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Opponents of Prop. 8 protest in front of LDS temple
This afternoon, California protesters singled out the involvement of the LDS Church in promoting the passage of Proposition 8 during by hosting a rally in front of the church's Los Angeles temple. Late today, the Church issued a statement asking that debate on the issue be civil and respectful.
November 6th, 2008 @ 10:00pm
By Carole Mikita
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Reba F.
Report Comment 4:34pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I'm still confused... Why does the LDS church care if marraige happens outside of thier faith? Gay marriage doesn't effect its members?

I am deeply disappointed that propostion 8 passed and hope that as a nation we can see that this is an injustice and equality is needed for all.
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Roger B.
Report Comment 4:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I'm still confused as well @Reba F. - Why is the LDS Church getting the blame? It was one organization in a coalition of over a hundred!

I am quite satisfied that Prop. 8 passed. I don't believe allowing gays to marry would adversely affect my marriage, but as society continues to shun traditional morale values, this would have been another step in the wrong direction.

Feel free to disagree, but my opinion is just as valuable as yours.
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Sambecks C.
Report Comment 4:46pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
There are many buhdists, baptists, adventists, protests, and yes even athists @Roger B. - who voted YES on proposition 8. Why pick on the LDS?
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Brian131313
4:55pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
what?! @Sambecks C. - your basing this on what? your imagaination? hahah
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UtahDaze
Report Comment 5:17pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Exit Polls @Brian131313 - There's a ton of info to state who supported Prop 8. The main one is that there are not over 5 million Mormons in California. It's safe to say it wasn't just Mormons who should get the credit.

One thing many people won't bring up is that the Exit Polls also showed 70% of African Americans voted 'Yes' on prop8. Knowing what outstanding influence the LDS church has on black people, I guess this shouldn't surprise you? /sarcasm

The LDS church is an easy target. Our members did donate quite a bit of money to the cause. No one else really likes the Church, so they are preaching to the choir. If Homosexuals really want their cause to move forward, they should tell the other "Christian" religions, "Hey - the Mormons wanted this, do you really want to support the Mormons?" - They could go far.
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Utah 101
Report Comment 5:41pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I agree - the LDS church is an easy target. @UtahDaze - The LDS church's prophet believed in and had a non-traditional family.

I think the hypocrisy of the LDS church having a religious foundation that supported the non-traditional family, and now supporting laws that would preclude its own founding prophet from having his family, makes the church an easy target.
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Thomas Jefferson
Report Comment 5:56pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Chaos @Utah 101 - History has shown that the greatest potential for social chaos and/or violence occurs when evil feels threatened or under attack or otherwise does not get its way. I am not calling these people evil I am suggesting there are forces at work that inspire hatred, violence, chaos, etc etc....that far exceed our own. We are seeing this play out again before our eyes. Some ask why the LDS church is getting the bulk of the blame? Most of us know the answer but we are better off mute on that point for now. It suffice to say that we live in the latter, latter, latter days.
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Brett C
Report Comment 7:14pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Thomas Jefferson - Nothing like self fulfilled prophecy..

Only problem is with your twisted logic you must also think Muslims must be some chosen people... many of them think the same way and also create an environment that is hostel to them and only reinforces their views...

Wow, I never can get over the fact that you use Thomas Jefferson.... When your views are nothing like his...
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Orginizdbix
Report Comment 8:32pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I find it @Brett C - interesting that mormons will spend $20M on a cause outside their state on "assaults against family", but sit by the sidelines looking the other way when polygamist cults rape brainwashed teenagers under the banner of religion in their own state! Can anyone else see this conflict of interest and judgment of others without looking within? We had better look up the word hypocrite in the dictionary!
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Brett C
Report Comment 8:47pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Orginizdbix - I think polygamous should have the right to get married to who and howmany people they want too.

I don't think that the should be allowed to marry children or teenagers.

But what is hypocritical is that the Christians in general are the fist one to cry about "liberty" when it is their liberty or freedom on the line... but when it's others who don't believe as they do they don't care or even worse take a stand against them.. such as in this case.
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Hardtaill
Report Comment 9:45pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Brett C - The church is well within its rights to enter this discussion and remain active in street level activities. My hats off to the leadership.


'Tail.
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Brett C
Report Comment 9:53pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Hardtaill - You are right! But so are the people who protest the churches choice and actions.

But I also hope the church understands when the next person doesn't want a temple build in their backyard. Or when a HOA doesn't want missionaries knocking on their doors. Or when someone stands outside of temple square with a "ani-Mormon" poster.

You have to tolerate to be tolerated unfortunately.
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Hardtaill
Report Comment 10:09pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Brett C - 1. People not wanting a temple has happened many times.

2. Adverse reaction to missionaries is common.

3. Anti-Mormon posters are expected.


The church will always uphold the highest moral decisions regardless of the misunderstanding of the immoral. After all, the church merely relays common sense and the will of God to the masses.


'Tail.
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Brett C
Report Comment 10:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Hardtaill - Yes I know the three things have happened and do happen and more.. That was my point. Sorry I can't draw pictures for you. It's not a bad thing for most Mormons, like most religions and religious people such opposition only reaffirms their faith making it stronger. No one even cares about the plane old protestants these days.

To put it simply in a way you might understand... All humans were born with free agency... government should only infringe on that agency when it restricts the agency of others.. Understand?

Do know the man in Mormon myth who wanted to force others to live gods commandments? I forget is name... could it be SATAN? (Church lady look)
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Its_all_about_me
Report Comment 11:03pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Forcing to live by @Brett C - In the name of rights we all have the ability to choose our path and to choose what our laws are in society.

Your arrogance in thinking that only gay peoples rights were affected by this is absolutely wrong. My rights to be able to have a society free from filth and perversion spread as normalcy is affected if this didn't pass.

Rights go both ways, and your idea that gays rights trump that of people who don't want themselves to be subject to immoral teachings and practices is a LIE!!!

It is the historical fact that societies live and die by the morality which they uphold. Societies that have chosen immoral paths have gone down in flames.

The passage of this proposition will allow churches and peoples to stand free from harmful prosecutors and gay rights advocates who are threatening all churches and moral people with lawsuits if they don't except gay lifestyle to infringe in their beliefs.

I am glad your side lost Brett because that means I won't have to live in a society of fear from prosecution when I stand up and say "GAY MARRIAGE AND GAY LIFESTYLE IS WRONG AND WILL INEVITABLY DESTROY US IF ALLOWED TO BECOME MAINSTREAM AND NORMAL!!!!"
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Brett C
Report Comment 11:33pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Its_all_about_me -
knitewolf
Report Comment 12:53am - Sun Nov 9th, 2008
@Its_all_about_me -
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Induced_Flow
Report Comment 12:35am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Its America! @Brett C - First, your an Idiot. Second, this is America! Majority rules, and the people in California voted and it passed. Better luck next time. Same with President Obama. People may not like him but, once again majority rules. Republicans, better luck next time!
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Hardtaill
Report Comment 11:56pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Hardtaill - Brett, your lack of understanding of the limits of free agency is a very common notion among people who choose immorality.

By your version and definition then, people should be allowed to smoke what they want, shoot into their veins what they want and wear what they want. I hope you can see the fallacy of your reasoning and I sincerely hope you don't think that a no-holes-barred (excuse the pun) approach to free agency and loss of personal maturity is going to make your life any better. Just the opposite has been proven to be true. The moral high road will always produce better results and will always lay a better foundation for future generations.

You cannot be gay and NOT adversely affect society regardless of your attempts to make it so. You do not live in this city or on this planet alone, but you do share it with others who demand, and get, a more fulfilling life by choosing the right.


'Tail.
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Brett C
Report Comment 12:26am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Hardtaill - YEs, you have me figured out. You shold have dominion over your own body.

If you want to do drugs, that is your choice (as it is today in spite of laws)... And I dont' even think there should be laws against it. I don't do drugs, I do eat a poor diet once could say it has the same effect.

How far do you want to take the "high moral road" of yours. . When does free agency and natural consequences need to be reinforced with law and punishment? All "evil" or immoral things have their own natural consequences. Didn't the law of Moses illustrate this point? We don't live in Old Testament rule for a reason.
Tmaester
Report Comment 9:15am - Mon Nov 10th, 2008
@Brett C -
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Hardtaill
Report Comment 6:01am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Hardtaill - Brett, again,

No, it is not your choice if you want to do drugs. If you do, and you are caught, you will be punished by the law that moral people have written and uphold. If you want to eat poorly, then yes, that is your choice and you will not be punished by the law, but only by the normal consequences which must surely come. Do you see the difference between breaking the law and making personal incorrect decisions?

Banning same-sex marriage follows the same scenario. It is, and will most likely permanently remain, a law which must be obeyed. A law written and voted upon by moral people with moral values which you must now follow. And no, you do not have a choice in this matter. The law of marriage has been voted upon and decided by the electorate and has been pronounced good.


'Tail.
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Darin C.
Report Comment 12:37am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Hardtaill - of course you do...oh yeah, and have another diet coke with lime...my mistake, pepsi!!!
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Black Blood
Report Comment 1:04am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Hardtaill - My hats off to the protesters!!! They are well within their rights to gather in front of that thing you call a temple.


It just brings more negitive feedback to that sad church!!
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Lily W.
Report Comment 6:59am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Over 11 million members....... @Black Blood - you couldn't call it a sad church.
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Its_all_about_me
Report Comment 7:28am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Calling names won't help your cause @Black Blood - Your anger toward the church and the Mormon's is just your first step toward hatred of your fellowman. People believe differently and we vote and legislate laws that will fit into our ideal society. This right is guaranteed in our constitution.
brantlymurphy
Report Comment 1:54am - Mon Nov 10th, 2008
@Hardtaill - Right, but within there own belief there are the same as "Satan" he was cast out of heaven for wanting to force people to be good..... or heterosexual. If there is a hell, prop 8 voters I'll see you there.
hrharding
Report Comment 4:01pm - Tue Nov 11th, 2008
@brantlymurphy - We're not saying someone can't be a homosexual, we're just saying that a consequence for that decision is that they can't get married. They still have all the same rights as a straight person they just can't call their union a marriage.
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B N.
Report Comment 9:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
we donated from out of CA @Orginizdbix - because it DOES affect us. we donated because the courts legislating to allow gay marriages set potential legal precedent for those marriages to be forced upon judges and ministers/bishop in all states - that would include utah. we who donated did not do so out of ignorance. We may not be consitutional scholars, but hardly are the protestors in CA. In fact, as many such scholars agree with preserving marriage as with the other side or more.

a few points;

polygamist cults have nothing to do with the LDS faith of yesteryears or today. Get over the mis-info. further, we dont sit on the sidelines. Many church members have encouraged law enforcement in polygamous communities, you just didn't listen because it wasn't on the national news.

it's nothing to do with judging others, only with protecting an ancient and sacred (to many, many cultures and faiths) institution from curruption of meaning. we never sought to take away their legal rights to do as they please in their private lives.

I'm sure you are free of hypocricy, aren't you.
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Utah 101
Report Comment 10:14pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
"polygamist cults" @B N. - Interesting use of words - I'm pretty sure that's what folks from Missouri said about Joseph Smith – but they solved that problem, are you willing to solve your issue the same way they did?

Say it how you want, but the laws the LDS church wants to implement would preclude Joseph Smith from having the family he had – I guess your prophet was not really worth it, right?
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B N.
Report Comment 10:53pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Utah 101 @Utah 101 - that must be reference to basic education on Utah. You should educate yourself before teaching others.

It is inappropriate to compare polygamous sects that you are familiar with from the media with the church during the days of its practice of polygamy. I will not spend the time here to deliniate them all, but church members (those who lived plural marriage) were not committing the crimes that these communities do today.

First, polygamy was not a crime in the USA at the time. Probably because there was Biblical support for its practice (no biblical support can be found for homosexuality by the way - quite the opposite).

Second, when laws against polygamy were passed the Mormon church did NOT live in the USA. They had fled to Mexico where the USA felt inclined to send armies to harass them anyway and try to bring them to justice - imagine if we chased whole nations of migrants across jurisdictional borders today to force them to live by our laws instead of the laws of their new home.

Third, when Utah - then Deseret - was being considered to be admitted and the application of the new laws against polygamy were to be applied to Utahns, the church gave it up - thereby complying with the law.

Forth, the church did then, and does today, tell its members to comply with the law - wherever they live.

Fifth, note that Joseph Smith expressed his opinion that constitutions are not themselves law, but the supreme governing document that dictates HOW laws will be created and enforced. It is up to the people to elect leaders that will pass laws that are not in conflict with God's law. Many people, including God-fearing, non-Mormon, wonderful Christians who we Mormons consider friends and fellow citizens, sincerely believe that to keep our laws from being in conflict with Biblical standards is an expression of the majority that we still worship the God of the Bible.

Sixth, Joseph and church members upheld the consitution even though their rights to worship, to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness were trammeled on - particulary by elected leaders in Missouri. Besides maybe the aboriginals of this land, tell me one other group of people in the land of the free had elected leaders declare it legal to hunt to kill them. Sorry, but if you are suggesting that church members are putting out extermination orders on gays today then your comparison is wreckless and poisonous at best. The church has, and continues, to put out statements calling for peace, dialogue and understanding. Never once have I heard a call for violence on a class of people, a group, or an individual in my 40 years in the church. But I have seen numerous members turn the other cheek when violence was pressed upon them. What is your point?

Lastly, Joseph Smith was a prophet and it is worth it for me and my family to learn and apply his teachings every day. The better I learn to live what he taught the happier I becomes. That is unimpeable. I've experienced it and nothing can take that away from me. Was Joseph Smith worth it? Absolutely. Has your comment hurt my faith? No. You strengthened it. I can't expect fighting the good fight to be fight-free. Thanks for the struggle.
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B N.
Report Comment 11:11pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
p.s. @Utah 101 - please also consider that while those member of the church that did have more than one wife gave those women their last name, their devotion, provided for them and the children, and generally gave the same care for them as they did for their first wife. Additionally, many of those marriages were arranged only for the purpose of providing for women who had need for care without sexual requirements/baggage and those relationships remained platonic and served the purpose of keeping widows and other women with lesser chances of marriage from becoming wards of the state or church for financial support. They became part of a nuclear family and many of them reported it was rewarding and caring.

it was well known that - on the other hand - many members of the congress and administrations that condemned the church themselves were fathering children out of wedlock, burying the relationships in the closets, refusing to even admit to their love children let alone provide for their needs, and otherwise committing crimes against the women with whom they had cheated against their first wives and the children that were the products of those illegitimate relationships.

Quite a comparison that I seldom hear mentioned from the nay-sayers on your side of the argument. How about a little intellectual honesty???
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Jannabanna
Report Comment 7:48am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Thank you! @B N. - Your comments are very well thought out and stated. Thank you for bolstering my faith today as well.
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jennilogan
Report Comment 10:57pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Are you kidding me? @Orginizdbix - Do you have any idea what you are talking about? You obviously feel that ignorance is bliss. The polygamists have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. If you would actually let go of your cynical criticism, you could hear that people are trying to clear up that misconception. The polygamists have not been part of The Church for YEARS. Polygamy is not only illegal, and we follow the laws of the land, but it is also denounced by the Church. So, really, what you're doing, is making yourself look kind of silly saying things like that. And The Church didn't spend $20M on it, it was $2500. Wrong again! Thanks for your insight!
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ThinkFirst
Report Comment 11:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
"mormons will spend $20M ... @Orginizdbix - on a cause outside their state"

You do know the Mormons aren't confined to one state, right? Not even confined to one country.
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shooter17
Report Comment 11:13pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Orginizdbix - Look at the finance records buddy, the vast majority of members donations came from within CA.
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Robyn P.
Report Comment 11:30pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Hello! @Orginizdbix - We weren't voting on polygamy we where voting on same sex marriage, and believe me EVERYONE is trying to stop the polygamist doings. If there was a vote on polygamy im sure The church and everyone else would invest in that cause too. The church doesn't agree with it and has never operated in the "now" polygamy. And the church is firmly against polygamy just as they are against same sex marriage. Maybe you should look up the Word hypocrite!
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gear4guys
Report Comment 12:18am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Orginizdbix is a Moron... @Orginizdbix - The LDS church has absolutely nothing to do with these freak polygamist "Cults", They claim part of the LDS name, yet have had absolutely no example on what they are doing to those poor girls. As of today, the lds church weaps as to what they are doing.
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Frank Slide
Report Comment 1:21am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Orginizdbix - Their is no conflict of interest here. In fact, just the opposite.

