relations with... A black person, I say black because not everyone is an 'American', or a women doesn't have the choice to change their roles. This isn't a civil rights issue, this is a moral issue the participants have a CHOICE to act on their feelings. The last time I checked a church's main goal is to help provide some sort of moral guidance to society, it shouldn't be the government.
insightful +2
Lance T.
Report Comment 10:20am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
supernurseboy @Supernurseboy - you really, and I mean really need to read you history better, and have a better understanding of what the lds teachings are.
#1 there are human rights
there are no rights for your sexual preference. why should someone get a right based on whom they like to sleep with. do I get a special right because I like athletic women, or fat women, or etc? No. So why should a gay person get anything more for what he/she likes to sleep with. that is a personal choice, with no constitutional rights.
#2 I am not going to start to quote scripture to you, but what B young said is true. you just need to have a better understanding of LDS teachings. The LDS church also believes that you must be perfect or you will be damned. I bet that idea is going to drive you nuts as well.
#3 Blacks and the priesthood, once again I am not going to quote scripture to you, but the doctrine was they will not get the priesthood until every other tribe has the full blessings of the priesthood. Not that they would never get the priesthood. Also it is Gods priesthood and he has denied it to multiple groups of people, go read the bible. There were people that Christ would not even teach the gospel too until it was time. Also the lds church was anti slavery. that is one of the reasons people did not like them.
#4 Women suffrage. The lds church was not against equal rights for women. If I remember correctly the lds faith was for women having the right to vote before a lot of people. What the lds church did not want was to have women leave the very important position of being a mother. Do not try to tell me that women leaving there position of being a mother to go out and pursue a career has not had a bad effect on everyone. The country went from a single income home to having to be a two income home. Pay went down because of the large influx of workers. And now we have kids being raised by nanny's, and baby sitters. Women who do not even want to have children because they want to have a job. It is not men that are saying that women are not as good as men it is the feminist. Also try to tell me that it is easier for a marriage when both parties have to work. In comparison to having one person have to work. Once again the lds church was not against equal rights. they were just against women trying to be men, and vice versa.
# 5 You will never see the lds church change their view on homosexual marriage!!
I disagree with you on every point that you made.
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I'm for Palin
Report Comment 10:29am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
here is a thought @Supernurseboy - In the scriptures you have often heard of the first shall be last and the last shall be first. Adam and Eve's first child was Cain. Later on down the line they had Abel. We don't know what the age difference is or how many other children seperated the two. What we do know is Cain killed Abel. Now Cain was the eldest son, thus he would have been the first person to recieve the preisthood outside the garden. We know he had the priesthood becuase only those who had it did sacrifices. So when Cain killed Abel and was cursed the prophesy was fulfilled. Cain's posperity was the last to recieve the preisthood in this day and age. I think it is more of fullfilling a prophecy than anything else. After all the biggest reason why the Mormons were pushed out of Misouri was the fact that they did not beleive slavery was a just and humane practice.
ditto +6
Trevor R.
Report Comment 10:33am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The Church Won't Change In This Matter @Supernurseboy - The Church is not going to change their stance on this issue. Go to lds.org and read "The Family: A Proclamation to the World." The Proclamation states clearly the belief of the LDS Church that "marriage between a MAN and a WOMAN is ordained of God..."

If God had really meant for two women or two men to marry, then He also would have provided a way for them to have children naturally.

The Church is not going to change their minds in ten, twenty, or a hundred years and say that homosexual marriage is okay. This is an issue of doctrine, not popular opinion or cultural trends.
Panda
Report Comment 9:30am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@Trevor R. - You don't believe the possibility of a man (santa) delivering thousands of presents all over the world. Or a tooth fairy... BUT you believe in a man that listens to everybody in the world at once.. A man that only talks to an LDS profit... tells him polygamy is ok... op now it's not because the GOV is stepping in.

[no swearing please]..

You all are beyond me.
ditto +4
Justin E.
Report Comment 10:42am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Supernurseboy....You don't even believe that.... @Supernurseboy - """I know that it is a matter of a few decades and Homosexuals will be getting married in LDS temples even if that seems far-fetched now..."""

Sodom and Gomorrah anyone?.... sure seemed to work for those people. Whatever drugs you are on Supernurseboy you'd better get off of them fast so you can come back to reality.
ditto +4
Jason S.
Report Comment 11:22am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Doctrine remains the same, mechanics always change @Supernurseboy - So we should still be slaughtering lambs and offering sacrifices? Should I isolate myself in the wilderness to live the gospel? Should we stop teaching the Gospel to the world and focus only on the direct descendants of Abraham, Isaac & Jacob?

The Sadducees of old faced off with the Savior himself with these same arguments, decidedly ignorant to the eternal vision of the Father. Jesus Christ himself endured these same criticisms in the Meridian of Time when he came to declare and end to the Law of Moses and introduced the Gospel of repentance, forgiveness.

The mechanics of the Gospel are tremendously different now than they have been in the past. There was a time when the Gospel of Jesus Christ was reserved for a select few wandering in the wilderness. Plurality of wives came and went all through Old Testament times.

God has always fulfilled his purposes on his own timeline using methods applicable to the listener. Humanity is not the same now as it was then. The doctrine of the gospel has always been the same, but, the way God teaches it to us and requires us to follow it has never been the same from one generation to the next.

Plurality of wives is a completely separate argument, as God has condoned it at times and condemned it in others, as it has fulfilled His purposes. Gods position on homosexuality has always been the same. Participate in it if you so choose, but pay the consequences.

As a democratic people we vote as a matter of law to define marriage as the union of a man and woman. Obviously we are in the majority.
insightful +5
Jakob the Liar
Report Comment 11:49am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Listen @Supernurseboy - Being tolerant and giving in are two completely different cans of worms. The LDS church has been very tolerant and respectful of people's sexual preference. This does not mean that they will condone it as an acceptable practice.

You my friend seem to have a lot of knowledge about the LDS faith... are you a member? Or one of those apostate type fellows?

Over the years I've been very intrigued by the beliefs of the Mormon religion but have yet to join myself with them.

This is my brief and narrow understanding of what you have tried to explain.
See polygamy has always been God's way. It was instituted by God to people in Biblical times by way of commandment. I understand that the world changes and certain institutions are no longer necessary. I believe that is why the law was revoked from the Mormons around the time of their denied statehood.

I've had these same questions in my heart all these years and this explanation has brought me the most satisfaction. I don't believe political pressure was the only reason to end polygamatic marriages.

I don't think it is proper to single out the Mormon church for speaking out against Gay marriage. Other Christian faiths have done the same, however less publicly. The difference is that other faiths do not have the courage to be more overt about it.

Please set aside your biased mind and angry heart toward the Mormons and be rational in your thought process. Im sure there are many personal beliefs that you hold that you wouldn't like to be compromised. We have liberty in America but that doesn't mean we always get what we want. But organizations/ religions should stand firm as beacons of truth and constancy.

Human rights is a two edged sword. If we push too hard on one end we infringe upon others legitimate human rights. Please be mindful of the effect your ambitions might have on future generations.

-Jakob
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CRL1973
Report Comment 12:50pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
In other words... @Supernurseboy - I love these Mormon bashers who can quote from memory every statement made by Brigham Young (or allegedly made by Brigham Young) regarding polygamy and blacks in the priesthood, but they ignore scriptures within the Book of Mormon which teach openess and clarity on these specific doctrines. (2nd Nephi 26:33 / Jacob 2:30)

Let me translate what Supernurseboy is really saying.

TRANSLATION - If we can harass the LDS Church hard enough. If we can bully them, intimidate them, ridicule them, and threaten them hard enough.

- If we can perform enough acts of "civil disobedience" against LDS Church property and LDS leaders (or their families).

- If we can produce enough books and DVDs which distort LDS teachings and lifestyles, especially if such materials threaten the safety of LDS missionaries.