One of the reasons the Mormon church stepped in to try to define a marriage in Prop 8 is to counter the acceptance of polygamy.

Gay marriage is just the beginning of the deterioration of traditional marriage. If gay marriages become acceptable and legitimate in the eyes of the community and the laws of the land, then polygamists are next. They will then stand up and demand the same rights the gays were demanding.

Where do you want to stop? If not at gay marriages, then why would you stop polygamist marriages? The argument is the same for both groups. (And please don't confuse polygamy with the deviant peversions that are taking place with underaged sex. They are two seperate issues. Polygamy can take place without molestation).
Frank Slide
Report Comment 1:29am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Orginizdbix - Their is no conflict of interest here. In fact, just the opposite.

One of the reasons the Mormon church stepped in to try to define a marriage in Prop 8 is to counter the acceptance of polygamy.

Gay marriage is just the beginning of the deterioration of traditional marriage. If gay marriages become acceptable and legitimate in the eyes of the community and the laws of the land, then polygamists are next. They will then stand up and demand the same rights the gays were demanding.

Where do you want to stop? If not at gay marriages, then why would you stop polygamist marriages? The argument is the same for both groups. (And please don't confuse polygamy with the deviant peversions that are taking place with underaged sex. They are two seperate issues. Polygamy can take place without molestation).
lauralee3
Report Comment 12:22pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Orginizdbix - I just want to clarify something. The "mormons" didn't spend $20M on a cause outside their state because aren't there "mormons" in California? Yes, "headquarters" or whatever you want to call it is located in Utah, but why can't people support others of their faith? As for the polygamist cults, you better look up your information correctly. That didn't come from the mormon religion. And even so, it could have just been from some nutso crazy person. Just because someone may belong to a certain religion, doesn't mean that the church told them to do that. Plus, doesn't mean there aren't a few crazy people. No one is perfect, no matter what religion or faiths you believe in.
knitewolf
Report Comment 1:05am - Sun Nov 9th, 2008
@lauralee3 - Pres Monson gave out a proclamation so to speak to members and had funded part of Prop 8 on behalf of the church... Which is illegal since church and state are separate. There is a KSL Story about it. Look up something around the lines of Prop 8 rally in Los Angeles, plus the issues of that guy going to the church office building to tell the church to stop donating to Prop 8 in Cali. For it's not their state.

FYI everyone is perfect... Why doesn't anyone understand that? Being alive means you are perfect; you have a heart that pumps for you without having to think about it, some people are born with a defect but they are still perfect for taking on the world as they were born to it with either defective muscles a dying heart, etc. Do you thank God every day for the ability to live your life and wake up the next morning? I sure as heaven do.
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Wildman_001
Report Comment 11:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Muslims must be some chosen people. @Brett C - Actually - it's jews
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good price
Report Comment 12:40am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
is it really @Wildman_001 - i heard the mormon believe black are the sons of the devil only white people are the sons of God and going to Heavens
Its_all_about_me
Report Comment 7:39am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
hate @good price - If you keep spreading your anger and hate it will only hurt you more. Your language is not helpful in bringing about what's right or what's best.

Maybe you should go to an LDS church meeting and actually live and work with some good, true LDS members and then you will see they don't hate others and they don't make up lies to spread anger and hate toward your side.
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Mike R.
Report Comment 8:16am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
good price @good price - you are an idiot.
Tommy Gun
Report Comment 9:59am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Actually Brett C. @Brett C - You must have missed the part in Thomas Jefferson's comment stating, "forces at work that inspire hatred, violence, chaos, etc."

I believe your Muslim analogy reflects the pro-gay world, not the LDS. (And by this, I assume you only meant radical Muslims. At least I don't equate Muslims with hatred, violence, and chaos, only the extremists. I assume you also meant the same.)

In my experience the LDS only seek to promote good.

Promoting the idea that sexual orientation is a civil right is as ludicrous as promoting acceptance and respect for someone that practices bestiality.
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AI
Report Comment 7:30pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Tolerance @Thomas Jefferson - But...I thought these darling democrats were all for tolerance of others views.

Interesting how it's only tolerance if you agree with them. If you disagree with their lifestyle, then hell hath no fury...they don't know what tolerance is.(sigh)
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Brett C
Report Comment 8:10pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@AI - Only one side here is trying to stop others from living the life they chose.

If you told me I couldn't or shouldn't get married to my wife I wouldn't be tolerant of it either. Just like the Mormon church wasn't' too tolerant of those that opposed them practicing polygamy.

It's not about disagreeing with lifestyle it's about interfering with lifestyle.
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Austin L.
Report Comment 9:29pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Brett C - Society makes the laws. People make up society. People get to vote. We voted. That's the process. Did you vote? Ok then. You know how it works.
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Brett C
Report Comment 9:48pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Austin L. - And when society has been wrong, usual small minority are the fist to scream out to correct the wrong..

Freedom of Religion
Slavery
Woman's Rights
Equal Rights


Slavery was even allowed by the Constitution at one time.

What do all these have in common?

One side was restricting the rights of the other side in the name of God and Morality.
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K. D.
Report Comment 11:09pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
None of the things @Brett C - None of the things you mention have anything to do with the current circumstances. DNA and actions have nothing to do with each other. Race is determined by DNA--unchangeable. Gender is determined by DNA and cannot be changed no matter how many things are added or taken away. DNA is unchangeable.
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Brett C
Report Comment 11:42pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@K. D. - K.D. Do you have any idea what DNA is?

DNA does mutate it is not unchangeable if all DNA was the same all humans would be carbon copies of each other. Even twins who share the same DNA physically develop slightly differently then each other.

But I am not fighting the gay issue here.... I don't care if gay people are born gay or chose to be gay or what have you.

You chose to be a Christian, Mormon, and chose to belief as you do.... so why should that interfere on the choices of people around you? You have the right and freedom to live your life as you chose. Why don't you want others to have that choice?
Its_all_about_me
Report Comment 8:15am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
The truths and the half-truths @Brett C - True "when society has been wrong, usually (sic) small minority's (sic) are the first (sic) to scream our to correct the wrong.."

I agree with you on that one. We might actually be getting somewhere.

Freedom of religion (surprised you mentioned it!, It was written into the constitution in order to keep states from oppressing people like the Mormons, still happened.)

Slavery (minority because of color, explained below)

Woman's Rights (not a minority but not given the right to vote or own land)

Equal Rights (buzz word for liberals, gays or anyone who is trying to force through their own legislation to deny others their own rights)

Slavery was not allowed by the constitution, slavery was upheld by a loud majority that was threatening with violence, anyone who should speak up contrary to what they practiced. The fact that some of our fore fathers practiced this was an embarrassment to some of our other forefathers (mainly Christians from the northern states, that felt slavery was an abomination).

What do all these have in common?

It is NOT that one side was restricting the other side in the name of GOD and Morality.

Equating your side to that of what some Americans experienced is an out right fallacy. What are rights in the first place? What rights are given in the constitution? We have the bill of rights that guarantee freedom of religion (which allows us to oppose certain practices as harmful to us and society and uphold practices that we feel are good and true).

Are their rights for gays in the Constitution? Yes there are, you have the right to believe the way you choose, you have the right to life liberty and the pursuit of happiness (this is where the constitution says slavery is wrong). THERE IS NO RIGHT LISTED THAT FORCES SOCIETIES TO GIVE UP THERE RIGHT TO CHOOSE HOW MARRIAGE IS REGULATED!!

The majority and the Christian's have civil rights too Brett. Gays have been trying to take those away in small pieces and use some of the most vial hate speech to rile up their communities and supporters to do it.

In Mass. the catholic church ran an adoption agency, they wouldn't adopt to gay couples because the church had "the freedom of religion" (a right guaranteed in the constitution) to believe that a gay couple could not provide an adequate household for children. Gay people took them to court and had that church's right overturned despite the fact that the constitution is clearly on the side of the Catholics in this case. Churches are afraid (and with good reason) that you will force the churches to give them a marriage in the temple or church facility or face prosecution and lawsuit.

It is not the churches side that is violating rights Brett, it is your side.

Gays has civil unions which are the governments version of marriage. You have all the same rights under this law as marriage affords the majority. so tell me where are your rights violated?
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Lon A.
Report Comment 11:12pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Lifestyle @Brett C - In the town I grew up in, there was a family that kept to themselves. It was found out that the father was having sex with his daughters. Is it terrible that the police interfered with his lifestyle? Lifestyle. If the daughters agreed with the activity, why interfere? The whole issue is marriage and the use of the word marriage. Why not set up a new word for a different condition? Same sex couples could have a new term. Why are same sex couples anxious to be included with straight couples when another term could be used and attach all the privileges that marriage would have. Use a word like combined or merged.
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Brett C
Report Comment 11:50pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Lon A. - Because the kids were not adults. and even if they were adults they could have had children with the father creating deformed children who have to suffer the same.

It's nothing compared to gay Marriage... IF two adults want to get married no one is losing their rights. Yes acceptance of gay marriage would change the united states. My kids face views different then theirs everyday. That's where the family unit is important.

I see gay marriage far less evil or immoral as people having children out of wedlock. Divorce and Adultery are embraced as normal in our society... if you want to restore "traditional marriage" to the United States maybe you should start there before you chose who can get married.
persuasive +1
Its_all_about_me
Report Comment 8:36am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
It is comparable @Brett C - Morality in society does matter. Alternative lifestyles have pushed the boundaries into forcing American society to except all kinds of perversions. And Gays are on the forefront of trying to teach their lifestyle in schools in the hope that they can spread their perversions on young children's minds in the hope that they will join them in their perversion. I have a friend who saw this very thing happen to his son.

And it is a lie to think that it has nothing to do with the marriage issue being pushed by these perverted people.

And the point of where we should start in restoring traditional marriage begins in first of all destroying the perversions destroying it. Homosexuality is one of those. Your argument is the silliest I have seen from you regarding this point. Divorce and Adultery are in the same category as homosexuality and allowing it over the former is stupid.

Where we should start with restoring marriage is first by protecting the proper use of marriage. The use that guarantees that children will be brought up in a home free from perversion and lifestyles that bring sadness to the people that choose them (the suicide rate among homosexuals is extremely high so don't use the argument that they live a happy lifestyle, besides after that lady's speech in San Francisco, all I see is rage, anger and hate from Gays).

We should protect marriage from alternative lifestyles that threaten the young children. These children need to have an environment that will teach them right and wrong, morals, consequences of choosing immoral paths, and give them the tools to have happiness in their life when they are adults and free to choose how they live their life (this includes if they do want to become "gay" or whatever).
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gemstone
Report Comment 1:46am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Brett C @Brett C - I don't think you really don't get it. Everyone does have the right to live the lifestyle they want. Why do you think that it is ok to change the meaning of marriage. It's like taking words out of the dictionary and giving them a new definition. According to the Bible "marriage" has always been defined as the union between a man and a woman. Find another word to use for two men or two women living together, but don't call it marriage.
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Brett C
Report Comment 7:11pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@UtahDaze - Well, the problem is that this country is going away from the "live and let live" mentality the ideas of liberty and freedom are nothing but buzzwords to Americans.

But it does surprise me that a Church that practiced polygamy and fought so hard for the right now is turning around and saying that the rest of America shouldn't have the right to marriage as they see fit either.

I think the LDS church is trying too hard to fit in with other Christian churches and it's sad because it's the differences that made the LDS church great... and it's what millions of people fought for, crossed the planes for and died for.

I really doubt if Joseph Smith or Brigham Young were in charge today if they would be taking this stance on Gay Marriage.
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iamthepink
Report Comment 8:37pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
This country has never had a live and let live mentality! @Brett C - There has always been persecution of people that are different! It is the way it is, unfortunately. I would like to think that we did have a live and let live mentality. However... there are things that threaten a way of life. That threaten the integrity of our country. What do you expect people to do? Just sit on their thumbs? Bury their head in the sand? That is not the way this country came to be. Americans will always fight!
huh? -6
Brett C
Report Comment 9:30pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@iamthepink - Well, it's life and let life principles that founded the country... I am just a dreamer in thinking that someday they will be fully realised.... B


I think we are sliding backwards as a nation...
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Orginizdbix
Report Comment 8:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Rich spin on history! @Brett C - "I really doubt if Joseph Smith or Brigham Young were in charge today if they would be taking this stance on Gay Marriage"


I like this one! You are probably right - the only difference to their approach would be to deny them gas or food while these people traveled through our state! Maybe there would be a flier given out at the border of Nevada and Utah to avoid stopping for people outside of major towns because they may be massacred? It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy to think that history has been purified with time to classify these people as kind gentile souls!
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Brett C
Report Comment 9:05pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Orginizdbix - You got me there... I do stand Corrected... where Brigham Young would have people put to death for sexual "sins" (shedding of blood silting of throat, yada yada..) I would think he would not just look the other way on this issue either.

Thanks for the correction...
ditto +3
pmeuze
Report Comment 9:22pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Check your facts @Brett C - Obviously you are incredibly misinformed! Try doing a little more research, rather than concocting stories from bits and pieces from the anti-mormon "documentaries" on KUED.
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chivstirrir
Report Comment 9:26pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@pmeuze - ya you are right joe smith would have had poligamy porter kill all the gays just like he killed all non supporters
S. R.
Report Comment 7:10am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
This is where intellegent conversation ends,,, @chivstirrir - .....RE: "ya you are right joe smith would have had poligamy porter kill all the gays just like he killed all non supporters"............... I think this reveals all we need about this writer. When you realize a writer is standing in a pile of misinformation and actually tries to use it as a basis of rebuttal .... he's already lost his case. MOVE ON to someone who can intellectually contribute to the debate.
huh? -7
Brett C
Report Comment 9:35pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@pmeuze - I was born and raised Mormon, I spent 30+ years in the Mormon church, I have held priesthood leadership positions in the church... I graduated from seminary and took Institute at the University level. Not to mention reading the Book of Mormon, D&C countless times (yes even more time sthen I have have seen Johnny Lingo and the Mailbox)...

I even made it through the complete history of the Church all 7 volumes and it even sits on my book shelf next to me right now. So sorry if I overlooked something... But I can tell you I didn't make anything up.
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pmeuze
Report Comment 10:36pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
What happened Brett? @Brett C - So what happened Brett? Why are you so upset? What turned you away from the Gospel? It sounds like you had it all. If you have spent all that time in the Mormon Church, you will know that at the center of the Church is Jesus Christ and his pure Love. No one is out to hurt anyone or cause any problems. Definitely the people are not perfect, but the Lord is and we need to do our best to try to support our Creator. God does not support gay marriage. I know you know this! My uncle is gay and I Love him just as much as any of my other family, but that does not mean that I need to disagree with God in order to support him.
huh? -7
Brett C
Report Comment 10:55pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@pmeuze - This is not the place or do we have the room to discuss my personal journey though life, Mormonism, religion and my philosophy on it all.

I will say that I am not a bitter ex-member... I think the Church does great things in many peoples lives, and it has improved the quality of life for many people on many levels. I have seen it first hand. It's just not for me and my family for many personal reasons.

I am a libertarian and I don't think the government should intrude in lives unless necessary to uphold the liberty and freedom of others.

I am very passionate about issues with personal freedom. Gay marriage itself doesn't even effect me personally... but I would be just as passionate about abortion, assisted suicide, the right to own guns, anything in relation to personal freedom and choice..

AS I have said here before, I think it's hypocritical of a Church who fought and fights for it's freedom today to promote laws that restrict the freedoms of others.
Its_all_about_me
Report Comment 8:51am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Bitter @Brett C - You sound bitter to me. your previous posts don't suggest what you just wrote.

So you are a libertarian, What about the catholic churches right to refuse adoptions to gay couples. they are a private institution why did they have their rights taken away?

Why didn't you stand up an protest when that happened?
funny +5
Robyn P.
Report Comment 11:38pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
oh dear... @Brett C - Can i send the missionaries to your door?
ditto +4
B N.
Report Comment 11:34pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
the spin is from you @Orginizdbix - the local church leaders who were involved in the massacre were held responsible. their families suffered greatly for it. its over. Maybe if people are passing through with the intent of poisoning a few wells along the way, they should have also been smart enough to bring sufficient food to get themselves to Nevada. If there was tit-for-tat going on, it stopped with Brigham Young. But let's not hold him or other members responsible for things they never did. Innocent until proven guilty - right? yet you provide no evidence for your claims.

What was the wife of the prophet Joseph doing for the governor of Illinois after he went and changed the guard making it possible for a mob of painted face murderer to assasinate her husband? She was offering a meal and boarding to him in the nauvoo mansion. Did you ever read of her publishing public calls for retribution? If so I have not heard of any. She and Joseph were like-minded, gentle characters who gave the best of their lives protecting the freedoms of people who would not respect theirs.

That, sir, is is history, unsulied by your ilk. so was Brigham's letter headed south to cedar city to instruct the church members to let the Fancher party go through unharmed. A man was duly executed for that crime. Chase him to hell if you don't think his punishment was harsh enough and leave the rest of us who weren't there alone!

I for one will stand up for President Monson and say I am quite certain that he has done what was required of him by God and that he loves all people. Joseph and Brigham's day was not our day. Circumstances change and I am never prepared to say what Joseph would have done today or what Thomas Monson would have done back then. The Lord instructs them to guide the church for reasons only He sees. The church has not condemned those who opposed the ballot measure. have you heard of an excommunication over this? Did any of the insults thrown at Steve Young a last week come from Thomas Monson? Hardly! Now that it has passed, we will never know what the results of it's not passing would have been. Time never backs up, so we cannot pass judgements based upon what we think should have been.
insightful +2
David N.
Report Comment 11:54pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I Doubt that @Brett C - I konw that if Joseph Smith and Brigham Young were here today that they would have been against Prop 8. These two men were prophets of God and believed fulley in the doctorines and commandments of God. Thes men - If alive today - would have made the same statements in favor of saving the traditional definition of marriage as that between a man and a woman not a man and a man or a woman or a woman.

It is sad to think that just because a church(one of many) let its opinion be known about its stand on this issure is being so blatently attacked and treated as if they are the only one that was againsdt the other side. All of the polls show that it was an extremly diverse group of people that voten in favor of Prop 8. People of all religions and faiths and ethnic backgrounds.

For this group to think that the LDS Church is the only one that deserves their protests, angst, and total disrespect is preposterous. Maybe these people need to take a step back, look at the numbers, and see that the state of CA voted on the issue and they lost. Fair and square.

I for one am a proud supporter of traditional marriage and although I believe that it is someone's God given right to choose their lifestyle I dont have to agree with that lifestyle.

This country - wether people like it or not - was based on freedom and the rule of the people. The people have spoken and that is that. If you dont like it then maybe you should try again. Me personally I will fight against Gay marriage every time that it comes up. I dont think that it strenghtens our country at all. It just shows how far we have come from the values that our Country were founded on.
insightful +23
Charles h
Report Comment 5:44pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Obama supporters @Brian131313 - Exit polling shows that black and hispanic voters voted 70% in favor of prop 8.

MANY of these were motivated to vote in the election due to the candidacy of now president-elect Obama.

So while the LDS Church can share the credit for protecting marriage with many other conservative churches and individuals, they will also have to share some credit with president-elect Obama. Even though he opposed the measure, a large number of his supporters were in favor of it.

The good Lord works in mysterious ways.
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Brett C
Report Comment 7:24pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Charles h - Charles,

California is only 6% black...

Do you think the lord would also be in favor of making adultery criminal? What about divorce, should laws also ban divorce?


And acording to your own relgion Non-temple marrages are not even reconized by your God... so why would your God care if people Got married...

Also your church also once banned interracial marriage, do you think that your God changed his mind on that or do you think?

I am just wondering if Your god will change his mind on Gay marriage, like he did interracial marriage, polygamy and so on..
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Tammy W.
8:05pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Brett C - Amen! It is kinda funny how God just changes his mind like that all the time. Isn't God supposed to be perfect? In that case - he would never have to change his mind. It's very odd how that seems to happen all the time in this religion. How people keep following a religion that makes up what God believes in order to keep up with the change in societ just blows my mind.
ditto +8
jplindsey
Report Comment 8:18pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Ever read the Bible? @Tammy W. - Have you read the bible at all? How is it that God has changed his mind to keep up with society on marriage. I am amazed at what total idiots you folks are. Nobody is telling these people how to live their lives, they still have the same rights as they did before the vote. Live gay and be happy.
This country was founded under God, and God has said long ago, and nothing has changed, that a marriage is between a man and a women. The problem isn't that God has changed his mind. Your "society" has created this one.
ditto +3
iamthepink
Report Comment 8:44pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
jplindsey.... Can I get an AMEN?!?!?! @jplindsey - Thing I don't get... There are so many people who do not like that this country was founded under God. And are doing their darndest to destroy what so many fought and died to protect. There is no respect! Sometimes I just wish people who want to mangle this country would take their ideals and high tail it to Canada!
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Brett C
Report Comment 8:56pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@iamthepink - It was founded under God ... but it wasn't founded under any one idea of God... It was founded on the freedom to worship the God you chose (if any).

The pilgrims left England to get away from state Church own land and practice their region as they chose to.

Ironically now as Evangelical Christians try and force more and more of their belies and theology onto America government and the masses we are going back to the days of State Church.

"In God We Trust"... Does not mean the Mormon God, the Baptist God, the Buddhist God, the Muslim God... or any one persons God. So why should your ideas, your churches ideas, or even your gods ideas restrict my life?
disagree -5
Jake N
Report Comment 9:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Founding Fathers @Brett C - If you look at it the Founders of this country were all varied in belief (many of the biggest names being near agnosticism) but they were all secularist. Which was I think their biggest point, and clearly the lines have blurred. Religion should focus on influencing the individuals values not the law books. The leaders of the LDS Church crossed the line when they started telling it's members how to vote and not what to believe.
S. R.
Report Comment 7:33am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
RE: It was founded under god... @Brett C - .....RE: "It was founded under God ... but it wasn't founded under any one idea of God... It was founded on the freedom to worship the God you chose (if any)"........ Yes, correct (amazing how half truths are used as argument), BUT all the various (worshipping) individuals still had to obey the law of the land AND therefore the reason religious thinkers ARE interested in forming the law of the land). Get the connection there?
j_d
Report Comment 8:31am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
why does what you do have to effect my family @Brett C - here is an example;
http://link.brightcove.com/services/player/bcpid1815825713
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mkelley_Acs
Report Comment 11:33pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
to iamthepink @iamthepink - that's it lets just put all the people that don't agree with you guys in vans and send them to Canada.. oh wait i have a better idea lets start another concentration camp for all the people that don't agree with you and your people iamthepink all godless ones will have to go too don't you think. oh wait i sound like like...... like Hitler oh no but in a much more totalitarian religious way. that way no one could mangle your view of the country and any who opposed you would be held accountable does that sound good to you iamthepink

if people like you are our future i fear for us all
huh? -2
iliveforfall
Report Comment 8:14pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Stats? @Brett C - Do you have any stats to back up your 6% figure? Just curious. I'm always skeptical of uncited statistics.
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Brett C
Report Comment 8:21pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@iliveforfall - Yes, The US census site...

http://www.census.gov/popest/states/asrh/SC-EST2007-04.html

36,553,215 people in CA 2,450,444 of them "Black or African American" making 6.7% of the population.
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Seymour
Report Comment 9:32pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Wow as a member @Brett C - of the LDS church I have always been taught that marriage between a Man & Women is ordained of God, that would tell me that you do not know the LDS religion, but I am glad to learn that you learn about the Mormons when you go to church.

Remember two rosters don't make a hen
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Utah 101
Report Comment 10:02pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
"marriage between a Man & Women is ordained of God" @Seymour - So why do you care what government does?
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Brett C
Report Comment 10:09pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Utah 101 - Expectantly considering that to the LDS church a civil marriage means next to nothing.
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Tammy W.
7:58pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Charles h - PROTECT marriage??? How exactly is it that if 2 people love each other enough to want to commit via marriage that is a THREAT to YOUR marriage??? If you people were not so eager to JUDGE other people or stick your nose into their business, this world would be a better place. You are spreading bigotry. Now that african-americans are not such an easy target - you have to find another place to turn your hatred. It truly sickens me how much hatred is spread in the name of GOD. God is supposed to equal love and acceptance. And so continues the hypocricy of religion.
ditto +9
iamthepink
Report Comment 8:50pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
You know nothing of God... @Tammy W. - To him homosexual activity is an abomination. Read it!
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Brett C
9:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@iamthepink - Do you read the bible? Because if you take what it says about Homosexuality in Leviticus you must obey all the other laws in the bible... Don't you think something about Homosexuality would be mentioned in the New Testament if it was so important to God? Especially if you consider that Historically Homosexually was rampant in Roman times.

Here are the other laws of the bible you should also follow:

Don't let cattle graze with other kinds of Cattle (Leviticus 19:19)

Don't have a variety of crops on the same field. (Leviticus 19:19)

Don't wear clothes made of more than one fabric (Leviticus 19:19)

Don't cut your hair nor shave. (Leviticus 19:27)

Any person who curseth his mother or father, must be killed. (Leviticus 20:9)

If a man cheats on his wife, or vise versa, both the man and the woman must die. (Leviticus 20:10).

If a man sleeps with his father's wife... both him and his father's wife is to be put to death. (Leviticus 20:11)

If a man sleeps with his wife and her mother they are all to be burnt to death. (Leviticus 20:14)

If a man or woman has sex with an animal, both human and animal must be killed. (Leviticus 20:15-16).

If a man has sex with a woman on her period, they are both to be "cut off from their people" (Leviticus 20:18)

Psychics, wizards, and so on are to be stoned to death. (Leviticus 20:27)

If a priest's daughter is a [removed], she is to be burnt at the stake. (Leviticus 21:9)

People who have flat noses, or is blind or lame, cannot go to an altar of God (Leviticus 21:17-18)

Anyone who curses or blasphemes God, should be stoned to death by the community. (Leviticus 24:14-16)

Don't let cattle graze with other kinds of Cattle (Leviticus 19:19)
ditto +3
pre
Report Comment 9:16pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
If you think it's only in Leviticus then think again. @Brett C - try reading the whole bible.
troll -4
Brett C
Report Comment 9:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@pre - I have the feeling I have read it a lot more then you have.
witty +2
pre
Report Comment 9:44pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
okay @Brett C - that was a GREAT assumption. :P congratulations on your skill with a crystal ball.
funny +2
pre
Report Comment 9:59pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
By the way @pre - you could start with Romans. I don't have my Bible on me or I could help you out some more.
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Big Love
Report Comment 10:22pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
The Bible, pre, is freely @pre - available online....in several dozen variations/translations/denominations.

Which do you prefer? (they vary quite a bit).
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Seymour
Report Comment 9:37pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Bret, Bret , Bret @Brett C - when it says don't let cattle graze with other kinds of cattle that is exactly what we are talking about here. No man should graze with another man, no women should graze with other women, and third I wish your parents would have known about birth control
pre
Report Comment 10:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Hmmm @Seymour - that's a little sketchy...
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Brett C
Report Comment 10:08pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Seymour - Seymour... I apologize for my conception.

LOL Honestly I think my father that took his LDS home teaching too far wishes he would have at least thought of birth control. (there is a laying on of hands joke in there)

But fast forward though LDS social service adoption, strict LDS upbringing and all that brings me here today... I am happy that he didn't :)
ditto +1
mkelley_Acs
Report Comment 10:29pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
seymore @Seymour - Such a loving christian like comment to wish that someone was not born because they seem to have more whit and might be a little more on the ball than you, to help you out seymore the piont that bret is making is there are multiple laws that the bible states and that making them all state laws would be ridiculous and pre it would seem you needed your bible to back up your beliefs but are without, so attacking bret seems to be your only option. bret did not seem to need his bible or perhaps he is better prepared to back up his beliefs hmmm maybe if you asked for a more specific chapter he could assist you since your comment about the crystal ball was clearly that of intellectual intimidation.

if thats all you two offer than i suggest that you attend the children s debates and leave the adults to talk about real issues
ditto +2
pmeuze
Report Comment 10:45pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
The birth control comment was very distasteful @mkelley_Acs - The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints does not teach any of it's members to make comments such as this, and I am embarrased to see such a comment. We are follower's of our Savior Jesus Christ, and Jesus would never make a comment like that. He loves all his children equally, no matter what things they say, or what choices they make in life. Sorry about that Brett!
Lewk
Report Comment 12:01am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
"there are multiple laws that the bible states " @mkelley_Acs - Considering Mr. Brett only quoted out of the Old Testament, i am going to assume you are not familiar with the Bible. So when you talk about leaving the "adults" to debate, please educate yourself a bit before commenting on a subject.
troll -1
Brett C
Report Comment 12:33am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Lewk - I am open to any knowledge you can bring to the table.

But just saying I am wrong with nothing to backup your statement doesn't really make you look like the educated one does it?
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Brett C
Report Comment 12:08am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Brett C - I was trolled by "christians" for quoting the bible. LOL

Sorry, it wasn't the parts you like... I will try harder next time.. LOL
ditto +29
explorerman
Report Comment 6:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
In the news in California @Brian131313 - 7 out of 10 African Americans voted Yes on 8
Over 9 or 10 Latino Americans voted Yes on 8
Why aren't you hassling them?
only 5 out of 10 Whites voted Yes on 8

It amazes me how big a tantrum gays throw when they are told no.
ditto +2
Heber-ite
Report Comment 6:31pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@explorerman - Because then they would be called racists.
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Brett C
Report Comment 7:28pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@explorerman - Because those groups didn't open call centers and spend 20 million trying to convince people.

Besides, if you didn't know this is Utah, KSL.... Really we just wanted to reinforce your faith... Give you somthing to talk about next testimony meating.
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Brett C
Report Comment 7:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I'll tell you what is Amzing... @explorerman - It amazes me how big a tantrum Mormons throw when they are told no.

It amazes me how big a tantrum Black people throw when they are told no.

It amazes me how big a tantrum polygamist throw when they are told no.

It amazes me how big a tantrum Women throw when they are told no.

It amazes me how big a tantrum people throw when they are told no.

It's amazing to me that people don't allow others in 2008 to live as they see fit. Respect goes both people... You can't cry out for liberty and freedom and restrict the liberty and freedom of others. No matter what your god tells you.
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Tammy W.
8:16pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
You go Brett! @Brett C - I think I'm in love. lol. A man after my own heart. Maybe if you are really a woman with a man's name we can hold a faux wedding in front of the temple and stir up some more controversy. Oh wait - that wouldn't work since I'm not really a lesbian. Just a woman who hates bigotry in all forms. I do, however, love your comments and eloquence in relaying the message. It's nice to see there are more people in the "neighborhood" who think the way I do.
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Brett C
Report Comment 8:42pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Tammy W. - I am just a man who strongly belies in personal liberty and freedom in all forms. I don't think the government should tell any adult how to live so long as it doesn't directly restrict the rights of others.

It's not a "gay" issue, its a a issue of liberty and freedom... just as the polygamous issue, civil rights issue.. and the issues that founded this great country.