- If we do all of these long enough and consistent enough, eventually, we will force the LDS Church to change its position.
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stsaylor
Report Comment 3:05pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Wow. . . @Supernurseboy - you're obviously not a member . . . the fact that you think the church gave in on their stances because of outside pressures screams your ignorance. I won't waste my time explaining it to you since you won't understand it. But I can guarantee you, (and I have no personal vendetta against homosexuals, mind you) Homosexuals will NEVER be getting married in LDS Temples. The church would simply cease to exist before that would ever happen. There's so much more I'd love to delve into, but I'm choosing to hold my tongue. I think everyone should drop this dumb protestin and fighting and arguing. Our church teaches homosexuality is wrong. The church is in no way forcing its beliefs on those that feel differently. And even if it does seem that way to some, I don't see how it is any different than any other group speaking its mind and campaigning against something they feel strongly about.
insightful +1
Conejo
Report Comment 3:49pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Some of your information is faulty... @Supernurseboy - Utah voted for women's suffrage in 1870. They were the second state in the nation to do so. Their rights were then taken away by the CONGRESS of the United States because they chose to vote FOR polygamy instead of against it.

In 1895 Mormon women approached the church to gain it's approval of forming an association affiliated with the Nation Woman's Suffrage association. The church GAVE it's approval and the association was led by prominant non-Mormon women.

http://historytogo.utah.gov/utah_chapters/statehood_and_the_progressive_era/womenssuffrageinutah.html

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women's_suffrage

As for your other issues with the church I will only say this. There has always been and there will always be change in the approach God has taken in guiding his children in righteousness. We as parents forbid many things for our children until they understand the dynamics involved and are ready to make their choice, fully understanding right from wrong.
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Greenwich Gal
Report Comment 4:05pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Not so much @Supernurseboy - I can promise you that the church will never change its stance on marriage being betweeen man and woman. It's quite a difference between comparing the evolution of times with our morality. The standards of the church do not change. Our moral conduct still reflects our belief in God. The LDS church does not change so that it might survive society. To the contrary, we continue to do what we know to be right and we take the consequences either way. Our people have been slaughtered, judged, cast out. And yet we continue to be a peaceful people.

Mormons are one of the few possible parties that prejudice is still allowed for. On Bill Maher's show, Ben Affleck referred to Mormonism as a "suspect religion" - tell me, if you referred to Judaism as suspect - would it be tolerated? I can tell you as someone who has grown up in large diverse cities - it would not. Lawrence O'Donnell, a political analyst speaking at on the show the McLaughlin Group, accused Joseph Smith of being a rapist and a criminal. A counterpart of his was fired from the show for referring to young African Americans as "nappy headed." Not only was he not fired, he was brought back to speak again. If he had referred to Mohammad a rapist due to his religious practices I can assure you there would have been an uproar.

My life thus far has been spent in San Francisco and New York City. I am an LDS individual with many gay friends. This is ridiculous. I have never had this issue before. I respect my friends and they respect me in return. We may not agree but we love one another. In all honesty, the majority of people I know are not offended by this. My friends still have civil union available. The minority of this group are making the uproar and making it personal. The LDS church has very respectfully called for peace and open mindedness. Interesting that the very people calling for us to open our minds are the very ones being close minded.

Bottom line - God loves all his children. He wants us to treat each other lovingly. Perhaps we just need to remember where we came from.
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BG
Report Comment 4:14pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Supernurseboy @Supernurseboy - It is clear you suffer from a severe case of cranial-rectum-itis. Your statement that the prop 8 is a “Civil Rights” issue reveals that you have been brainwashed into believing that what the GLTG crowd is peddling.

This is the same group that demands free speech when it meets their needs, but vilifies, and would deny the same right to anyone who disagrees (as evidenced by the hostile/putative position taken toward the LDS Church). (Let’s see…, homophobia, bigotry, discrimination, etc…, all terms the GLBT crowd loves to throw out, particularly on TV, to belittle and castigate anyone who believes the practice is wrong/deplorable)

There was a time that homosexuality was considered a “deviant” sexual behavior by the metal health profession AND the public. However, homosexuals working within the mental health profession promoted a change. This then became an “Alternative Lifestyle.” Major efforts within the movement focused on a multi-pronged approach; public relations to soften the image and change the stigma, and an aggressive lobby of state and federal legislators to enact and/or change laws that were/are more favorable to the gay/lesbian agenda (ever hear of Special Interests?). Unfortunately for America in general, this movement discovered they could “overcome” the voice of the people much more successfully by pandering to activist judges, who then took it upon themselves to legislate from the bench.

Let’s be very clear, the majority of Americans have consistently viewed homosexuality as wrong, as evidenced by the growing trend of voters in States across the country to install constitutional amendments defining marriage as between a “Man and a Women.”

Trying to “change America’s mind” has proven to be a significant obstacle, besides, why waste the time when you can call it a “Civil Rights” issue, and get the tax-payers to cover the bill. Much of what we now see coming from the GLTG group looks like it came from either the Civil Rights or Environmental-Terrorism play book or both!

Your theories on the LDS Church evolving are interesting, but contextually manipulated to prove your point. In reality, the anger of the Gay/Lesbian crowd should be focused on the many, many people who disagree. It’s just easier to find a big target, get a WHOLE big bunch of free media coverage and do one’s best to turn it into a public relations bonus for the GL side.

Please, stop the posting until you have finished your “deprogramming.” Figure it out and post again once your feet are back on tera-firma.
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Beech T.
Report Comment 7:07pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Homosexual Temple marriage.... @Supernurseboy - Perhaps this issue in question should not be about whether the LDS church is hypocritical, bias, etc, a church that follows popular demand when pressured, and easily gives in, etc. But it SHOULD be about whether God exists, or not. Bottom line.

If God dosen't exist, then all of this hype about gay marriage dosen't matter one way or the other. If He does exists, and He does, then gay marriage isn't a question.

God governs by laws. He always has. And whenever there has been a people on the earth who would listen to Him, He would send prophets to tell them about commandments, and things NOT to do to make God angry. God would also speak directly to those individuals who sought Him out. It's called personal revelation. It's something that all christians believe in.

The thing is, God's laws are unalterable. If they were alterable, God would be a changing God, therefore a TEMPORARY God, and a God that you couldn't really trust one day to the next. All Christian churches believe and KNOW that God is unchanging, and is no respecter of persons. That is why christian churches of all denominations have come together to stand against that which would destroy our faith...the very attack of the adversary, the devil, himself.

The very suggestion that in a few years homosexual marriage will take place in mormon temples is absoleutly faithless and treacherous. In saying that, just to make a point, it's like you are saying that God dosen't really know what He's doing, and that He should listen to you because you are, obviously, smarter than He is.

I know, beyond doubt and as a fact, that the family is central to the divine plan God has for EACH of his children. It is sacred, and safe. Just like having faith in God is sacred and safe. This plan that He has for all of us IS a divine plan of happiness. And for those who would degrade the family to a thing of insignificance, and who would seek to redefine a divine institution simply to suit their "trendy" practices and who would make fun of, and persecute those who WOULD stand up for the institution that brings us together as better individuals with stronger faith in CHRIST, I say..."band together then. Because whether you belive it or not "those that be with US (christians and belivers) are more than they that be with them."

I WILL wait and see, friend. And I will not wait alone. I know what's coming. And I'm up for the challenge. I won't just back down because I'm too afraid to stand up for what's right. Bring it on. "I know in whom I trust, and I will trust in Him forever."
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Wildman_001
Report Comment 8:05pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Whatever @Supernurseboy - whatever, whatever, whatever. AS always you seem to take truth and mix it with your own words and it comes out garbage. And,inexplicably wrong.
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Michelle G.
Report Comment 8:27pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
"A matter of Decades?" @Supernurseboy - You said that, "I know that there will be a day that their stance will become so unpopular that they will once again be forced to change their stance on Gay marriage or they will lose their memberships." - To that all I have to say is the Church will never stop defending the family!