I know freedom, liberty and self governance is sadly still foreign to some people in this Country.
ditto +7
Seymour
Report Comment 9:45pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Bret you say that @Brett C - but you really don't mean it or you would not be so bothered that the LDS church (who has rights as well) would exercise those rights.
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explorerman
Report Comment 10:04pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Liberty, as long as you agree with it. @Brett C - But, you deny me the liberty of supporting a legal ballot issue in California.
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Brett C
Report Comment 10:28pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@explorerman - I don't think I denied your right to vote. I wouldn't if I could.

But yes, I would try to deny you the liberty of owning slaves, kidnapping someone, prohibiting the free speech of someone, or infringe on the rights of others in anyway... legal or not legal. Liberty and Freedom are not just buzzwords to me, they actually mean something and are values of mine.

What is so wrong with live and let live?

If Mormons Christians or what have you... really think that the way to enforce judo Christian values and promote their ever changing idea of "morality" then are they going to stop at gay marriage? Why would you stop at gay marriage... why not uses laws to enforce all things that modern Christians chose to embrace from the bible and society? Adultery, masturbation, cursing, blasphemy, divorce... Modern acceptance of Divorce and Adultery alone have done more damage to "traditional marriages" then homosexuality.

It's a scary world to me. Facsism is comming to to this country draped with an American flag and carrying a cross (or statue of Moroni in some cases:)
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iamthepink
Report Comment 8:48pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Prop has nothing to do with Bigotry. @Tammy W. - Call it what you want. But we are protecting our children here. We are protecting our country FOUNDED UNDER GOD. I do not want my children being told in school that it is ok for a man to "marry" a man. Because in my eyes it is not. It is complicated. But for people who care for nothing I am not surprised that so many just do not get it!
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Brett C
9:14pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@iamthepink - Protecting your children from what? I don't understand that statement when people like you make it.

Do you really think that kids who see gay as a option are going to turn gay?

There are millions of people out there with lifestyles I don't agree with... Mormons included... but I don't think that legally restricting their lifestyle is constitutional or even going to protect my children from their ideology.

Were do you draw the line on converting your beliefs into law? Do you think that Adultery should be illegal? What about Masturbation? What about the Word of Wisdom should it be law? You could use the same argument couldn't you? Protecting traditional marrage, protecting your children.

Your country "UNDER GOD" is not the MORMON GOD. Its "God" as you see fit to worship God. The founding fathers were not Mormon, they were not all evangelical they were not even all Christian.
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mkelley_Acs
10:12pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
if your not with the bigots your against them, in their mind @iamthepink - i want my children protected from your gods bigotry and narrow minded teachings. all i hear is EVIL EVIL EVIL at anything the church disagrees with and it is spilling into my home, i can respect a religion when it respects me and i feel violated that my friends cannot live without having the beliefs of others shoved down their throats. i believe narrow mindedness only enforces bigot behavior and that is what we see going on today,

leave people alone, soon youll have all the gays shuffled into vans heading off to the psych ward so they can be healed of their evilness

why not take me too because i think that constricting the rights of all to further your beliefs is wrong
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explorerman
Report Comment 10:02pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Bigot? @Tammy W. - Activists do not have exclusive claim on the term, bigot.
FYI, your 1000 gay friends marching at the LDS temple in LA is an act of bigotry.
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mkelley_Acs
Report Comment 10:44pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
yes i said bigot @explorerman - you tell me what you would call someone who would nullify your marriage without your will or permission
or would it be different because it would be happening to you and not someone else.
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Seymour
Report Comment 9:42pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
It amazes me @Brett C - That when gays are told NO how they throw a tantrum, they want their rights but want those who are against what they believe to loose theirs. Sounds like what is good for the goose is good for the straight.
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explorerman
Report Comment 10:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Nobody has suggested @Brett C - that gays can't live as they see fit. They can be as gay as they want as long as it does not impose on the Constitutional Rights of others. Yes, Religion is a Constitutional Right.

But, marriage is not a Constitutional Right for anyone. Otherwise it would discriminate against singles.
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Two B.
Report Comment 6:37pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Brian131313 - Basing it on the fact that there are not enough mormons to make up all or even close to most of the votes.
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Rifleman
Report Comment 8:09pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Two B. - They are sore losers.
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Tim G.
Report Comment 4:57pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
it could be the $20,000,000 they donated... @Sambecks C. - making them the largest single contributor to the "Yes on 8" campaign...
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Craig S.
Report Comment 5:11pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Slightly mistaken @Tim G. - Actually the LDS Church did not donate a single dollar to the campaign. Individual members donated the $20 million, probably making some individuals the largest single contributors, but the LDS Church as an organization contributed absolutely nothing other than it's vocal support.
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witchywoman
Report Comment 5:20pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
slite correction @Craig S. - the church did do an in-kind donation of about 2000 bucks. it was travel expenses to get a spokesman to california. but no direct funds went to the campaign.
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Ben D.
Report Comment 5:33pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Weak, totally weak @Craig S. - There are so many problems with this protest it's laughable.

1. How can you blame any single organization in this fight. There are multiple groups that helped pass Prop 8. Get over it.

2. I find it interesting that Ms. Gene isn't telling how much money California celebrities, like Ellen DeGeneres, gave to defeating Prop 8. I guess that's what you call an inconvenient truth.

3. The LDS Church is the second largest Christian denomination in California. That should give Ms. Gene a big clue as to what is going on, but yet, she must still be under the belief that EVERYONE in Utah is Mormon and sent their money. Jeez, get educated woman.

4. If Ms. Gene was really clued in, she would have read the LDS Church's statement saying that it believes that gay people should have the same rights as straight people, but that the definition of marriage is what is at issue here. Ignorance must be bliss.

5. The Mormons are the easiest target for a ton of people, so this is no different. Again, I guess it would take too much brain power for Ms. Gene to produce a comprehensive list of all of the groups that were in favor of Prop 8, but that's why she is who she is.

6. I find it interesting that she had to look at her notes to see who the President of the LDS Church is. I know this may sound like a little thing, but it does show that you have at least done your homework.

7. President Monson will be getting a ton of postcards from California. Oh well, I know he appreciates the beautiful things of life so hopefully, they will have beautiful pictures of the loverly California scenery. Even so, it still won't change the LDS Church's stand.

Ms. Gene, please get educated before you host another useless rally. It will add so much more meat to your cause.
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BD
Report Comment 5:53pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Ben D. - Ironically, all those postcards sent to Pres. Monson will be less money they could use to promote their cause. Their own hatred is actually making it worse for their own cause.
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Brett C
7:56pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@BD - It's hatred on there side uh? Are they trying to restrict your rights? When the US Government took actions against polygamy where did the hatred lay there?
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BD
Report Comment 8:49pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Brett C - Yes they are trying to restrict our rights. They would try to shut the LDS Church out of its right to have an opinion on the matter.

Some of them do hate: http://www.mormonapologetics.org/uploads//monthly_11_2008/post-5050-1226027581_thumb.jpg
BD
Report Comment 8:51pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
link @BD - Sorry, here is the better picture:

http://www.mormonapologetics.org/index.php?act=attach&type=post&id=585
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Brett C
Report Comment 9:28pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@BD - Hanging signs is not restricting your rights.

No one can force the LDS church to accept gay marriage... and the idea that people think that makes me rethink the whole black priesthood ban issue.

The supreme court ruled in the Bob Jones University case that Church can practice "discrimination" in effect... under religious rights given in the Constitution. Bob Jones University didn't allow black students to attend the university and the IRS (in the Days when the IRS has too much power) revoked the tax exempt status from the university because of this. This happened in 1970.. the supreme court ruling was in 1983... many have argued that the LDS church was fearfully of losing their tax exempt status because of this and lifted the ban on black people holding the priesthood and receiving endowments in 1978... I often wondered myself.

Churches should have the right... just as family's and any other organization to govern themselves. This self governance should include marriage.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bob_Jones_University_v._United_States
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BD
Report Comment 10:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Brett C - I didn't refer to the signs as trying to restrict rights - you asked if hatred is on their side and I provided evidence of that in the pictures. Some gays on blogs have called for violence against Mormons - now that is hate.

Restricting rights is trying to destroy the democratic process - Californians (overwhelmingly non-Mormon by the way) voted to amend their Constitution. Gays are trying to destroy that - now that is attempting to restrict rights.

The rights of society to keep a lifestyle that they see as wrong and destructive out of mainstream society (taught in schools, etc.) is in jeopardy. I know that this has been debated a million times, but yes, I do consider that our right.
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Brett C
Report Comment 12:05am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@BD - You know what if the LDS church took such stand that affected who I could get married too I would be that angry too.

Yes, trying to destroy the democratic process is restricting rights. But our nation was founded on principles that are not always trumped by majority rule.


Not agreeing with something taught in schools is not an infringement on your rights. I was taught many things in school that I didn't agree with morally or on other levels. AS I am sure you were. It was not an infringement on my rights.
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Colleen S.
Report Comment 11:19pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
If you are going to refer to polygamy.... @Brett C - then you might want to recognize that the Church did abandon polygamy once it was considered AGAINST THE LAW! And we have not practiced it since. So the people of California voted, yet the courts repeal the voice of the People? Will they ever accept the voice of the People or keep at it until they get their way? At least Mormons accepted the law and they might not have agreed with it since it was a way of life for some back then.
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Brett C
Report Comment 12:55am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Colleen S. - Colleen.

That simple uh?

Read your D&C, Church History... then tell me it was that simple.. The Church fought long and Hard to practice polygamy. It was a very sacred ordnance and essential... You can't even have really read the D&C entirely to be that ignorant.
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Brett C
Report Comment 7:47pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Ben D. - 1. You can't blame a single orgization. But when you are on KSL you have an audiance that contains members of one of the orgizations.

2. Was Ellen trying to pass a law telling you who you can marry?

3. Yeah, it's not like the church held firesides encored people from the pulpit and priesthood meetings, or even had people who live in Utah call California.

4. Are you saying getting married is not a right?

5. You are on KSL, a website that happens to be full of Mormon prop 8 supporters in Utah. Is it really that hard for you to figure out?

6. 7. Did you just run out of things to say?
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Ben D.
Report Comment 10:13pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Hey Brett C @Brett C - You're really on one. OK, let's address your list:

1. You are right, just like I said, you can't blame one single organization. I don't think Ms. Gene specifically held this rally so it could be discussed on KSL.com.

2. No, Ellen was trying to vote down Proposition 8. What is your point with this inquiry?

3. I'm sure the LDS Church did some things in California as it should have. And I'm certain the other religious organizations in this fight were not simply limited to their California members.

4. What I am saying is that the LDS Church believes that members of the gay community have rights, but the definition of marriage should remain as it currently is, between a man and a woman. Nothing more, nothing less.

5. No it is not hard for me to figure out, that is not the point. The point is that for generations now, Mormans have been the easiest target for a lot of folks and Ms. Gene has perpetuated that. She could sound a lot more intelligent, but she took the easy way out.

6. 7. No, I did not run out of things to say. Pertaining to point 6, Ms. Gene would add a measure of credibility to her quest if she looked and sounded informed about the leadership of the organization she is decrying. Again, she could do it, it doesn't take much, but she elects not to and thus looks like she is ignorant.

Pertaining to point 7, every last person in California could send a post card to Monson and it's not going to change anything. So why waste the money on that campaign and put the money to a better use such as decrying the whole coalition that was in favor of Prop 8. Oh wait, that would take some effort. Yeah, go ahead, throw the money down the drain. Maybe Ellen will help pay for it.
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Shelley E.
Report Comment 10:24pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Brett @Brett C - You seriously have too much time on your hands. You should go do something more productive and worth while.
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mkelley_Acs
Report Comment 10:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Shelley E. - why shelly is it intimidating
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Brett C
Report Comment 7:31pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Craig S. - Wow, I didn't see the "Stop Gay Marriage" box on my last tithing slip.
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jplindsey
Report Comment 8:24pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Wow @Brett C - Brett you have some deep issues. You must be one of those bitter less active types that find every possible way to put down the LDS church.

How's that workin for you?
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Tammy W.
Report Comment 8:30pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Deep Issues @jplindsey - Lol. You people who shove your nose into other peoples business by trying to tell them what they can and can't do in their own homes are the ones with deep issues. What Brett and the rest of us want is equality for ALL people. If the law was trying to tell you that you couldn't marry who you loved - how would that feel to you?
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Natalie T.
Report Comment 8:42pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Prop 8 didn't say you couldn't get married @Tammy W. - It just stated that California wouldn't recognize your marriage as a marriage. You have a civil union. You have all the same rights you had a few days ago. You can love whoever you want, but our laws are not going to change around whatever you want to do.
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Jake N
Report Comment 10:04pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
True True @Natalie T. - In that case I'll just propose that marriages preformed in a religious service are now to be called Religious Unions. You have all the same rights as a married couple and you can love however you want but it's not called a marriage because it's just weird to the rest of us.
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Pam
Report Comment 10:17pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
What deep issues? @Tammy W. - What you seem to fail to realize is that everyone got a vote on this. It passed. Therefore those that want the ban got it. Those who didn't lost. That's how it works. Everyone has a right to speak up for what they want. You lost. Accept it.That is what democracy is. Not everyone can get everything they want. The Mormon church and it's members have just as much right as anyone else to speak out about what they want. That is how the democratic process works.
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Orginizdbix
Report Comment 8:54pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Next thing you @jplindsey - know, Brett will be thinking for himself and stop believing in fairy tales - oh my! He is surely lost foreeeeevvvveeeeerrrrrr! Lets not let anyone else socialize with him - critical thinking may spread to disaster proportions - aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh! Help us help ourselves to keep away from reality! Save Brett before he stops buying cars from club member dealerships! Heeeelllllppppppppppppp....
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Brett C
Report Comment 11:18pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@jplindsey - wow, do you try and put everyone that has views different then you in a little box so you can dismiss them? Not everyone who disagrees with the church on a issue is "bitter" "anti-Mormon"...

We are amongst you in sacrament meeting, Gospel Doctrine and Priesthood meetings... (Jaws sound).... President Faust was even a Democrat...

But you are part right... I am not active at all. My Wife and I some time ago decided that the LDS church wasn't for us. But I respect the church and acknowledge the good it does and the difference it makes in peoples lives including my own.