And as far as you last comment goes on that it will be "a matter of a few decades before Homosexuals will be getting married in LDS temples," have you ever heard of Sodom and Gomorrah? Need I say more?
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DJC 47
Report Comment 9:06pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Democracy @Supernurseboy - So you think democracy means you just keep bringing back an issue until the vote goes YOUR way? That is not my idea of democracy. We don't mind gays living as they please but just don't try to shove it down our throats as a legitimate way of life. We don't believe that and don't want you teaching our children that. This is the issue. Civil union laws such as those in Calif give you all the rights you are asking for without trampling on our rights. You lost this election fair and square. Money came to the vote no on prop 8 from every state in the union. Plenty of people all over this country gave support to both sides not just the LDS church. Let it go. You lost.
jmcdonald
Report Comment 11:19pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - Your out of your mind
Stars
Report Comment 12:39am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Gays will never be allowed to married in the temple not because I say so but because God will not allow it @Supernurseboy - Supernurseboy,

I am sorry to say that you will probably never understand this but there is no way ever God will allow same-sex temple marriage. Its unheard of and provokes God's plan. God is the same yesterday, today and forever. His plan is to allow us to have eternal progression and to have eternal progression, marriage is needed between a MAN and a WOMAN... they can carry on the sacred power of procreation. Same-sex couples CANNOT, it hinders the process. Just you wait and see, same-sex marriage will never happen on this earth or at any time hereafter... Sorry dude, its just not going to happen... yeah I know there was polygamy and blacks that made a breakthrough, but you have to understand in the history why it happened the way it did. But unless you really research and research in the right places... not anti-mormon materials then you will never know.
Blaze9
Report Comment 1:04pm - Mon Nov 10th, 2008
God is the same yesterday, today and forever... @Stars - You say that "God is the same yesterday, today and forever" - so what does that mean about Racism in the Mormon Church? Yesterday, humans of african descent were not allowed full priveledges of the Church but miraculously in 1977, the Church had a "revelation" from God stating that humans of african descent should have full priveledges of the Mormon Church. If God leads the Mormon Church, why did the Mormon Church change their position on blacks? Is God racist?
JRunner
Report Comment 6:18pm - Mon Nov 10th, 2008
it has nothing to do with racism @Blaze9 - As stated by Revilo elsewhere on this board,

"In the colonial days of the Americas, slavery was a common and ACCEPTED practice in most of the world. Black men were not free. The founding fathers, many of whom were slave holders themselves and subjects of their own times, wisely set in motion a political system that was not in their own self-interest and that would eventually politically liberate the slaves. To understand the early restrictions on the priesthood, I believe you have to understand the solemnity, oath and covenant of the priesthood.

"A man who accepts the priesthood incurs a solemn obligation to magnify that priesthood and to function in the world as a free agent in the service of God in administering truth and light to others. Instead of viewing the Priesthood as a privilege that was denied from some because of their skin color, I view the Priesthood as a grave obligation that results in condemnation when not handled properly; and that God mercifully withheld that obligation from Blacks until the time when very real political, educational, and cultural impediments were removed; and conditions were such that they could take upon themselves these sacred obligations with a reasonable probability of success. I'm convinced that Blacks in the early history of the United States, because of their limited liberty, will be judged to a different standard than their white contemporaries who had, but abused, greater liberty; and that the priesthood restrictions correlate to this reality."
AwakeAndAriseOrg
Report Comment 2:58am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
SuperNurseBoy, You are Duped, Upholder of Tyranny, Butcher of the 1st Amendment @Supernurseboy - SuperNurseBoy,

You hold up the sophistry and lie that this "gay movement" against Prop 8 in California is akin to the "Civil Rights Fight." What sophistry. You've been conned. What a perfect tool to bring about a ruthless tyranny, and you fully support it. Let me explain a few things.

William Tyndale was burned alive in the 16th century for printing the English Bible. This was the "tolerance" for religion in England that pushed boatload after boatload of Englishman to the eastern seaboard of the United States, seeking freedom.

Jefferson swore eternal hostility toward any form of tyranny upon the mind of man:

"I have sworn upon the altar of God eternal hostility against every form of tyranny over the mind of man."

Religious Liberty was of the highest order and concern to these colonists, and the very first of their spelled out "Bill of Rights" reads:

"Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."



So, the First Amendment was to keep the damned hand of government tyranny off of religion, for "Congress shall make no law" concerning religion, and neither shall the damned Soviet Courts in the United States today. Prop 8 was not an "anti-gay" measure, but a 1st Amendment measure to protect religion from the wicked courts who are hostile and seek an inroad at slaughtering the First Amendment. Judges the ilk of Governor Lilburn W. Boggs of Missouri with his infamous "extermination order" against the Mormon's are ready and anxious to criminalize religion if they can do so.

An example of these most wicked courts. Recently, the Soviet US District Court in San Francisco ruled that "parental rights are severed" when a child crosses the threshold of the school. Where did this Stalin/Mao/Hitlarian ruling come from? Straight from a tyrannical hell, a US Court that is as un-American as anything you hear of today. People 30 years ago would have laughed you to scorn if you would have predicted a court ruling could take place in America that followed the Marxist ideology of the USSR. But, here we are. Such Soviet rulings have been made and will continue to be made. That ruling enforced a plank of the Communist Manifesto.

Respecting religion and the "free exercise thereof," churches absolutely must defend against these damned, wicked courts who now "make law" which the 1st Amendment prohibits Congress from doing, regarding religion.

I hope, in a nutshell, this explains the real issue. What a damned lie to say this is "hate filled" by churches. Churches did not start this battle, but they shall be destroyed if they don't stand up and defend the 1st Amendment. It is their defense against hate filled judges who will begin criminalizing churches as soon as they can get an inroad to do so. Marriage as defined as a "man and a woman" is a buffer against such tyranny upon the 1st Amendment. Gay people can have every right and do so under the law. The only difference is their "domestic unions" are not given the legal definition to be a "marriage" which protects churches from a ruthless tyrannical government hell bent upon legislating it into oblivion by the Secularist High Priests of the State Religion of Secularism---the Judges.

Mormon's, more than any other people on earth today, perhaps, ought to know what governments can do, for in the 19th Century, the US Federal government sought to "destroy the LDS Church as an institution" as Gordon B. Hinckley expressed a while back. It is true, murder of leadership, their imprisonment, lootings, rape, robbings, plunder, seizure of assets, burning of temples, shutting down of temples, "extermination orders," it's all been had before, and is prophesied to transpire again. We're fools to let it come about easily by not seeking to ensure the 1st Amendment is of force, keeping judges damned hands from "making law" against religion and "the free exercise thereof." Thus, those crying that this is an unfair fight at "denying rights" from gay couples are liars, and the best line sophistry sold in the 2008 election year.

http://www.awakeandarise.org/article/lds_targeted.htm
rightorwrong?
Report Comment 8:06am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
good stuff @Supernurseboy - why would homosexuals want to get married in the temples anyway? these temples belong to the church that apparently homosexuals despise.? if they believe the church is so wrong, (or not true, like so many members believe) for what they did and want to curse the members for using their rights to vote in favor of keeping marriage between a man and a woman, why would they want to marry in the temple of that church?

it seems to me that it would be a better option for homosexuals to start their own church and build their own temples so that they can do whatever they please in those temples.
annonimus
Report Comment 10:45am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Priesthood to the blacks @Supernurseboy - Mr Whipple I will GLADLY answer your question as to why our brothers of the black race did not receive the priesthood until 1976 when you answer why the Lord only allowed the Tribe of Aaron to officiate in ancient temple ordinances, why were they the only ones allowed. When you can answer that one I will answer the other one.

Because you do not understand doctrine you say that gays will marry in our temples... sure that will happen as long as the gay individual is marring someone of the opposite sex.
annonimus
Report Comment 10:48am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
why the church didn't give priesthood @Supernurseboy - Mr Whipple I will GLADLY answer your question as to why our brothers of the black race did not receive the priesthood until 1976 when you answer why the Lord only allowed the Tribe of Aaron to officiate in ancient temple ordinances, why were they the only ones allowed. When you can answer that one I will answer the other one.
Dexsterman06
Report Comment 11:26am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - Supernurseboy,
It would never happen and Church will never allow gay marriage in the temple. Lets said if US government threaten the Church to allow it then God will end this world of wicked and burn the earth to destroy all the wicked people. End of story.
bumblebee
Report Comment 11:41am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
To supernurseboy @Supernurseboy - Your comment about gay marraiges in the temple is an oxymoron. I can tell you don't understand LDS doctrine. The temple marraiges are about creating eternal families. Husband and wife are united and told to multiply and replensih the earth. The union starts with husband and wife and creating an eternal kingdom by having children together, which will never happen with two women and two men. The Lord is not going to change the temple endowment to accomodate gays, or the temple marraige.

The changes you site with blacks came because the curese of Cain was fulfilled. The black people were then ready to receive the blessings. Polygamy was changed because it was against the law and the people were not prepared to live it correctly. It was just for a short period of time to take care of the excess women. I don't think we will ever be expected to live polygamy again on the earth. We may accept it later in the celestial kingdom, but not here.

The whole endowment ceremony in the temple is based on Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.
mimimom
Report Comment 12:34pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - You just don't get it, do you?
The Savior WILL come! Doctrine isn't dictated by members or by public pressure. We all need to repent. Even you. You can "wait and see."
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Fred charles rayovac
Report Comment 9:18am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Evil @Sandywig - Homosexuality is not evil. Explain how two men who want to marry each other is evil without invoking ignorant notions.
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Justin E.
Report Comment 10:51am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
If you're right Fred... @Fred charles rayovac - then neither is bestiality, child rape, incest, etc... and yes, homosexuality is as deviant and evil as all these things.

I have homosexual members of my family and have sadly witnessed how THIS CHOICE (it is NOT genetic) devastates and destroys lives. I've also witnessed how one of these family members purposely and deceptively recruited teenage boys to adopt his lifestyle.

Homosexuals are NOT evil, but homosexuality IS! There are people in this world who are inclined and have strong desires to murder others. Should their desires and inclinations being protected by law and should they be given "rights" to murder others? Homosexuality IS evil.
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Panda
Report Comment 9:21am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Justin @Justin E. - You are pathetic.

Homosexuality is not evil... religion is EVIL.... Practice what you preach!!!!! religious people claim to be, kind, caring, accepting.... YET... when it comes to something their god, or joseph smith's (a man that was obviously high off shrooms.) writings or beliefs they turn all evil, unloving, hypocritical, fanatics.

Not everyone believes in your god, so lay off.
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Fred charles rayovac
Report Comment 9:31am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Sandywig - The problem, of course, is that what the LDS considers evil is often a case of bad judgment.
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DNA
Report Comment 10:33am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Sandywig @Sandywig - You say that "the church will never bend on its core standards or doctrine."

I'm guessing that you weren't around in 1978 when the LDS church changed a core doctrine and decided that letting even Negroes hold the priesthood was a desirable change.

There was a lot of arrogance in the thought you expressed that the LDS church is "the standard of what is good and righteous in this world."

So of all the religions of the world, the comparatively small sect headquartered in SLC is the standard for what is good and righteous? Better cc the Dali Lama and others that they are below SLC on the good and righteous continuum.

So I see that a lot of my fellow members think that the church should go around trying to legislate into law what it considers to be moral.

I'm thinking that it is probably more to do with a lot of your "ick" feelings about homosexual sex.

If you really thought the church should be legislating all over the country for what it considers moral behaviour, why don't they try to return us to prohibition? Using alcohol is "immoral."

Why don't they try to get laws passed to outlaw premarital sex? It is immoral.

I could go on, but you get the point. It isn't about outlawing what is immoral. It is about outlawing what makes intolerant people go "ick". Alcohol just isn't as icky.

My suggestion would be to let those who want to marry do so, if you don't want to picture them having sex, don't picture it.

To almost the whole country in the 1800's, marrying a bunch of women, many underage, was immoral and shouldn't be tolerated. They passed laws against it that the church thought were unfair against their brand of immoral and repugnant behaviour.

The whole reason that the rest of the country hated polygamy was because they thought it was immoral. A smaller group wanted to have immoral and repugnant marriages, and have others just leave them to do what they wanted in bed, then they forgot what that was like and started to do the same thing that they found so unfair.
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allatwitter
Report Comment 3:08pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
okay, so.... @Sandywig - Why is what it considered to be the good and righteous forced on the general public? It's fine that it feels it is standing for righteousness. But that may not be the case for ALL. It goes both ways. But I've never heard of DISCRIMINATION being the good and the righteous.
HaHaHa
Report Comment 9:48pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Sandywig - but your forgetting something... most these people aren't mormon, and while they have to respect you and your religious beliefs, so should you. Their belief is that they deserve the same rights as everyone else, and not be singled out. Their not asking you to bend your core values,( even though one of them is, that god loves all his children,) they are just asking you to tolerate their want's and beliefs, while people respect yours.
Rachael C.
Report Comment 11:06am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
There is a special place in Haides for bigots @Sandywig - especially bigots that actively fight against another human being's rights and freedoms. I don't care how "the" church tries to justify their disgusting behavior. It is what it is. This issue is black and white - no if's, and's, or but's about it. I am utterly disgusted.

This morning, I read that "the" church said that neither side should be targeted or villified. Hello? You people and your "church" have been targeting and villifying a whole group of law-abiding citizens and that is the precise reason that your church is being targeted and villified now. Well, your hatred paid off - now, you will suffer the consequences and the huge backlash. This is just the beginning. Congratulations people. I hope you feel proud of yourselves and your bigoted ways. The way I see it, you should be feeling ashamed. Absolutely disgraceful. Your church has NO right to even talk about your little persecution that you "suffered" when you are the persecutors and oppressors now. Everyone is seeing your total and utter hypocrisies and sick ways.

Every church who actively participated in prop 8 should have their tax exemption status revoked and done so very publicly in order to send a message. This is a political matter, not a religious matter. This is also a California matter - not a Utah matter, so MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!

My next wish is that when Utah has a controversial prop come up that Californian's will send every single penny and dime and influence and advertising this way to oppose what you people want.

Absolutely reprehensible.
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Steelbender
Report Comment 8:10am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
You are confused @Supernurseboy - You expect a church to acccept what you believe, without regard for what it believes. The church should have made a stand on this issue. The gay activists are the ones who have created a divide here, not the church. They are the ones that pushed this issue to the California Supreme Court when the voters had already decided as they did again. The church just stood up for one of it's core values. You are using Pres Monson's message in a way it was not implied. Striving for unity and tolerance is a two way street and you seem to think it only goes one way, the gay way. One thing is for sure, I am less tolerant of people with your views than I was before this issue came up and it is not because of the churches position.
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Supernurseboy
Report Comment 8:19am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
I don't deserve tolerance. @Steelbender - The root word of tolerance is tolerate which implies that an injustice is to be stomached despite its nauseating effects. I have not done anything to you or your family or removed their rights. On the other hand, you and people like you have removed nearly 1,400 rights of marriage from my sister and her partner of 10 years. My sister getting married would not damage your marriage, force you or your children to be gay or cause you to get a divorce. In fact, I cannot see in anyway, how it would effect you, so please don't tolerate me, you my friend are the one that deserve tolerance.
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gaint
Report Comment 8:30am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Do me a favor.... @Supernurseboy - Go to youtube and type in parker family massachusetts. Watch the video clip then tell me how it will not effect me again....
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Supernurseboy
Report Comment 8:35am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
I have seen it already. @gaint - I still don't see how it effects you. Wouldn't everyone want to teach their children to be accepting of others? Isn't that, in fact what love is about or are you teaching your kids something different?
ditto +12
gaint
Report Comment 8:40am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
I will not and I never will @Supernurseboy - Teach my kids to accept sin.
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OggieDog
Report Comment 9:35am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@gaint - Define sin, because my Jesus believes in love and acceptance, not discrimination and hate. You need to read the bible more thoroughly and write down ALL the sins in there. If you consider all sins in the Bible to be equal, you sir are the one at whom your finger should be pointing.
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gaint
Report Comment 11:04am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Definition of sin.... @OggieDog - 1. A transgression of a religious or moral law, especially when deliberate.
2. Theology
a. Deliberate disobedience to the known will of God.
b. A condition of estrangement from God resulting from such disobedience.
3. Something regarded as being shameful, deplorable, or utterly wrong.