But sorry sometimes it's political stands are just wrong, Woman's rights, Black rights, and now Gay rights.
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Oh yeah!................Oh no!
Report Comment 5:22pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
They were the biggest contributor @Tim G. - Because it matters the most to them
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carolm62
Report Comment 6:09pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Many Forget @Tim G. - that individual Mormons also donated to the opposition.
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someone u may know?
Report Comment 7:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
so what @Tim G. - its not like money buys people's votes. mitt romney had lots of money but he still lost...
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iliveforfall
Report Comment 8:15pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
? @Tim G. - Do you have some official stat on that figure?
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Jv
Report Comment 5:11pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
They are not getting all the blame its divided among all the churches @Sambecks C. - The Catholics also were highly involved in stopping Prop 8, and are also getting picketed in their main places of worship, it just in news in Utah because of the Demographics.
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My perspective
Report Comment 5:17pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Jv... watch the NATIONAL news.. @Jv - The national news primarily names the Mormon church.
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JDOG
Report Comment 5:22pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
The News? @My perspective - We should believe everything that the National News Reports
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monarch82
Report Comment 5:21pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Oops JV @Jv - I accidentally voted "witty" on yours... and by the way you're wrong.. they are not protesting at a catholic church .. they are protesting and an LDS temple... hmmmm

By the way Gays.. I have no problem with you other than the fact that when something doesn't go your way you boob and cry about it like a spoiled brat. GET OVER IT.. the rest of us have to get over that Obama was elected.. so get over the fact that most Americans don't want you shoving your lifestyles down our throats.
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Tammy W.
8:24pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
quit shoving your religion down our throats. @monarch82 - That's funny coming from a religion that tries to SHOVE YOUR LIFESTYLE down our throats by knocking on our doors to try to convert us. Are you serious?! And how exactly is it that if someone wants to get married - they are shoving anything down your throat? I think what they would like is for you to keep your NOSE out of their business - I don't see any throats being the issue.
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Seymour
Report Comment 10:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Tammy @Tammy W. - let me guess you were upset as a kid because the Bo Scouts wouldn't let you in. If a vacuum salesman knocks on my door I don't think he is shoving anything down my throat I just tell him his product sucks and I shut the door, that is all you have to do. No you want to argue and shove your opinion down someone's throat. Sounds like a double standard here.
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Tammy W.
Report Comment 11:28pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
lol @Seymour - You people are absurd. The issue here actually is you people shoving your beliefs on people who don't want anything to do with you. Live and let live. Why can't you do that? They are not knocking on your door trying to get you to become gay. They want to live their life without being bothered by people who want to take their freedom away. Where's the love the church touts. All I hear here is hate.
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happy hippo
Report Comment 5:14pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Reba, we care because of the effect it has on society as a whole. @Sambecks C. - Many states have laws that will not allow first cousins to marry and I do not believe any allow siblings to marry. WHY NOT?? What about brother-sister or sister-sister marriages for that matter. I mean as long as they are two loving consenting adults. Sure some say it's incest and wrong and illegal, but what about civil rights!!! How does it hurt anyone else if a brother and sister marry? Some might say birth defects would be more common, but people with genetic disorders are lawfully able to pro-create. So really, who's business is it anyway. OR maybe like the majority you really do believe we have the right to make laws that the majority feel better society even to the frustration and anger of some. By the way this is a real issue for some people.
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monarch82
Report Comment 5:22pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
what is wrong with you people?? @happy hippo - It's a moral issue!
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Jon!
Report Comment 5:32pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Morals @monarch82 - and moral issues should always be ENFORCED, especially by state mandates.
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Robjas
Report Comment 5:44pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
That is... @Jon! - how our country works. The moral majority determines the law of the land. So far the moral majority has determined that stealing, murder, sex with children, drug use and gay marriage, among other things, is all illegal.
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Charles h
Report Comment 5:48pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Not always... @Jon! - ...but sometimes. MOST of our laws are nothing but a particular morality being enforced. Things like not stealing and not harming or enslaving others even if they are a different race, religion, or income level than you are essentially moral codes. And those codes are not shared by some.

Banning sex with minors, public nudity and public sex, and other such acts are also majority morality properly enforced by law.

Sorry, but some things are not black and white and which portions of which moral codes to enforce by law and which to leave to individual conscience are often tricky questions without easy answers, no matter how many sound bites you use.
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Jon!
Report Comment 5:36pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Funny you would bring that up @happy hippo - UTAH ALLOWS FIRST COUSINS TO MARRY

Utah- if both are 65 or older, or if both are 55 or older and one is unable to reproduce.

moral issue my butt....
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Sambecks C.
Report Comment 6:58pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
What does that have to do with the price of rice in China? @Jon! - Not relevant.
seanparker
Report Comment 11:25pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
That looks like a similar typing format to me... @Jon! - I remember posting that earlier on another comment board.

Funny how you bring this up and yet forget to notice and emphasize some of the most important parts of that fact.

Did you not notice that the only reason a person could marry their first cousin in Utah is if they are both or at least the woman past child bearing age? If they can have kids then they can't get married. Why didn't you also cite that the great leader of trends in our nation known as California allows first cousins of any legal age to marry while the backwards hillbillies of Kentucky and Louisiana think that is so morally wrong that it is illegal.

Seeing as how you weren't considerate enough to provide the citation of your information I'll do it for you:

http://www.ncsl.org/programs/cyf/cousins.htm
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Brett C
Report Comment 12:38am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Jon! - I thought half the people in Utah were fist cousins?

Joke people...
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FredtheGreat_7
Report Comment 5:50pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Why pick on the LDS? @Sambecks C. - Our 'special needs' friends refuse to take a deep, hard look into the mirror and realize just how wrong their cause is—all the time and money wasted on false hope of achieving what is never to be—same sex marriage.

So they blame the LDS people--Guardians of the American family.

Peace out-->libs
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FredtheGreat_7
Report Comment 7:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Then our 'special needs' friends @FredtheGreat_7 - Compare their plight to interracial marriage?

How can any sane person compare same-sex relationship to a male and female of different race relationship?

Love you say?

We think not and the people have voted against same-sex marriage.

So please do society a favor--go back to the closet or reduce you carbon footprint forever.

Peace out-->libs
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Tammy W.
Report Comment 8:35pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@FredtheGreat_7 - Oh it WILL BE - it's just a matter of time. Just like getting an African American president was. Sorry your religion couldn't hold them back too by classifying them as second class citizens who were not able to hold the priesthood. What a shame. More fodder for you bigots.
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iceg
Report Comment 6:12pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Sambecks C. @Sambecks C. - The reason they pick on the LDS church is because it is not only socially acceptable to discriminate and spew all manner of ignorance and hate against our faith, but it is the vogue thing to do.
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don't be a weiner
Report Comment 6:27pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
ONLY 2-3% OF CALIFORNIANS @Sambecks C. - Just wanted to say according to census statistics only between 2 to 3% of Californians are Latter-Day Saints. The rest of the Californians are of other faiths,Christian,Muslim, and other listed prior.

But, what the hey let's blame the Mormans anyway!!

They are the only ones that voted RIGHT
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Not_so_concerned_citizen
Report Comment 6:30pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
and how much money and media did they get @Sambecks C. - It made me sick everytime I turned on the TV and saw another "high and mighty" mormon begging everyone to vote Yes on Prop 8. Like someone else said, the mormon church does not accept gays, so why are they so concerned about gays getting married.
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Brett C
7:06pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Sambecks C. - I don't know maybe because the LDS church spent 20 million campaigning for Prop 8?

Or maybe because the Church opened call centers to beg for support for Prop 8.

Or maybe because the churches history with polygamy some people think that they would be a bit more understanding of people who want to live lifestyles outside the norm?
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pmeuze
Report Comment 10:10pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Once again, look at the Bible... @Brett C - If you believe in the Bible, there is no denying that many of God's servants practiced polygamy in the Old Testament times (Abraham, Jacob, David, Solomon...). There are however, no examples of gay marriage in the Bible and it is clear in the Book of Leviticus that God does not approve of Homosexuality. God loves all his children equally, but he does not approve of gay marriage and we need to listen to our Creator. God's laws take clear presedence over any laws made by man.
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Brett C
Report Comment 1:05am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@pmeuze - pmeuze,

So all of God's laws should be put into mans laws?

Assuming you could even get all Christians to agree (even all Mormons) just want god's laws are... Wouldn't that be contracting the New Testament and the words of Christ? Not to mention the founding principals of this country.?
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Black Blood
Report Comment 1:00am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
those who voted yes beside LDS @Sambecks C. - Because you LDS had the louder voice when this subject arised, you LDS fought this tooth and nail! All I ever hear about in the news was the LDS THIS, the LDS that!! You LDS are the real demons in all of this!!!!!! YOU LDS FREAKS WHINED THE HARDEST! THATS WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Supernurseboy
Report Comment 5:03pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I realize that I will be trolled even though I will speak respectfully... @Roger B. - This is a temporary set-back. This civil rights fight is really in its beginning stages and historically, the LDS church doesn't change its mind on issues until it is painfully obvious that their membership will suffer if they do not. In the late 1800's, the LDS leaders chose to remove polygamy from its practices after "Deseret" was rejected from statehood. Soon after the rejection of polygamy they attained the goal of joining the union.

They did this despite Brigham Youngs previous state of "Now if any of you will deny the plurality of wives, and continue to do so, I promise that you will be damned." The same thing happened with "Woman Suffrage" It took The Utah territorial congress twice passing it before it stuck.

The LDS church waited until 1978 to give African Americans full rights and privelages in the LDS church. This was after Brigham Young had said the following two statements Brigham Young said his discourses are as good as Scripture. "I say now, when they [ His Discourses] are copied and approved by me they are as good Scripture as is couched in this Bible . . . " (Journal of Discourses, Vol. 13, p. 264; see also page 95.) And he said the following: "You see some classes of the human family that are black, uncouth, uncomely, disagreeable and low in their habits, wild, and seemingly deprived of nearly all the blessings of the intelligence that is generally bestowed upon mankind....Cain slew his brother. Can might have been killed, and that would have put a termination to that line of human beings. This was not to be, and the Lord put a mark upon him, which is the flat nose and black skin." (Journal of Discourses, Vol. 7, page 290)

Since God told him these things, wouldn't it be prudent that the LDS church follow his prophecy? The answer is no, the LDS church gave African Americans the priesthood because they would have ceased to exist as a church if they had not, just as they would have ceased in the previous two instances. I know that there will be a day that their stance will become so unpopular that they will once again be forced to change their stance on Gay marriage or they will lose their memberships.

I know that it is a matter of a few decades and Homosexuals will be getting married in LDS temples even if that seems far-fetched now, so did the disbandment of polygamy and blacks receiving the priesthood in the 1800's. Wait and see...
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angieo
Report Comment 5:15pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
You... @Supernurseboy - are so full of BS, your eyes are brown. You know absolutely NOTHING! Never will the Mormons, or any other decent organization, embrace, support, condone, or tolerate any form of evil perversion. NEVER!
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Bastian
Report Comment 5:23pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
perversion? @angieo - Do you agree to plural marriages? Some would say that is a perversion. I personally don't care what people do.
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angieo
Report Comment 5:28pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
NO @Bastian - To plural marriage. NO to perversion. YES to Bastian being an IDIOT!!!!!
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Bastian
5:37pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
whatever @angieo - Enjoy the rest of you evening trying to suppress those who are different than you. Bigot.
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angieo
Report Comment 5:56pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Bastian @Bastian - The more you talk, the dumber you seem. Better quit now. Decency has won, and it galls you. Why is good, decent, clean living so objectionable to you?
You're PATHETIC!!!!!
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ejohn86
Report Comment 7:12pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Hmm... @Bastian - Bastian, you wouldn't happen to be the same Bastian who donated $1 million to No on Prop 8, would you?
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ejohn86
Report Comment 7:15pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Hmm... @Bastian - Bastian, you wouldn't happen to be the same Bastian who donated $1 million to No on Prop 8, would you?
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irelandsbecs
Report Comment 8:16pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Yeah he is @ejohn86 - I'd be pretty ticked off too, although I wouldn't be throwing the word bigot around, if I lost $1 million dollars in one day...dang!
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BD
Report Comment 11:12pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Bastian - I see you trying to do the same thing - suppress those who are different than you. But, unlike you Bastian - I won't call you a bigot since I do respect that even you have a right to your opinion.
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MegnDave
Report Comment 7:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
angeleo @angieo - you make me sick. you sound like a racist stuck up butt hole! it will pass, maybe not for a long time. but it will. then you will be the one throwing a fit and crying boo hoo because you didnt get your way in the end
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SoJoBoy
Report Comment 7:35pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
That is the difference... @MegnDave - between libs and conservatives. Libs pitch fits until they get there way. Its hard to rile conservatives until it is usually too late. Had this turned out the other way, I doubt you would be reading much about it.
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Supernurseboy
Report Comment 8:07pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Angie, @angieo - Tell me exactly how I am full of BS. I didn't misquote anything or get any of my historic facts incorrect so please fill me in on how what I said amounts to BS since the implication of BS is lies or some other deception.
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Revilo
Report Comment 9:20am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Supernurseboy @Supernurseboy - You seem to be well-versed in revealed doctrine, so I'll speak to you in clear terms. The world in which we live is in a fallen and temporal condition and its inhabitants are undergoing a great sifting and proving. We are here, after eons of preparation to finally choose for ourselves what eternal verities we are willing to accept. Our agency is much more fundamental than just choosing what we will do. I testify to you that I know with absolute certainty that our agency allows us to choose what we think, what we believe, what we hope, and even what we desire. There is no moment that is not pregnant with choice while we sojourn here.

And this is the condemnation of the world and of man: that light has been revealed; but that we reject it, spurn it and hate it: choosing instead to act, think, believe, and desire alternate, less worthy perceptions.

I bear solemn witness that the day will come when all men will realize that reality here is presented ambiguously before our eyes for agency's sake, viz., that we may choose for ourselves what we will believe.

The day will most surely come when all men will know that there is a perfect order that has been architected and ordained by a living and loving Father and God; that our potential place in the universe was truly without limit; but while today lasts, that reality is hidden from view, so that we can choose for ourselves.

I tell you these things so that you might understand that your perceptions about what is going on around you, and why it happens, is a manifestation of your choice of what you want to believe. In effect we choose our worldview and then interpret the universe to fit it: and this is possible because of ambiguity. The world is in a state of mass hallucination: darkness covers the world and gross darkness the minds of the people.

So, you say, the church decided to ordain Blacks because of political constraints and it abandoned polygamy because of political constraints. Is it possible that there is an alternate view?

How about Polygamy: The Book of Mormon implies that God ordains polygamy in order to quickly grow a rising generation. From a legitimate frame of reference, the establishment of the latter-day church faced great opposition: its adherents were driven, raped, and slayed in the most free country upon the earth - largely, incidentally, because of its opposition to slavery. It seems reasonable that this was such a period that necessitated the rapid embryonic growth required to set the Kingdom firmly in place. Once the critical mass was achieved, polygamy was no longer 'required' for the Lord's purposes.

How about Blacks and the Priesthood:
In the colonial days of the Americas, slavery was a common and ACCEPTED practice in most of the world. Black men were not free. The founding fathers, many of whom were slave holders themselves and subjects of their own times, wisely set in motion a political system that was not in their own self-interest and that would eventually politically liberate the slaves. To understand the early restrictions on the priesthood, I believe you have to understand the solemnity, oath and covenant of the priesthood.

A man who accepts the priesthood incurs a solemn obligation to magnify that priesthood and to function in the world as a free agent in the service of God in administering truth and light to others. Instead of viewing the Priesthood as a privilege that was denied from some because of their skin color, I view the Priesthood as a grave obligation that results in condemnation when not handled properly; and that God mercifully withheld that obligation from Blacks until the time when very real political, educational, and cultural impediments were removed; and conditions were such that they could take upon themselves these sacred obligations with a reasonable probability of success. I'm convinced that Blacks in the early history of the United States, because of their limited liberty, will be judged to a different standard than their white contemporaries who had, but abused, greater liberty; and that the priesthood restrictions correlate to this reality.

Now, I recognize that you likely won't jump to my frame of reference just because I showed it too you. However, I wish that I could merely convince you to renew a childlike, meek, humble, search for truth and to recognize that the ultimate reality typically transcends our poverty of perception.

Choose wisely what you believe... it is the foundation of your perceptions... it comprises the self-imposed limits on what you can see. What is "obvious" to you is an artifact of where you stand spiritually. Your conclusions are built upon the foundation of your desires.

A long answer; but what Angie meant by "BS" is that you hold your conclusions up as objective truth; that you measure yourself and the world by your own light (and the light of others who stand with you) instead of submitting yourself to the measure and light of God.

I know that there is a living God in the Heavens, that Christ has set forth his hand in these latter days to restore his Kingdom upon the earth preparatory to his coming in great glory. The Book of Mormon is exactly what it purports to be and Joseph Smith truly saw the Father of Heaven and his only begotten Son. I solemnly affirm that just because you don't know these things doesn't have anything to do with whether such knowledge can be held; and I do hold it, and that it has been given to me by the power of the Holy Ghost. Such things may sound nonsensical to the world; but so it is, and I know it.

I've always been fascinated by folks who stand on lower ground and confidently declare, "all that I see is all that there is!" Will you tell me that I don't know these things? Or will you stand there and insanely bear witness of what is not? Please come quickly out of darkness and ignorance: humble yourself before God. Believe that He is, believe that he has power to change our natures, believe that he can lift us from our fallen state, believe that he operates among men according to their faith because of free agency.