As for the acceptance part. I accept the people but I do not accept their sin.

Christ also taught to judge righteously, and saying something is wrong that god himself has condemned is judging righteously.
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OggieDog
Report Comment 11:42am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@gaint - My point is that the Bible describes condemnation of thousands of actions and thoughts, and it is man who decides how to interpret priorities of sins. I tend to lean towards Jesus' teachings of love, acceptance, tolerance, judging not, turning the other cheek, humanity, etc. etc, basically the Golden Rule. If you could walk a mile in the shoes of people who were born only being attracted to the same sex emotionally, spiritually, and yes, physically, it would be easier to understand. Allowing equality and the pursuit of happiness without taking a stance against people by calling them evil and sinners would be the message you billow out.

This is about allowing others to have the right to pursue equality and happiness, not about giving up your own rights. Until church leaders accept that homosexuality is not a choice, not deplorable, and utterly wrong because, its members will never be allowed to have that belief independently.
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gaint
Report Comment 11:56am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
So basically you choose @OggieDog - only what you want to follow of Christ's teachings?

The church will not change it's stance on the sin. Because the sin is wrong. It is a sin just like murder, theivery, and adultry. The church will never change it's stance on the severity of sin.
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OggieDog
Report Comment 12:06pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@gaint - Jesus was loving and tolerant, and He would never compare love to murder, devotion to thievery, and monogamy to adultery. I believe in ALL of Jesus' teachings, which NEVER included the judging of homosexuality. Common sense tells us that murder, thievery, and adultery are wrong, as we could never survive or be happy when victims of these sins.

Bigotry, hatred, self-righteousness, ignorance, and refusal to understand (all of which are sins) tell you that homosexuality is evil.
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gaint
Report Comment 12:59pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@OggieDog -
Srimmasch
Report Comment 7:06pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@OggieDog -
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boardnski
Report Comment 9:46am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Be careful... @gaint - to not judge. Just because someone is gay doesn't automatically mean they are acting on their feelings and/or desires. It works the same way as straight people who have desires to sleep with someone of the opposite sex...we should just automatically assume they're sleeping around and acting on those desires. Teach your kids to not accept sin but don't teach your kids to judge & hate others.
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gaint
Report Comment 11:12am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
You forgot what this discussion is about.... @boardnski - This discussion is about gay marriage. Not about a person that has gay tendencies yet doesn't follow through with them. I believe that homosexuality is another trial that people are given to have to overcome in this lifetime. It is a trial just like pornography, drinking, and smoking. People may have a tendency to look at pornography, or to drink, or to smoke. But just because they have the tendency it doesn't make it right.
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BD
Report Comment 8:45am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - Teaching "acceptance" does not teach agreement. We can accept people without agreeing with them on issues.

If that is how you feel, how about we teach acceptance of Mormons by giving children in schools a Book of Mormon to take home? How would you feel then? There are a lot of people who hate Mormons. How about Mormon doctrine being taught in schools? I am sure you would be against that. As we are against gay lifestyles being taught in schools, which gay marriage leads to that.

Can we disagree without being disagreeable?
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Politico
Report Comment 8:40am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Don't take issue with @Supernurseboy - the Church over this issue. Our political system worked exactly as it was supposed to work. A referendum was passed with the majority support of the people of California. A judge ruled that the new law did not pass constitutional muster - a new referendum was put forth to amend the constitution. Support for this issue came from all sides, opposition also came from all sides. In the end the people of California again voted to amend the state Constitution. Similar amendments were passed in other states. In the end people simply did not want to grant marital rights to a special class. Polygamy is illegal, Gay Marriage is illegal, marrying your cousin, brother or mother is illegal. This amendment was not targeting gays, it was reaffirming that only one man and one woman who are not close relatives can marry. This is a longstanding law - it was challenged and the people chose to reaffirm the law by enshrining it in the constitution.
ditto +3
Bob S.
Report Comment 11:40am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
1,400 rights? @Supernurseboy - How can we remove rights they NEVER had? I'd love to hear what these 1,400 rights are because as a married American I think I may be missing out on something. 1400?
AwakeAndAriseOrg
Report Comment 4:15am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
SuperNurseBoy, You Yet Fail to Understand the Implications @Supernurseboy - SuperNurseBoy,

If your sister and her partner of 10 years were satisfied with the full rights they have as a "domestic partnership" in California, then that would be fine. What would that hurt the church? Nothing.

But, for your sister and her partner to demand their union be the same legal term of "marriage" then opens of religion to prosecution and persecution, with vicious court rulings trashing the 1st Amendment.

I refer you to my other post, explaining this in more detail, as we have the USSR Court of Appeals in San Francisco making rulings that enforce planks of the communist manifesto, such as their recent "parental rights are severed when a child crosses the threshold of the school."

Any red blooded American, straight or gay should see the absolute tyranny of such a court ruling. Honest homosexuals (I know some) supported Prop 8 knowing how it protects the 1st Amendment from tyranny. Those are fair minded people who don't jump on a damned band wagon of anything "gay" and blindly support it, such as the dupes running around screaming about "hate" and "bigotry," the very same here in California who have been vandalizing property and now some threaten to "burn down churches." I wish they would do so, it would be the greatest thing they could do to destroy their rhetoric and in the fullest possible way expose their hypocrisy, always claiming to be treated with "bigotry" and "intolerance." Bigots, by definition, don't allow other points of view, and so it has been here where over 24 of my yard signs have been stolen. "Bigots" steal my yard signs saying "Yes on 8."

Bigots shriek against churches for something they truly don't give a [no swearing please]about: marriage as a covenant of fidelity. Honest gay men want nothing to do with such a commitment to one sexual partner, and if you are not familiar with that, then start reading. Such men are addicted to sex and the "hunt" for partners. That is the "rush" from their very promiscuous lifestyle. Gay woman generally would be more into "fidelity" to each other, but again, they have the full rights under california law with prop 8 passing as to if it failed. Churches on the other hand would be subjugated to a yoke of tyranny by the courts as it destroys the 1st Amendment protection of religion.

This my friend, is the real issue, and you fail to see it. Please be honest and wake up to see it. Failing to acknowledge the justice of the LDS Church taking a stand on this issue to defend itself against judicial tyranny would indicate truth is not in you, and, like lawyers of old, you might be deemed a "child of hell," having no salt, no savor, but having the devil, the father of all lies seal you his.
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DaddyStuart
Report Comment 8:34am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Tolerance @Supernurseboy - of the people, not tolerance of what some people believe to be a sin. And as for tolerance, why can't the protesters tolerate letting other people vote the way they feel they should?
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cgb
Report Comment 8:35am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@ Supernurseboy @Supernurseboy - Who's supporting division? Not the LDS Church.

The LDS Church has said, over and over again, that it does not vilify homosexuals, it simply disagrees with their lifestyle and opposes societal sanction of it. Where's the division in that? Does disagreement = division, and can we no longer disagree without being disagreeable?

I understand the sensitive feelings on both sides, but do not understand the singling out and disparaging of the LDS Church despite its constant and considerate position on this issue.
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Thomas Jefferson
Report Comment 8:46am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Look Super @Supernurseboy - Name one historical prominent religious figure who did not make some people upset with their positions. It goes with the territory. When standards and the ideal are high there will always be some, perhaps many who wish to change those standards. History is full of good folks who incited division simply because they would not lower the standard, Christ sought to raise it and was given the ultimate from society who couldn't tolerate it.
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Jeff f
Report Comment 8:53am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - ~you can not support both unity and diversity~ ;) jk
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Diedre J.
Report Comment 9:06am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Interesting @Supernurseboy - Kind of sounds like you're saying that one cannot serve God and Mammon. Clearly your conflicted.
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DJC 47
Report Comment 12:53pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Every State In The Union @Supernurseboy - sent money to the opponents of Prop 8 and they gladly took it. Was that meddling in another states business? This issue concerns the whole country and even the whole world. It is not meddling to take a stand.
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angieo
Report Comment 9:51pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
My GAWD! @Supernurseboy - Supernurseboy, I have been reading your mindless drivel for too long. Do you even have a clue as to what is going on? You are dumber than a doorknob!
Righteousness, purity, decency and wholesome family values transend any man made boundaries.
I can assure you that no resident of Utah voted in California. Californians of every nationality, ethnic group, and religeous orientation, defeated Satan and one of his evil programs.
For the remainder of life on this planet, good, clean living people from all walks of life, will rise up in times of need and defend their homes and families against wickedness.
You would do well to stop being a cheerleader for the Father of Lies.
JustThinkingOutLoud
Report Comment 12:11am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Oh, dear! @angieo - You make a good point, but I think you've nearly stooped to the same level with the name-calling and "dumber than a doorknob" label. IF you're a member of the LDS church, it would be nice if you could disagree with the person's opinion rather than attack them or call them names.
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angieo
Report Comment 9:54am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
no... @JustThinkingOutLoud - ...i'm not a mormon. no organized for me. just clean living. i say what i think and feel.
Rick P.
Report Comment 12:23am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Practice what you preach @Supernurseboy - What shocks me the most about prop 8 is the fact that the LDS church got so involved to the tune of raising 20 million dollars to fight it. Yet they teach us to be tolerant, Christ like, accepting, non judgmental, love thy neighbor as thy self, and exercise unconditional love and don't be hateful. It specks volumes to their continued hypocrisy! They teach man is created in God's own image, if that's the case don't you think God would be sorely disappointed in the way the LDS church is NOT practicing what they preach? Do you think perhaps, this could be more of a test on how Christians treat each other? Than whether or not someone is gay? As far homosexuality being immoral. It is no more so immoral, than Joseph Smith and Brigham Young organizing a deviant perverted sex ring involving children. All under the demise of polygamy Today people get locked up for having sex with minor's and it can not be hidden under plural marriage. To the people that say gay marriage is unhealthy for children, is it better for a child to be in a loving home. Or be in an LDS home with one parent and being bounced back and forth. Since there is a 50 to 51 % divorce rate among LDS marriages? Many of them temple marriages. Let he who is with out sin cast the first stone. Judge not that ye be not judged and the Lord hates a hypocrite.
litqoe
Report Comment 12:35am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Supernurseboy @Supernurseboy - Almost the entire state of CA voted for Prop 8 - do you really think that the LDS church's involvement caused that? The people in CA voted!!!!
HowISeeIt
Report Comment 2:33pm - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Division? @Supernurseboy - It has NOTHING to do with division.. nobody is supporting division..It's a moral disagreement. By the way even LDS people in the same ward might disagree on the whole prop 8 thing. If the LDS church teaches one thing..then it's "Free Agency".. free to vote for whatever you want, free to support anything you want, free to agree w/ a leader or disagree and obviously some individuals in the LDS church decided they wanted to support Prop 8 and they ARE FREE to do that...as were all the non-LDS people that supported it. God Bless Freedom
huh? -6
0nlyinutah
Report Comment 8:00am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Sandy @Sandywig - Sounds good to me!
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Sandywig
Report Comment 8:07am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Well... @0nlyinutah - after living with us for however long,

you know that will never happen.
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RT2008
Report Comment 8:19am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
So They Are Coming To Temple Square... @Sandywig - Can't wait to meet up with them and show my signs. There is no way in the world I will sit home tonight and let them try to push their agenda on the most sacred thing left which is Marriage.
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Supernurseboy
8:24am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
RT2008 @RT2008 - If marriage is the most sacred thing left, why do more people divorce than stay married?
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Y_13-0_08
Report Comment 8:28am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
It is sacred to me! @Supernurseboy - I was married in California. San Diego Temple that is.
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swimgurl_08
Report Comment 8:47am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Supernurseboy @Supernurseboy - Because they up and decide to come out of the closet!
angieo
Report Comment 11:01pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Maybe supernurseryboy @Supernurseboy - Its because many of them have your lack of intelligence. LOL
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cruisergirl
Report Comment 9:08am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The most sacred thing left? @RT2008 - Give me a break...marriage being the most sacred thing left....have you checked the divorce rate in this country? Marriage is not just a church union it can also be a civil union as well. If the states are going to recognise that they ahve rights under domestic partnerships what is wrong with letting them get married? Mormons are not the only religion that is against same sex marriage, but they are the loudest and have the "many sheep that follow"...on any given sunday that is.
Holding yourselves up to be the moral judges of the world is total BS. So many of you are what is refered to as sunday mormons..because you drink, smoke, have sex outside your marriage, ect...but on sunday go to church and act all high and mighty.
This is not a church issue...it is a right that should be afforded every citizen of the United states to marry who they love, with the common sense restrictions of must be of legal age and not related.
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nikkirocksleo
Report Comment 8:51am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
sandywig @Sandywig - No church should have any connection with the gov. or interfering with peoples private lives. The church already has a bad name all over the country & they just keep giving more reasons for people to dislike the "mormon" religion. They can stand up for what they belive in... like not allowing marrige in their religion, but to say all or nothing is a pretty scary thought.Next their going to force all of us to go to church! or tell us when we can & cant marry, ect. think about it.
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nikkirocksleo
Report Comment 8:58am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
typos @nikkirocksleo - Ive made a few in my last comment sorry for that. lol
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Its_all_about_me
Report Comment 9:30am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Are you refusing rights @nikkirocksleo - Churches are legal entities made up of citizens that have the legal right just as you do to petition the government.

It seems you are the one trying to deny peoples rights not me.
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nikkirocksleo
Report Comment 3:34pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
its all about me! @Its_all_about_me - well that says it all! its all about you & your belifes right? the church should have no right to influence the gov. just so they can have more control in this country. Let me guess your mormon? well arnt mormons suppose to love & care about all, no matter who they r & what they belive? or did that part fly out the window in the mormon religion? it seems all they want is power, & to use other peoples money to get it. troll me all you want people I have my opinion.
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rckymtngrrl
Report Comment 8:53am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Like @Sandywig - Canada- cus thats what they do- pretty nuetral LOL (ya, here comes the 'off-topic' patrol)
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Reasonable_One
Report Comment 9:02am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
How does @Sandywig - gay marriage "roll right over" the rights of the church?
Wildman_001
Report Comment 8:09pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Unity @Sandywig - Unity doesn't imply that you have to give up your beliefs to get along - that would be tolerance. Unity does imply that you are united in cause. In otherwords you stand your ground and respect others beleifs at the same time. You don't become like them.
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krazycory
Report Comment 10:59pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
typical @Sandywig - mormons can't keep thier nose in thier own business.
Fred charles rayovac
Report Comment 8:25am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
The problem is... @Sandywig - homosexuality has absolutely nothing to do with morality. How one is treated is a moral issue, not whether two adults of the same sex get married.

The LDS Church leadership is simply exercising bad judgment with respect to morality. They are making a stand based on bad judgment.
JRunner
Report Comment 6:49pm - Mon Nov 10th, 2008
au contraire @Fred charles rayovac - just a few definitions of "morality" from various references, for everyone's perusal:

The American Heritage Dictionary:
mo·ral·i·ty
n. pl. mo·ral·i·ties
1. The quality of being in accord with standards of right or good conduct.
2. A system of ideas of right and wrong conduct.
3. Virtuous conduct.
4. A rule or lesson in moral conduct.