Nevertheless, you may choose for yourself: for it is given to you to choose life or death, light or darkness, truth or error, salvation or damnation. This is a great key to understanding: God has prepared a plan for each soul to choose its own destiny - therein lies tragedy; therein lies triumph.

Choose wisely what you desire!
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Tammy W.
Report Comment 8:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@angieo - lol. How can you say he knows nothing when he quotes your own books of religion? It is true - the mormon religion changes when bigger things are at stake. Take a valium and quit being such a bigot.
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Robjas
Report Comment 5:20pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I'm sorry... @Supernurseboy - but you are wrong. Homosexuals will never be married in LDS temples, nor can the LDS church accept the marriage of homosexual couples. The issues you mention above are fundamentally different than the issue of homosexuality.
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My perspective
Report Comment 5:21pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Supernurse boy.. it won't happen. @Supernurseboy - If you did the rest of your brief study of Mormon history, you would have the rest of the story. Polygamy and other doctrines have their basis in the Old and New Testaments of the Bible. So does homosexuality. The doctrine in the bible forbids homosexuality, and other forms of sexual perversion. I can confidently say that the Mormon Church will not reverse it's stance on this point...ever.
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Bastian
Report Comment 5:26pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
So thankful @My perspective - I don't believe in the Bible or God. So therefore whatever I choose to do is ok.
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Robjas
Report Comment 5:30pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Pretty... @Bastian - conveinent. Unfortunately for you God still will hold you accountable for your actions even though you dont beleive in him.
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Bastian
5:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
hahaha @Robjas - You show me scientific evidence of what will happen to me and I will believe you, troll away
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Robjas
Report Comment 5:51pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Keep... @Bastian - laughing and just hope you can live forever. You are deluding yourself if you think this life is all there is in store for you.
pre
Report Comment 9:26pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
By the same token @Bastian - You show me scientific evidence that you will not be held accountable for your actions.

The existence of God (and therefore judgment, the afterlife, and other related topics) cannot be proven or disproved by the scientific method so your point is moot.

I personally believe that this is on purpose so we would be forced to rely on one degree or another of faith.
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JDOG
Report Comment 5:48pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Hey Bastian... @Bastian - I don't think that God believes in Athiests either
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Supernurseboy
Report Comment 8:29pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
My perspective, @My perspective - I appreciate your respectful response so I will return the favor. Could you please show me where in the Bible, Book of Mormon, Talmud, Koran or sacred Taoist texts that it states homosexuals cannot be married? The verse does not exist in any of these texts. Believe me, I have spent the last 15 years of my life reading each of them multiple times. I do not have a brief history study of Mormon history, it is a religion that I am more familiar with than any of the others I just mentioned. I have read the Book of Mormon cover to cover 7 times along with the D&C and POGP. I am probably more familiar with your religion than most people who are members of it. As for the Old Testament, which is the same as the Talmud, the problem with Sodom and Gomorrah wasn't that the people there were gay but rather that they were violently raping trespassers. Read it carefully and you will come to the same conclusion. As for the new testament, it does specifically mention homosexuality as a crime but you have to look at the historic context of the new testament. It was not written by anyone person and it was only formulated after the council of Nicaea where people bartered land, wives, livestock and goods to place the doctrine together. This occurred over 200 years after the death of Jesus, so historically, this can not be accurate since it was really more of a treaty/auction that assisted its formulation.
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pre
Report Comment 9:34pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
You are correct @Supernurseboy - about the new testament and you have obviously done a lot of research, however, I question your logic on 2 points:

1: homosexuality is condemned as a heinous sin in multiple passages of the bible. Therefore, the logical extension would be that homosexual marriage would also be wrong...since that would facilitate and give approval of a homosexual relationship. While the bible does not mention gay marriage explicitly, you can't avoid the condemnation of homosexual relationships and by extension a homosexual marriage.

2: Yes the New Testament was put together in the manner you describe, however, I would argue that most of it is still intact. Yes, there are things missing obviously and some things have been changed etc, but basically the message is the same, otherwise we wouldn't believe in it (which we most definitely do)...and since the passages dealing with homosexuality demonstrate the same basic premise (homosexuality is sinful) as the ones in the OT/Talmud, then it is probably safe to say that those passages are correct.
Resom
Report Comment 7:26am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Supernurseboy @Supernurseboy - Are you aware that you interpret and rationalize the writings to fit your worldview? For example, your assessment of the "problem with Sodom and Gomorrah". Can you please show me where it says in the Bible that this was the problem. From my perspective, the problem was that the society was so perverse that the innocent children had virtually no chance of leading virtuous lives. It is at this point, when the children are being indoctrinated and immersed in perversion that a society is ripe for destruction. I have read it carefully and came to a different conclusion. What you've said about Nicaea is largely true; but our assertion that the writings of Paul were somehow a product of Nicea is humorous. Nicea's mistake you've described was the production of creeds, not the preservation of the original apostles' writing.

Regarding your first question: Could you show me where scriptures explicitly teach that a man shouldn't marry his dog, or his cat, or his donkey, or his...." Do you think it necessary that God delineate each and every form of union that is unacceptable; or could it be that His pronouncement that his will that a man and a woman be wed and become one is sufficient to exclude the infinitude of erroneous potential unions.

I can certainly show you plenty of references that indicate that marriage between a man and woman is ordained of God. Where does it say that marrying a man to a man is acceptable in God's eye?

Wrest, wrest, wrest away.
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UtahDaze
Report Comment 5:31pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Holy Cow! @Supernurseboy - Let me count the ignorant ways!

1. So, we are to assume God told Brigham Young EVERYTHING that came out of his mouth?
2. By your argument about the blacks and the priesthood, are we to assume that the decision to take the gospel to the Gentiles only AFTER Christ was resurrected was a political decision, or the "popular" thing to do? The Levites used to be the only holders of the priesthood, was that changed because it was no longer popular? The way I see it, God works through natural situations and will often shape "revelation" in actions around us that we need to be keen to. That said, the fundamental principles that govern eternal law are the same, how the human race is prepared to receive them is a different story.
3. At what point in the history of the universe will the continuing propagation of the species be magically introduced to gay couples? You obviously know nothing about LDS doctrine, so you may want to go back to reading your Anti-Momron propaganda until you come across something that talks about the "sealing" in the temple as related to the first commandment given to Adam and Eve to "Multiply and Replenish the earth" - it's kind of an eternal principle that homosexuality can't accomplish for reasons maybe you should look up in a sexual education book.
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Supernurseboy
Report Comment 8:35pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Utah Daze @UtahDaze - I guess people who are infertile should not be permitted to get married either since the only measure of a valuable marriage is someone who can to quote your exact words "Multiply and Replenish the earth". By the way, most people that think they are following that commandment are only multiplying, I don't see many people out replenishing the resources they use.
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older but wiser
Report Comment 5:35pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Won't troll you @Supernurseboy - but will just ask why we need to keep going over the same material, again and again and again. And why we need to keep telling you that it isn't the LDS church that set the definition of marriage...it was God.

Funny, you say a few decades? How about never? Why? Because GOD says it is an abomination. Because GOD won't ever go back and say "oh gosh. How silly of me to have stepped on the toes of people".

He is the same today, tomorrow and forever (that's in the Bible, folks)which means His attitudes are unchanging.

You may at some point win the war you wage to have the world recognize you as "married". You won't. someday have that same allowance from God.
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pre
Report Comment 9:58pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Insightful @older but wiser - I'm LDS and so therefore I believe my church has been around in one form or another since Adam, but that's beside the point. GOD is the one that made this decision, not a man or group of men. I happen to believe that he declared/declares it through his Prophet today as well as before, but I totally agree with your basic premise dealing with this and many other issues.
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older but wiser
Report Comment 11:53pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
pre @pre - I'm LDS as well and I agree with you.
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sharpelectronics
Report Comment 5:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Blacks and the Priesthood @Supernurseboy - Supernurseboy,
I think you have every right to say what you did and shouldn't be trolled for it.
The fact is that you don't understand the issue with Plural Marriage and the Blacks having the Priesthood. With Plural Marriage: Throughout the Bible, there have been instances of God commanding his people to have more than one wife, many people assume that is some perverted sexual issue but that it not the case, many times it was so that men that were financially stable could help multiple women have the opportunity to go to school, get educated. This was not the only reason but Plural Marriage isn't just about sex/prevision. The church only discontinued this practice after the prophet received revelation that this was the case - he said that he would allow the temples to be taken and the members to be arrested if this was the will of God. He did not cave into social pressure but just as in times of old, God is able to command people to practice and not practice plural marriage.

With Blacks and the Priesthood: Throughout time, God has given the power to act in his name to select and limited groups of people. There are examples of groups of people not being able to receive this power until God commanded it. The Blacks were not given the power to act in God's name, not as a racist decision, but because that was God's will. When God gave the leaders of the church the authority to give Black's the priesthood they did so.

Homosexual behavior has nothing to do with these decisions. Marriage between and man and a women is a strict commandment from God. Look in the Bible. We are trying to defend God's commands - no matter the cost.
Austin L.
Report Comment 10:05pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Oh Snap @Supernurseboy - You equate the forbearance of a practice due to constraints of law (as you claim anyhow) with allowing sin - totally different. You will never see a church forced to accept sin. To disallow them to practice a virtue, ok. To force them to practice a sin? Not gonna happen.

/that's all I have to say.

PS Did you know we have our own law school, usually ranked #35?
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Panda
5:24pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
... @Roger B. - Aren't most Mormons gay? If not most... There sure is an awful lot or them.
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Robjas
Report Comment 5:28pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Aren't... @Panda - most Pandas gay? Probably the reason they are close to extinction.
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angieo
Report Comment 5:34pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Did your... @Panda - ...dad meet your mother at the family reunion? That would explain a lot of things. HUH DUH!!!!!!!!!!!
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How Strange!
Report Comment 5:26pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I agree Roger B. @Roger B. - Agreed Roger, not everyone in California is mormon so how could it be all the LDS churchs fault? Obviously the Californians just so happened to feel the same way as the LDS church!!
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Robjas
Report Comment 5:35pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
The LDS... @How Strange! - church is just an easy target for these people's wrath because it represents a large group of the people that voted for prop 8. My understanding is that over 70% of black people voted for it as well so in all fairness they should probably be focusing at the NAACP headquarters too.
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TheLastLaugh
Report Comment 6:54pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Protest the LDS Church... @Roger B. - ...over its support of Proposition 8? Why do Gays and Lesbians run around begging and pleading for people to be bigoted against them? This is one that is confusing more to me than anything! What gives you the right to have something that is equivalent to being a pedophile be accepted as mainstream behavior? Obviously you have something terribly wrong with you suffering from same gender attraction! Go see a shrink and get yourself fixed!
It seams as though the LAPD needs to have their best goon squad out with tasers, tear-gas, knight-sticks and the paddy wagon ready to go!
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brlafreniere
Report Comment 9:05pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Roger B. - "but as society continues to shun traditional morale values."

There are 1,400 legal rights that come with having a spouse, and you're in support of denying those rights to fellow Americans.
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Gary B.
Report Comment 9:30pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Don't be confused about gay marriage: @Roger B. - Gay marriage is nothing more than an agenda its supporters are seeking to thrust upon this entire nation. This is evidenced by the SF mayor promptly requiring that children in public schools be indoctrinated with homosexual propaganda, with no parental notification. Or by judges in MO essentially shutting down one of the oldest catholic orphanages in the nation for not allowing gay parents to adopt.

Why do gay leaders target children with such voracity? One reason: "RECRUITS"!

Understand this, Gays leaders and organizations do NOT want rights for all, just for themselves...otherwise they would vigorously be championing the plight of:

1. People who want to marry their family members...
2. People who want to marry livestock...
3. People who want polygamous marriages...
etc..

Why might you ask, do religions, including the LDS church get involved in supporting a ban on gay marriage? Two reasons:

1st, it is their right to (anyone who coughs up the old separation of church and state argument doesn't really understand the constitution and needs to educate themselves by reading the following: http://www.allabouthistory.org/separation-of-church-and-state.htm)

2nd, the very survival of organized churches and religions who oppose gay marriage is at stake... If judges can effectively close down a catholic orphanage for refusing to allow gay couples to adopt (a lifestyle not acceptable to the catholic and most other Christian churches), then judges can try and force Mormons to solemnize gay marriages in their temples as well (and that is most probably where it would be headed) This would effectively close the LDS temples as Mormon leaders certainly wouldn’t allow them to be desecrated. Hate speech could be defined as meaning any person or organization who speaks out against gays or gay marriage, with huge financial or penal penalties, etc...

Legalized gay marriage is a very slippery slope...we've seen exactly what gay organizations have done with a little power (indoctrinate your children at public school by teaching them about the homosexual lifestyle and marching kindergartners to city hall to witness a lesbian marriage ceremonies, shutting down religious orphanages), etc...

Imagine what they would do with a LOT of power... think it doesn't affect you? think again, especially if you have children attending public schools or frequent a Christian church. I make no apology for my belief in God and what I know to be right and wrong.

Homosexuality is a sexual perversion and certainly not intended by God or nature. Gay marriage doesn’t make it better…it just destroys a nation.
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The Great Mumford
Report Comment 10:21pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
From other articles @Roger B. - It looks like the church is getting blamed because the majority of the money donated to Prop 8 came from the faithful. I would think if the church didn't want to get protested they wouldn't have gotten involved with this in the first place. They had to know it was like poking a hornets' nest.
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Ryan H.
Report Comment 12:47am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Roger B. - your right piss on the gays but dont you ever send another guy in a black suit to my house because its my right to say that they are wrong and the guy that looked in a hat to see the light... well well my friend he has got to be right. my baby sitter is gay, i would rather he watch her then a morman. the morman ways are pushed more then... well i have never met a gay person who has pushed there was on anyone. lets just call him elder kick [no swearing please]
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L L.
Report Comment 4:41pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Reba F. - One of many reasons to care is because there would be laws requiring the LDS church to perform same sex marriage. I'm sure it gets more complicated than i understand but that is one thing I got out of it. Another issue is the way it would be addressed in schools. As a member and any parent that is huge to me.
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Tell Me Something New
Report Comment 4:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I thought the same thing @L L. - but it actually would not have to allow gay married. The LDS church already gets to pick who is married in there temples. People don't just walk into a temple and say marry me now.
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Sambecks C.
Report Comment 4:45pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Either be gay or be LDS, but not both @Tell Me Something New - To try to do both is self-defeating behavior. Either go back into the closet, or repent of your sins and quit trying to call evil good. Let it go!!!
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Kimmy
Report Comment 4:52pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Sambecks @Sambecks C. - If there is a such thing as reincarnation, I hope you come back as a gay man.
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Emoemoemo
Report Comment 5:13pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
What do you mean... @Kimmy - ... come back?
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Mckay M.
Report Comment 4:58pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
My thoughts exactly! @Sambecks C. - Well said sambecks! I don't understand how a person could justify in calling themselves a "gay mormon". Being homosexual goes against everything the LDS church teaches. Let's not limit these teachings to the LDS church, as most if not all christian/bible following religion's do as well. This country has become so liberal its sickening! I am also disqusted with the so called "members" who were against this proposition or are angry with the churches involment. Do you not believe the prophet to be called of god? If so, why question their involement????
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Service for you
Report Comment 5:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
well Mckay @Mckay M. - don't the LDS allow that?
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Fericito
Report Comment 5:10pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I respectfully disagree - even SOME church leaders do. @Mckay M. - ACTING on homosexual feelings would go against the church teachings, but I think it's very possible that some people have the trial of having those feelings in this life.

It's what they do with that that can or cannot go against teachings. Not necessarily whether or not they are.
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angieo
Report Comment 5:20pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
? @Fericito - Which church leaders?
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Fericito
Report Comment 6:08pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
local leaders @angieo - I know for a fact that my bishop has counseled my best friend that his feelings might or might not have been something "from birth" but that as long as he doesn't act on it (break the laws of morality) that he can remain in good standing.

He holds a temple recommend, he comes to church each week and he has decided to live a celibate, albeit lonely life.

Not much different from a woman who doesn't have the opportunity to marry.

Some of the comments calling me stupid make me think you haven't thought it through - or that you're convinced those feelings are something someone brings on themselves. I honestly don't know but who am I to judge what someone else feels?

It's a cross I hope I'm never called to bear - and suffer seeing someone I care about bear and yet I'm so impressed with his strength.
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Service for you
Report Comment 5:21pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
That @Fericito - is sooooo odd to me how can you be gay and not act on it? That is not only bizarre but stupid
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Tell Me Something New
Report Comment 7:20pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
My husband @Service for you - Can think other women are attractive but he sure better not act on it.
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Fericito
Report Comment 8:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I'd be worried @Tell Me Something New - If he DIDN'T think other women were attractive.
Tell Me Something New
Report Comment 9:59pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Me too! @Fericito - Thanks, that put a smile on my face.
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SoJoBoy
Report Comment 7:58pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Service.... @Service for you - Do you ever stop to think? Unfortunately you probably represent a good chunk of society that has become so sexually obsessed. Believe it or not, absence of sex is not life threatening.
They need to come up with a "just plain stupid" voting option for you.
irelandsbecs
Report Comment 8:23pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
SoJoBoy @SoJoBoy - That last sentence made me LOL. Thanks for making me smile.

(no offense "service for you" although I don't agree with you either)
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pre
Report Comment 9:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
You are right @Fericito - The church's position is not that it is the attraction that is a sin, but acting on the attraction. Just like for me being attracted to a good looking girl is not a sin, but if I go do the naughty with her outside of marriage etc etc, then that is where the sin is. There are a lot of good upstanding LDS members who struggle with same sex attraction, but as long as they don't do anything with it then they are good to go, can hold a temple recommend, hold church callings, etc.

Btw, it's not just some church leaders that go with that--it's all of them.
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Robjas
Report Comment 5:42pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I... @Mckay M. - disagree here too. There are Mormons that commit all kinds of sins and still consider themselves Mormons. There are murderers in prison that consider themselves Mormons. I know a guy that was gay and changed his life and is a faithful LDS member.

Gays have a terrible burden to bear to have attractions to the same sex. It is pretty easy to judge them having not had to live with the same temptations. Each person has to work out their salvation on their own, including gays.

They have just as much right to consider themselves Mormons as the rest of the church as long as they are striving to live its teachings and not openly opposing it.
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Fericito
Report Comment 6:11pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Also @Robjas - Seems to me what your definition of gay might be. If you think gay means you are sleeping with someone of the same sex, then yes, being gay goes against church teachings.

I think someone who calls themselves gay could have that attraction to same sex but doesn't mean they are acting on those impulses. Some really do believe they were born with those feelings - some think it's something you choose.

I don't know which it is and I have NEVER heard an official church statement saying that it is one or the other.
pre
Report Comment 9:52pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Elder Cook @Fericito - did. It was about this whole thing too...he said something to the effect that there are many good members of the LDS church who struggle with it but that they are welcome in the church as long as they don't act on it etc etc. Not a direct quote but that was the jist of it. I'm sure it's available somewhere but I don't have time to look it up.
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Browneyedgirl L.
Report Comment 9:45pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Mckay M. @Mckay M. - A gay mormon is someone that was born into the church, baptized but is gay....they may not be active but they are still counted as a member of the church in the 13 million mark.
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Jani S.
Report Comment 4:46pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Tell Me Something New - people can, however, file lawsuit after lawsuit, based on discrimination. They could assert that the temple recommend interviews by the LDS church are discriminatory, etc. They could sue LDS Social Services or adoption services for the same reason. Not to say they would win, but how many churches less financially sound than the mormons would be able to withstand repeated lawsuits of that nature? Not many.
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Cache Kid
Report Comment 4:53pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
In response, these churches could then counter-sue @Jani S. - Each organization and individual that advocates this type of legal harassment.

For the lawyers it would be a bonanza!
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Jani S.
Report Comment 5:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Cache Kid - NOt really the kind of world I want to live in, lawsuit happy.

And how many smaller churches, whose donations are all by local, smaller congregations, could afford to countersue? Most struggle to pay their preacher and keep up their buildings.
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MKN
Report Comment 12:16am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Freedom of Association @Jani S. - The Supreme Court has already ruled that religious denominations/private organizations have the right to set guidelines for membership. Society and government cannot determine guidelines for them. For example, the Supreme Court ruled that BSA can exclude homosexual men from holding positions of leadership. Organizations such as BSA have the right to associate with whom they will. There will never be any court action to force gay marriages in temples. This matter has been settled by the Supreme Court.
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L L.
Report Comment 5:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Tell Me Something New - I'm not talking temples. Bishops who can preform civil marriages.
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older but wiser
Report Comment 5:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
true @Tell Me Something New - but Bishops marry people in civil ceremonies all the time.
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AI
Report Comment 7:48pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
But not church ceremonies @Tell Me Something New - Bishops would be required to marry homosexuals in the church reguardless of their own beliefs, or they would be sued by the homosexual movement.
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mickeyqbitsko
Report Comment 11:21pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Not so. @AI - Just because somebody is licensed to perform marriages doesn't mean they have to.
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Kimmy
Report Comment 4:48pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
L L @L L. - Before the passing of prop 8, show me the California law that required religions to perform gay marriage and address marriage (gay or straight) in school. Religions are already protected from this very thing. The fear behind your argument is completely irrational.
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Darren R.
Report Comment 4:54pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Kimmy - Actual if you do some research you will find that there have been some bills proposed to just do that. People are claiming that if you are against prop 8 then you are showing races bias against gay and lesbians, and do you thing that they would stop at just being allowed to be married. If it was just so that they can be together, there were already people getting attorneys and having paper work done up so that they can live to gether, have power of attorney, ex. ex. ex.
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L L.
Report Comment 5:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Kimmy - I'm sorry you feel it is a fear. It was done in schools. A class was taken on a field trip to see their lesbian teachers marriage. Another school planned to celebrate coming out day without informing the parents because they were not required to. I would like to know about that.
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My perspective
Report Comment 4:59pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
LL is right @L L. - In California, children in public schools ARE forced to learn about gay "marriages" in a manner that treats them as normal and acceptable in all ways. I teach my children tolerance for all, BUT I don't want them to have this teaching crammed down their throats by the State.
huh? -8
Service for you
Report Comment 5:08pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
So @My perspective - but there are alot of things that are taught in school now a days that go against religoin. Children are going to believe in what they chose to believe in once they get older. I'm pretty sure alot of us don't belief in what we were raised to belief in. So I think that is a lame excuse and point to make in support of Prop 8
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Gooddaze
Report Comment 5:34pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@L L. - Aren't we all just putting all of the Prop 8 and the gay marriage issues into the childrens history books anyway just by having all the issues at hand? Therefore it is going to be taught in schools anyways. Wouldn't it just be easier to let the gays get married and just deal with it?
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Service for you
Report Comment 5:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
yes @Gooddaze - that is what I have been trying to say! There gonna hear it one way or another.
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Orginizdbix
4:41pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Now most of @Reba F. - California has a taste of how it is to live in Utah! This is just another case in which the mormons want to impose their values on everyone outside the faith. Do you need any more reasons to keep Mitt Romney as far away from a position of power? I chock this one up as a example of needing to keep religious extremists out of government for "the rest of the people". Thanks for the fine example of meddling in other peoples business!
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Tell Me Something New
Report Comment 4:47pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
How is @Orginizdbix - Placing our values on you any different than placing your values on us. I have friends who are gay and they know I don't agree with the way they live. And I know they don't agree with me. But we still care for each other. We still get along. They would have been disappointed in me if I didn't stand up for what I believed. I would have been disappointed in them for not standing up for what they believe. We will not agree on all points in life but the tolerance I have seen in these message boards astounds me.
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Reba F.
Report Comment 4:50pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Tell Me Something New @Tell Me Something New - But your opinion is effecting their rights. Them being married doesn't effect you at all.
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Tell Me Something New
Report Comment 4:57pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
But it does @Reba F. - It effects the views of marriage. When my child goes to school and they tell them that they can marry whom every they want. That affects me. That being said, I think that each of us could teach our children the correct morals. Just like the big bang theory. I don't believe that is what happened but they still teach it in school. I hate theory's. Anyways, if it would have passed in CA it wouldn't have been the end of the world, as some make it out to be, but I still need to defend my values, that it is wrong.
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Tell Me Something New
Report Comment 5:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Also @Tell Me Something New - adoption rights could be affected. The LDS church does adoption services and they could be sued by groups shouting discrimination.
huh? -1
Service for you
Report Comment 5:03pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Well @Tell Me Something New - isn't that your job as a parent anyway? To teach and raise them the right way you see fit? But children will turn into adults and ultimately believe what THEY believe to be right once they get older. We are all raised differently and don't have to follow those beliefs once we grow up so I don't agree with your comment at all!
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Tell Me Something New
Report Comment 5:09pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Yep @Service for you - Exactly.
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Service for you
Report Comment 5:14pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Well @Tell Me Something New - so what then if gay marriage is taught in schools, that doesn't mean every kid is gonna be gay or be influenced to be gay! YOU as a parent can teach otherwise but ultimately your child will choose to believe what they want to when they grow up
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Darren R.
Report Comment 5:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Reba F. - Reba:

What rights are being taken from them?

Every right granted under marriage can be granted under civil union, or be drawn up by an attorney.
insightful +1
Kay_M
Report Comment 10:17pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
That reeks of "separate but equal" doctrine @Darren R. - The case of Brown v. Board of Education is the landmark case that required the racial integration of public schools. It did so by declaring that "separate but equal" is in fact not equal at all because it forces one of the groups to believe that they are inferior to the other and denies them equal rights. Proponents of "separate but equal" argued that blacks were being given all the same rights, facilities, and entities as white students, but that they shouldn't enter white schools because they didn't want the two realms to mix because it was bad for society and they were not comfortable with it.

Civil unions are, in effect, the exact same thing. You are giving homosexuals the same rights, but getting so caught up in the rhetoric and separating the two realms because it makes you feel uncomfortable, that you fail to see the discrimination instated by such unions. You are declaring them inferior by means of their sexual orientation.

The Courts will see that when this gets to them. Thank goodness the framers of our Constitution set up this counter-majoritarian institution to protect people from such a blatant violation of human dignity.
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My perspective
Report Comment 5:03pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Reba F.... your dead wrong @Reba F. - It does effect how everyone lives and that is why the Mormons are not the only ones opposed to gay unions being called marriages. Mormons are in the minority, but make a good headline so they are being singled out as the instigators. They are supporters of a movement, not the movement.
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Orginizdbix
Report Comment 8:21pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
You are right! @Tell Me Something New - I should of shown the same tolerance towards the mormon church's actions that Utah state lawmakers show towards the polygamist activity in our state! I should of just turned a blind eye and pretended that nothing happened - oh wait, I don't have the motive of self service and personal gain to guide me! I guess that I had better go with the flow - the Utah flow!
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klftboller
Report Comment 4:55pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Orginizdbix - Why so anyone else can get into power? With their values? What's wrong with good value?
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tf77
Report Comment 4:57pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Kimmy @Orginizdbix - Or else maybe the predominant view of the Californians disagreed with gay marriage, which it why it passed. The same thing has passed in multiple other states as well. Just because the majority disagrees with you doesn't mean it is all the Mormons' fault.
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happy hippo
Report Comment 4:58pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
And Florida and Arizona and 28 other States! @Orginizdbix - Boy we Mormons sure are powerful and oppressive! OR maybe there is a large coalition of people around the country who do not want the meaning of marriage to change to suit the desires of a minority. A minority that in California is assured full civil liberty.
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DJC 47
Report Comment 5:05pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
44 States @happy hippo - have laws defining marriage as between a man and a woman and before this election there were 27 states and now I figure 30 states with constitutional amendments in favor of traditional marriage. This fight is about the definition of marriage and all the implications that has on society not about tolerance or lack of it.
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Luke D.
Report Comment 5:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Orginizdbix - There is no "gay" marraige. Thats the difference. Marriage is defined to be between a woman and a man. The gays and lesbians of this country are trying to "dictate" what everyone has to accept. This country is a democracy. The people of your state have spoken. Move on or move out. Their dictator-like views and tactics aren't winning them any points. Supporters of gay and lesbian rights don't look any better than the terrorists we are fighting today.
Imagine if 48% of the people in the U.S. were rioting and demanding that John McCain be put in as president "NOW"? Would you think that was right? What if they really, really wanted him to be president. Quit pouting and grow up!
huh? -2
Tim G.
Report Comment 5:04pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
huh... @Luke D. - I missed where it said the homosexuals were rioting...
funny +3
Bastian
Report Comment 5:34pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Supporters of gay and lesbian rights don't look any better than the terrorists we are fighting today. @Luke D. - Wow. God i had no idea i was a terrorist. I didn't know voicing your opinion or voting for something you believe in would make you a terrorist. Luke, is that a confederate flag on top of your car?
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Catpaw
Report Comment 5:03pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
What? @Orginizdbix - If you all remember a few years back this was voted on by Californians and they voted against same sex marriages. Unfortunately, the mayor of San Francisco and others decided they would make their own laws regardless of how the people had spoken. So, I honestly don't even understand why blame the LDS Church - the people have spoken twice now in California - let it rest already!!!
older but wiser
Report Comment 5:45pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Orgini..... @Orginizdbix - Couldn't the same thing be said about a Catholic as President (Kennedy) or, now, a black man as President. Your argument is lame, at best, and it's people like you who are afraid of what you don't know or don't understand. It's people like you who need to be kept away from positions of power. Unless of course you're in your own home.
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aria
Report Comment 5:58pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Orginizdbix - If it is so bad here move.
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Service for you
Report Comment 4:41pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I would have nothing @Reba F. - to say if it was JUST the people of California who voted on with without ANY influence from ANY church. That would be a totally different thing. But the fact that this was mainly influenced from "church" is why this law was passed. Yes the California people voted on in but with major influence from "church"
insightful +14
DJC 47
Report Comment 4:59pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Money @Service for you - More money came in from out of California to oppose this prop 8 than money that came in for it. Every state in the union had money sent to Calif to oppose it. Check it out. I read this in California newspapers and on a Los Angeles tv ABC website.
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My perspective
Report Comment 5:08pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Where are these so called FACTS coming from. @DJC 47 - They are just opinions regarding funding and support until someone is willing to submit facts. The emotions of a picket line shouldn't be misinterpreted as a fact.
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Sambecks C.
Report Comment 4:42pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Marriage is reverved to be a man and a woman. @Reba F. - This was voted upon. Now please let it go. We are sick of this sick agenda being flaunted in our face like a putrified dirty diaper. Just PLEASE let it go!!!
huh? -9
Service for you
Report Comment 4:44pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Oh sam @Sambecks C. - smell many dirty diapers in your day have you?
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Rich C.
Report Comment 4:51pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Just PLEASE @Sambecks C. - Give Sam a hug...so much anger can't be healthy
funny +4
PurplePuddleNut
Report Comment 5:08pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I'll give Sam a hug @Rich C. - But I might get my gay germs all over him.
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Panda
Report Comment 4:55pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
sambecks @Sambecks C. - Come on....

Who does it really harm if two people with the same sex organ wed?
In the past there were things reserved for only white, or only men. As we evolved or grew... women fought for their rights... blacks fought for their rights. Now Gays are fighting for theirs.
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Panda
Report Comment 5:12pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
not only that... @Panda - It was a hard long fight for women... and...... blacks.... rights. Women don't have the right to vote... to own property... to choose a husband.... to whatever... that is reserved for the man.... Blacks don't have the right to vote.... be free.... go into a white mans store.... go to a white child's school....

Back then it was absurd to even think about giving them their rights.... I hear some of the same arguments about gays having their rights... the same bull hucky.

Why is it reserved??? Because a man decades ago said so and wrote it down somewhere??? Because people fear it will corrupt others???