Collins Essential English Dictionary:
morality
Noun
pl -ties
1. good moral conduct
2. the degree to which something is morally acceptable
3. a system of moral principles

Wordnet 3.0, copyright 2003-2008 Princeton University:
morality - concern with the distinction between good and evil or right and wrong; right or good conduct.

Related words from the Collins Essential Thesaurus include virtue, morals, goodness, righteousness, propriety, and chastity
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Jason T.
Report Comment 8:03am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
"We're tired of the church injecting its politics and its morals @Supernurseboy - into the lives of those that don't belong to their church", he said. If that statement weren't so sad it would be laughable. Yes, morals are often times an impediment to exploring new heights of perversion and then pretending that such things are "normal and acceptable". Sadly, convincing the entire world, let alone the church, that sodomy and perversion should be publicly condoned and rewarded will not remove the extreme guilt that must be associated with such a demoralizing lifestyle. No one wants to impede you from seeking new and improved ways of perverting and demeaning human sexuality. We simply choose not to publicly reward your private, perverted behavior. If such things truly bring happiness and fulfillment, then go on and live your lives of perverted bliss and stop wasting your valuable time publicly demonstrating the fact that seeking happiness in perversion is an empty and hopeless cause.
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JPinUT
Report Comment 8:39am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
If you actually crawled out from under your rock.. @Jason T. - you would see that not everyone else on earth lives by your diluted, hypocritic morals. Your so called defense of marrige is nothing but intolerance and infringement on the rights of human beings. The only way to look at this subject is with reasonable expectations and compassion from one human to another and realizing that we are all different in what we want. For the church and its sheep to say they are wrong for pursuing happiness, you ppl should be ashamed of yourselves.
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nikkirocksleo
Report Comment 9:05am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
JPinUT @JPinUT - I so agree with you. I have not found very many people here in utah that are open minded enough to get what your saying. If they dont belive it they say its wrong! & they should b very ashamed, but likely that they wont b. sad very sad.
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cruisergirl
Report Comment 9:31am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
open minded @nikkirocksleo - isn't it amazing how those who are on the moral soap box really have only fear that keeps them there.
Unless you have walked in the shoes of someone who has strggled with realizing that they are gay, you really have no right judging them or their lifestyle. Although not being gay myself I do find that gay people are more open, honest and understanding of other people than people are of them.
Gay does not "rub off" on to you or your children, anymore than you can catch aids or cancer from touching the person.
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JPinUT
Report Comment 1:52pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
I totally get that... @cruisergirl - It seems these people who oppose equal human rights for all, are the same people who say "Well, what is stopping people from having secks :P with animals and children". Why would someone even think like that, I dont get it? lol
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Lucky13
Report Comment 10:12am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@JPinUT - So I noticed your disdain for the LDS Church, yet you want them to accept you unconditionally?

You detest the Church, but the Church is only trying to defend their stand in order to protect Families as they are. Family btw, is how nature has always allowed them to grow and exist, not what someone wants to fulfill their own satisfactions. If two men or two women can get married, how far away are we from Marrying children, animals, cars? I know it sounds crazy, but where do we stop? If the homosexual feels offended now with the current definition of marriage, then that definition changes to include Homo's, would the petafile then be offended and so on?
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JPinUT
Report Comment 12:13pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
I have no disdain for anyone @Lucky13 - But when someone tries to push their beliefs on how someone else should live their lives, that isn't a follwer of what they deem moral, is when you start having problems. That is the issue here, One group of people telling another group of people that they are wrong, because they aren't the same as them.
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dadsrad
Report Comment 8:08am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Maybe I missed it... @Supernurseboy - Both sides were well supported financially. The conservative people of California didn't roll over and stay silent. The Catholic, LDS, and other christian faiths took a moral stand in encouraging their congregations. People got involved. They stated their position with their pocketbooks, phones, and votes. That's how a democracy works.

I don't recall where LDS people make up 52% of Californians...

I don't recall John McCain calling for protests all over Chicago... He's not leading protests against contributors to Democrat-supported causes...

You can agree or disagree, that is the democratic process. Vilifying and protesting against the majority after the vote only reinforces perceptions of a hostile minority.
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Marinius
Report Comment 8:26am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Super Nurse, @Supernurseboy - I really don't understand your logic. I want peace and unity within my family. Does that mean I shouldn't discipline my children? I want peace and unity in my community, so maybe I should no longer take part in the neighborhood watch because someone might get offended? President Monson wants peace and unity in the world, so does that mean the LDS Church should just roll over and play dead when one of its foundational principles is being attacked?

I'm not going to back out of a fight that needs to be fought because someone's feelings might be hurt.
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renogirl
Report Comment 8:48am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Agree @Marinius - I agree super nurse. Should we lay down our morals so we don't get their feelings hurt. We should support our friends, family and neighbors as people but we should not support and even help out their cause of sin.
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Mucor
Report Comment 8:52am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Marriage is not a right! @Supernurseboy - Marriage is not a right. It is a privlege issued by the state to recognize that union. That is why it is called a "Marriage Liscence", Not a "Marriage Right". This is not a right we are dealing with, so stop spreading misinformation.
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Its_all_about_me
Report Comment 8:56am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
tolerance @Supernurseboy - We love the person but hate the sin. This is what the prophet said.

The churches rights to not perform marriages for gay people where at stake here. Besides the whole moral repercussions that would have followed if good people did nothing about this perversion of the marriage institution would be devastating.

The lawsuits already won by gay people in the forcing of their lifestyle on society and into the homes of decent moral citizens was at stake.
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OggieDog
Report Comment 9:29am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Its_all_about_me - Demanding equality does not equal forcing of a lifestyle into your homes. Being gay is a natural occurrence since the beginning of time. God forces gay people to exist in this world. Ignore it if you want, but it is God's will.
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chanchanman
Report Comment 9:12am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Who is disagreing with this? @Supernurseboy - President Monson said, "May we be good citizens of the nations in which we live and good citizens in our communities, REACHING OUT to other faiths as well as our own........As we build unity from people of vastly different backgrounds, the children of God have more in common than they have differences...."
To me, personaly, this does seem conflicting with the counsel given by the prophet to support porp.8.
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Lucky13
Report Comment 9:42am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Unity and Tolerance is NOT Acceptance @Supernurseboy - I took that talk as "don't judge others", "don't persecute others", but we absolutely have the right to defend anything that threatens our belief system. And despite the "poor us", "victim" role that so many groups take, Gays and Lesbians are not Victims! They are simply trying to change the laws and therefore public acceptance of their misdeeds.

Homosexuality is ethically, morally, and legally wrong and even changing a law or Constitution will not change those facts. I can't stand ANY group who tries to change the "rules" in order to justify their actions. Homosexuality is a CHOICE - face that fact and then you can move on with your life :).

And no, I'm not irate, just firm in my conviction of this.
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OggieDog
Report Comment 9:56am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Lucky13 - Irate, no. Ignorant, bitter, and incorrect, yes. Please tell us how you overcame your homosexuality and CHOSE to be straight. There need to be more examples in this world.
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Brijo
Report Comment 9:52am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Donations. @Supernurseboy - I don't recall President Monson ever asking the Church to donate to this campaign. I don't remember ANYONE from the Church asking members to donate to it. This whole thing is ridiculous, maybe people decided to donate to this cause, but people donated for the opposing side, too. They're just upset they lost, but they should realize that they can't take it out on the LDS Church, because there were a lot of people who WEREN'T LDS who voted to ban same-sex marriage as well.
ditto +1
OggieDog
Report Comment 10:19am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Brijo - Do a search on KSL. Maybe you missed church those weeks. It happened.
JustThinkingOutLoud
Report Comment 12:22am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
That's funny @OggieDog - I never miss church, I happen to love going. My husband is a bishop and receives plenty of information from church headquarters on a weekly basis. NEVER were we asked, nor was it even suggested or hinted at, that we donate to this cause. I don't know where people get their "information", but it's really more like the spreading of rumors and lies. We were never asked to personally donate!
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JP
Report Comment 10:00am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
supernurseboy @Supernurseboy - Did you know to most humans it is possible to love and care for someone without always agreeing with their choices or lifestyles. Interesting huh?
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srananman
Report Comment 10:38am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Unity @Supernurseboy - In meaning unity, we mean a unity with the will of God. I think that's what all religions are really about. That's what Muslim means in Aarabic-- will of God. I think the will of God is that we restrain sexuality. This does not mean refrained or abstained, but controlled. If we allow sexuality to run rampant and unrestrained, we are sure to destroy ourselves. And that is what we stand up for.
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Black Blood
Report Comment 11:35am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - The need to change the name of that LDS church to "FLIP-FLOP Latter Days no-so-Saints! (FFLDS)"
ditto +2
totallyTOed
Report Comment 12:22pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Yeah, Unity... Join us, give up your lifestyle and join the church. @Supernurseboy - He probably meant members stick together and cirle the wagons because there will be men in wedding gowns on the attack, angry gay brides nobody can rival their fabulocity.
Seriously we... wait at least I will never give up my values just for the sake of unity. What point is there in being united if what you are united to is no good, meaning the side of Liza Minelli. You sheep that go along to get along are weak of mind. Grow a spine and stand up for what you believe.
You angry proponents of the gay agenda just need to take an anger management class. The Church and religious people all across the country have a right to keep marriage as it has always been. Religious people have a right to vote. Some judge with bloomers can't just come along and say that what the people voted on is no longer valid and say that gays can alter the sacred and holy institution of marriage.
ditto +2
larubia
Report Comment 2:40pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Promoting Unity @Supernurseboy - So does promoting unity mean we should all agree on everything? If that is what you think unity means, then no 2 people have ever been unified. Unity means loving each other and respecting each other and treating each other with dignity, even when we disagree.
grindstr
Report Comment 6:18pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Interesting... @Supernurseboy - As to unity and a divisive issue, it is rather a matter of standing up to what one believes is right. This is a fundamental belief; should the fact that it's divisive get in the way of making a stand for what one believes to be right?
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Wildman_001
Report Comment 7:58pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
R U Nuts!! @Supernurseboy - Churches are the moral voices of the human race. Sex is a moral issue. Why would anyone not expect a church to fight tooth and nail for what believes is thruth and right? Any person or religion that doesn't fight for truth and right and is swayed by the ever changing media and indoctrination of man hasn't a leg to stand on and I support and will join any organization that will help us to get back and maintain the moral values that we have lost.

I praise the Mormon Church for standing it's ground when others have fallen!!!
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Alicia B.
Report Comment 9:41am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
@Supernurseboy - Tolerance does NOT mean blanket acceptance for what is evil in the world. It means, love your neighbor, but do not beat him up because he thinks or behaves differetly than you do.
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Gators
Report Comment 10:02am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Can't Pick and Choose @Supernurseboy - So you'll read about conference and pick out the things that fit into your adgenda huh? I'm not surprised that is called prideful. And if you take a step back and realize that by upholding the definition of marriage as prop 8 does, it does not mean that a person is not tolerant.

We don't believe in changing our view or that of the def of marriage just because the world's standards has changed. The church or gospel of Christ is the same yesturday, today and forever. It does not change based on what the world viewpoints are. Sorry to all those gays but the majority has spoken - deal with it. The minority should not rule the majority
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Ben D.
Report Comment 8:17am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Hey, wait a minute @Pleg201 - Isn't Mr. Whipple that guy that used to say "Please don't squeeze the Charmin"???
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Deebo
Report Comment 8:45am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Thats right Ben D...I remember him also.....funny @Ben D. - The problem is.....many of us don't want to have to witness Susie, Mary or Barbara squeezing Charmin in public. (Random names used)

Those who favor this say it's no bodies business what they do behind closed doors. WELL, keep it behind closed doors then!!!!! I find is difficult to explaine to my kids why 2 boys, obiviously older than Kindergarter are holding hands at Sam's Club. If you don't want the attention, don't draw it to yourselves. I feel many of the "they's" like the shock factor they give.

I will admit, I have VERY little exposure to the gay community, but the call to action to protest in front of LDS properties really shows the kind, loving people the community of gays are. This is the impression I will have of them. And "they" ask, and expect others to be understanding???
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OggieDog
Report Comment 9:24am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Deebo - You have had VERY little exposure to the gay community because most of "those people" do not flaunt it or talk to you about it. Someone you know and love is gay.
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dance butt
Report Comment 8:24am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Ridiculous @Pleg201 - Still back to square one people can't handle losing. Get a life. Move on. Anyone who has any facts AT ALL knows that the church had nothing to do with Proposition 8. Everyone in this country is entitled to their own beliefs! No one NO ONE held their pen for them while they voted. They are so many people in this country that believe that marriage is between a man and a women not just people of the LDS faith. So get your facts straight, get a life, and suck it up that you didnt' get your way. Protest to God... he's the one that made the decision. Protest in front of temple square I guarantee and know for a fact you won't move a step further in your fit of rage. GET A LIFE!
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emt-i
Report Comment 8:41am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Did you notice... @Pleg201 - That none of these cry babies are protesting outside the Vatican (or any Catholic church), or any of the other religious groups that supported proposition 8? These other groups had just as much, if not more support for prop 8 than the LDS church did. Why don't they throw their screaming tantrum in front of the Cathedral of the Madeline(spelling?)?
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monarch82
Report Comment 10:02am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
JUST DEAL WITH IT GAYS @Pleg201 - "We're tired of the church injecting its politics and its morals into the lives of those that don't belong to their church," he said."

WELL WE ARE TIRED of you trying to inject your politics and morals into the lives of us WHO AREN'T GAY!!!!! GET OVER IT!!!
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mean doggy
Report Comment 11:51am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Pleg201 - What time are you going to Wendover to night?
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Linda A.
Report Comment 2:21pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Isn't Mr. Whipple the guy ... @Pleg201 - ...that kept squeezing the Charmin??? I always wondered about him!
Linda A.
Report Comment 12:21am - Sat Nov 8th, 2008
Oooops, MY BAD didn't see the one before! @Linda A. - Oh well ...
ditto +1
storms
Report Comment 6:53pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
well look at the turnout @Pleg201 - Maybe they started their boycott and left the state. The ones downtown did not get the memo. I cannot wait till they all go out of this state. I grew up in Palm Springs, CA and I left because of how bad it was. I never thought it would get like this. I do not know why they have to be so proud of themselves for being gay.
split vote 0
I Want The Truth behind Utah
Report Comment 6:57pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Pleg201 is it possible, @Pleg201 - The Church has turned its own beliefs around is now a lying figure in the religious community???

I remember when drinking legislation hit the Utah State legislature the Church said on camera: we are not a political entity, The church said it does not influence what the legislature decides/does not decide there for the allegations the Church is lobbying the legislature is untrue. With that being said the Church "LIED" back when the Church released that statement so how many more lies have they told between then and now???

If what the Church did was not lobby favoritism in one way or another i guess i just do not know what the definition of a lobbyist is. This time the Church lobbied the public. Here is a lovely definition of what a lobbyist is from Wiki:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lobbying

Wiki specificly says right at the top "all attempts to influence". It is clear as day Church had a agenda and spent dearly to get its way just like a bully, thug.

I am not to surprised to see a lower than expected turn out in Utah. Wait until these people hit States like New York it will become national news again hopefully the National media puts the spot light on the Church like 60 minutes did when they interviewed the Church and they refused to answer the 60 minutes reporters question/questions. Stuff like this is what i mean by "I Want The Truth Behind Utah". Utah reps say one thing but do another they LIE.