NO matter what the vote is or was.... Homosexuality will be around for all of time. Get used to it. Give them at least.... the rights to insurance of their partner... rights to property... I think it is so so wrong to deny them that.
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My perspective
Report Comment 5:16pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Panda, panda, panda @Panda - Marriage can't legitimately be compared as you have. If they want a marriage...it's a man and woman thing. If they want a union... have at it.
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Some Dude
Report Comment 4:42pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
It starts with homosexuals... @Reba F. - ...then the sexual perversion will continue. Why not let a man marry his sister or even his daughter if they both claim to be in love with each other?

The world is growing more and more evil by the day.
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Reba F.
4:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Your stupid... @Some Dude - That argument is absurd and you know it.
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Some Dude
Report Comment 4:47pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
it's only as absurd as gay marriage @Reba F. - And why is that exactly? Because it isn't mainstream? Well guess what, neither was homosexuality 10-15 years ago.

Incest is real and I'm using that example to make my point. The advocates of pro gay-marriage stand on the basis that two loving adults joining in marriage in no way effect the rest of society. So why not cousins? Why not siblings?
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Hyperion
Report Comment 4:50pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Some Dude - Why not polygamy?
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Reba F.
Report Comment 4:53pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I say legalize polygamy @Hyperion - If consenting adults would like to be married to many people; I say go for it.

However, you can't take any of our taxes to do it and everyone must be 18 or older.
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Hyperion
Report Comment 5:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Re: I say legalize polygamy @Reba F. - If consenting adult homosexuals would like to have a civil union; I say go for it.

However, you can't take any of our taxes to do it and everyone must be 18 or older.

"Marriage" would grant a status that takes taxes.
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kitti1982
Report Comment 8:03pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Hyperion - Polygamy wasn't and still isn't a popular view on marriage, but LDS doctrine believes it to be a higher law from God and ordained by Him. Now, I am not saying that homosexual marriage is a higher law of God-what I am suggesting is that everybody, ESPECIALLY THE LDS FAITHFUL, take a good long moment to pause and reflect on the pain, death and suffering that that bloomed like a black rose because of hatred and segregation toward those who simply wanted to practice what they believed in and felt to be true. Many of your ancestors were among those to suffer and die as they were forced to leave their homes and move westward, often with nothing more than the clothes on their backs and what they could mange to push and pull with them in a rackety handcart.
While the LDS Church should not alter their religious views and doctrine because of a changing of the political current or public opinion, they should maintain the passive role that they have embraced with nearly every other political stand. The teachings of Joseph Smith, the first Prophet of the LDS Church, taught, “Teach people correct principles and let them govern themselves”.
Seriously let there be peace and happiness for all people--
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chopperdude
Report Comment 4:48pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Reba F. - Actually Reba, you are stupid. You're just upset because you have to cancel your trip to California because the new Amendment was passed.
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Hyperion
Report Comment 4:49pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Re: Your (sic) stupid... @Reba F. - How is the argument absurd? It's a valid point. Where do you draw the line?
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For Timmy
Report Comment 5:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
No @Reba F. - You are Stupid Reba... Keep your ugly life style out of my face.
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Tim G.
Report Comment 5:06pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
that... @For Timmy - was a very adult thing to say. I'm glad to finally see a little maturity on these forums, its very refreshing...
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Panda
Report Comment 5:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Some Dude - some dude....

Homosexuality has been around decades... if someone else wants to marry his sister or daughter for the claim of love.... It is on their own behalf.... Not the behalf of homosexuals.

In reading your comment, I believe you are more evil than you claim the world to be growing. By that I mean... It is far more evil to deny gays their rights as human beings, citizens of our nation.
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chopperdude
Report Comment 4:45pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I'm not confused at all. @Reba F. - Gay marraige affects society, not anyone in particular but all as a whole. Hopefully that may help to clear up your confusion.
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Reba F.
Report Comment 4:48pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
It affects society... @chopperdude - How does it negatively effect society? I see equality as a good thing and think that everyone has a right to be married. But hey I guess my opinion doesn't matter since California has spoken.

Give it awhile, we will win, and everyone will have the right to be married. I will guarantee it!
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tf77
Report Comment 5:05pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Everyone already has the right to be married @Reba F. - Every person in California, and in the country for that matter, has the identical right to marry. That is, to a person of legal age, with no blood relation, who is of the opposite sex. Period. The right is identical, and all people have it. There is no discrimination there.

And so you're saying that my opinion on who should be president doesn't matter since the guy I voted for lost? That's part of democracy -- we vote, the majority rules, and we try to live together as a united nation in spite of our differences.
SoJoBoy
Report Comment 10:10pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
"How does it negatively effect society?" @Reba F. - How many times are you going to ask that before you finally read one of the myriad of answers that have been given. Talk about closed minded. Sheeeez!
ditto +6
DJC 47
Report Comment 4:49pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Confused? @Reba F. - Don't be. This is a much bigger issue. California already has the strongest civil union laws on the books and this would not have changed that. However our fight is for the family and the children. The definition of marriage affects what must be taught in schools and what religious organizations can and can't do. In Massachusetts where gay marriage has been legalized the Catholic church was told they had to allow gay couples to adopt through Catholic adoption agencies. The Catholic church chose to close their doors instead of compromising their beliefs. Same thing could happen with private church owned schools which may be forced to provide married student housing for gay couples as well as straight. For more complete info go to LDS.org and check out the news section. There are many videos and articles explaining the impact this legislation would have on society. It is NOT about intolerance or bigotry as some would have us believe. It is much broader in scope.
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Darren R.
Report Comment 4:50pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
some more infor for you @Reba F. - You want some facts. here you go. and I am not tying them into the LDS church exclusive.

First if it would not of past, then the next thing would be that they would be required to teach in schools that same sex marriage is fine.

Second, any one that teach, or believed that marriage is between a man and a woman would be said that they are being raciest (I know that not the right word but I can not think of the exact one, basically they hate same sex couples) This would go for all religious origination, and if they are proven to teach against this then they could and would lose there protections as a church.

Finally, marriage does not give same sex couples any additional items under the law that they can not get them self by going to a loyer and writing up stuff like a living will, power of attorney ex.
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My perspective
Report Comment 4:56pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Marriage is a sacred institution @Reba F. - Marriage is a sacred institution and many religious organizations, Christian and not, support the sanctity of marriage. It DOES effect the whole country because if one or more states allow it, it will be forced upon other states as well. I agree that religious organizations voice their opion on religious issues. If they don't, they don't have much of a conviction at all. I also agree with the Mormon church's stance that they are NOT,and I repeat, NOT opposed to gay and lesbian couples having rights. They ARE opposed to calling those unions "marriages" because they are not marriages.
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XR400
Report Comment 4:57pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Reba F....... Its not natural, think about it,,,,,, @Reba F. - We should marry Zebras i guess then....... Marriage is between man and woman, not homo and homo...
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Panda
Report Comment 5:03pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@XR400 - People on here complain about them attacking the Church for giving input.

well.....

Keep religious beliefs out of state issues.
ditto +3
aria
Report Comment 6:04pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Panda - How? If you have religious beliefs of course that is going to effect your opinions, as much as not having gthem does.
ditto +2
Wake-up-and-smell-the-coffee
Report Comment 5:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
My question is... @Reba F. - who is "she" going to blame for passage of the same propositions in Arizona and Florida?

Did the citizens of those states have the imposition of influence from "out of state churches" or did the majority of their citizens simply not like the idea of gay marriage (as seems to have also been the case in California).

Is it that "she" doesn't like the outside influence of a church, or would she have been happier if those opposed had been paid lobbists?

Personally, I don't care if gay couples want to get married, and I think the LDS Church was only inviting trouble by sending members from Utah to California. After all, they have LDS Churches all over the state of California, and their local members could have just as easily handled the opposition, but in the end, it was the citizens of Arizona, California and Florida who VOTED to make gay marriage illegal, and not the LDS Church or anyone else from outside of those states.
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Jani S.
Report Comment 5:20pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
actually @Wake-up-and-smell-the-coffee - the only Utah mormons that went to CA were a couple of the general authorities that were meeting with the coalition organizers. There was, briefly, a request of LDS people (and other religions) outside CA to be willing to make phone calls, at the request of the coalition organizers. The LDS church did not use these out of state phone call people - they decided that this issue was best left to the LDS people in CA to be politically active in, and they removed their request of non-CA mormons to make phone calls.

This remained an issue for CA residents to work on.
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nikkirocksleo
Report Comment 5:07pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Iam ashamed to live in utah right now! I agree with you reba @Reba F. - I cannot belive we as people think its ok for any church to be involved in this matter! the gov. shouldnt even be involved with peoples private lves. let people b people & stop judging.
ditto +4
angieo
Report Comment 5:49pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
nikkirocksleo @nikkirocksleo - Move to California. PLEASE!
funny +1
nikkirocksleo
Report Comment 6:18pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
angieo @angieo - is that all the input you have in this convo.? well Im sorry to see another close minded, let me guess.... mormon? I would love to get away from people like you but youll always remain close minded & disrespectful to others. sad sad sad
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SoJoBoy
Report Comment 9:51pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Let me apologize for angieo.... @nikkirocksleo - Wait until your old enough to drive first and then move to California. For now, learn how to type rather than text message.
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sharpelectronics
Report Comment 5:15pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Confusion @Reba F. - Reba, The LDS Church, and many other churches views marriage between a man and woman as a fundamental foundation of our society. If that foundation is allowed to crumble, it will have negative effects on our entire country as a whole. One example of how dangers homosexuality is, if the whole world practiced it the human race would be wiped out in one generation. The only reason that this is an issue that that a handful of liberal judges overruled the will of the people (as evident on their vote on Prop 22). I find it encouraging that religious people all over California, Arizona and Florida were willing to stand up to criticism and fight for what they thought was right.
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Gooddaze
Report Comment 5:47pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
So.... @sharpelectronics - Everyone is gay? That is what I got from your input there. Not everyone is gay. Therefore, how can the entire human race be wiped out? HMMMM?
SoJoBoy
Report Comment 9:56pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Not to mention.... @sharpelectronics - in a few generations we will have a whole lot of confused plumbers wondering why the two male fittings won't go together. ;-) Sorry, just couldn't help myself.
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Mindy L.
Report Comment 5:17pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
We all live in the same country @Reba F. - I think that the church had every right to get involved since they live in the same counry.
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Cslice
Report Comment 5:18pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Have you even read the proposition?? @Reba F. - How do you mean it wouldnt affect the members of the church?? Read it and get back to me...
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WADEBROWN
Report Comment 5:46pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Marriage Outside their faith? Why care? @Reba F. - Of course the Mormon Church would and should always oppose the manufacture of new rights that aim to disolve one of the key foundations of civilization! Proponents of these made up and revolutionary rights have every right to protest too.
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raeshine77
Report Comment 6:23pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I was confused at first too... @Reba F. - I consider myself devout LDS, but I was confused at why the church cared or was involved in this campaign for Prop 8. I do not personally believe in homosexual behavior, but figured people can live their lives as they choose, and as long as they weren't infringing on my rights, they why would I infringe on theirs. Then after studying the issue more deeply, I began to learn of the legal consequences of gay marriage.

If marriage is NOT defined as only between a man and woman, the effects reach beyond those in the gay community. For example, in Boston, MA (where gay marriages are now legal,) the Catholic Charities have closed their doors because the state has required them to allow adoptions to same sex couples, and they refused. They are a large and worthwhile charity with great power in the state and they were overruled. A Methodist church has lost their tax exempt status because the minister refused to perform a marriage of a same sex couple (they were not of his congregation). A physician who refused to do fertility treatments on a same sex couple because of religious reasons was sued, lost and the state is requiring him to treat everyone as equals. Our schools will be required to teach, starting in kindergarten, that marriages make up many different combinations. Parents can not opt out of these lessons if they have different moral beliefs.

Directly tied into ALL of this is our right to continue to go to the Temple. If Gay Marriage is supported by the government, then those who are same-sex married, who are 'LDS' and legally recognized as married by the government, can sue to be married in the temple. II seriously doubt the church will bend on this issue, and our rights to go to the temple will be in jeopardy. AND goodbye to those religious tax-deductions. Tithing, fast offerings, etc. We will lose our tax-exemption status if the government legally forces the church to support same-sex marriage.'

So obviously I changed my opinion on the matter. I don't feel any hate or animosity towards those in the gay community and I believe they should have the rights granted to them by civil unions. But once their rights start to infringe on mine, things change entirely.
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Brett C
Report Comment 7:03pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
All I can think is.... @Reba F. - Because they think that if gay people get married then the church itself will have to accept gay people. That's the only argument I have heard here on KSL.

I don't know about you but it kind of makes me rethink the whole issue with black people and the LDS priesthood.
SoJoBoy
Report Comment 10:04pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I can't believe @Brett C - that you are still using that weak comparison of race and sexual preference. Apples and Oranges.
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AwakeAndAriseOrg
Report Comment 7:22pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Still Confused? It's about the 1st Amendment, Keeping Judges from "Making Law" upon Religion, or "the free exercise... @Reba F. - William Tyndale was burned alive in the 1600's for printing the English Bible. This was the "tolerance" for religion in England that pushed boatload after boatload of Englishman to the Eastern Seaboard of the United States, seeking freedom.

Jefferson swore eternal hostility toward any form of tyranny upon the mind of man.

Religious Liberty was of the highest order and concern to these colonists, and the very first of their spelled out "Bill of Rights" reads:

"Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

So, the First Amendment was to keep the damned hand of government tyranny off of religion, for "Congress shall make no law" concerning religion, and neither shall the damned Soviet Courts in the United States today. Prop 8 was not "anti-gay" measure, but a 1st Amendment measure to protect religion from the wicked courts who are hostile and seek an inroad as slaughtering the First Amendment. Judges the ilk of Governor Lilburn W. Boggs of Missouri are ready and anxious to criminalize religion if they can do so.

An example of these most wicked courts. Recently, the Soviet US District Court in San Francisco ruled that "parental rights are severed" when a child crosses the threshold of the school. Where did this Stalin/Mao/Hitlarian ruling come from? Straight from a tyrannical hell, a US Court that is as un-American as anything you hear of today. People 30 years ago would have laughed you to scorn if you would have predicted a court ruling could take place in America that followed the Marxist ideology of the USSR. But, here we are. Such Soviet rulings have been made and will continue to be made. That ruling enforced a plank of the Communist Manifesto.

Respecting religion and the "free exercise thereof" churches absolutely have to defend against these damned, wicked courts who now "make law" which the 1st Amendment prohibits Congress from doing.

I hope, in a nutshell, this explains the real issue. What a damned lie to say this is "hate filled" by churches. Churches did not start this battle, but they shall be destroyed if they don't stand up and defend the 1st Amendment. It is their defense against hate filled judges who will begin criminalizing churches as soon as they can get an inroad to do so. Marriage as defined as a "man and a woman" is a buffer against such tyranny upon the 1st Amendment. Gay people can have every right and do so under the law. The only difference is their "domestic unions" are not given the legal definition to be a "marriage" which protects churches from a ruthless tyrannical government hell bent upon legislating it into oblivion by the Secularist High Priests of the State Religion of Secularism---the Judges.

Mormon's, more than any other people on earth today, perhaps, ought to know what governments can do, for in the 19th Century, the US Federal government sought to "destroy the LDS Church as an institution" as Gordon B. Hinckley expressed a while back. It is true, murder of leadership, their imprisonment, lootings, robbings, plunder, seizure of assets, burning of temples, shutting down of temples, "extermination orders," it's all been had before, and is prophesied to transpire again. We're fools to let it come about easily by not seeking to ensure the 1st Amendment is of force, keeping judges damned hands from "making law" against religion and "the free exercise thereof."
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A Voice of Reason
Report Comment 7:23pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Maybe we should let them marry @Reba F. - Just a thought. Marriage is about making a commitment of fidelity to your partner so if all homosexuals will make a commitment to a same sex partner they will never reproduce which will eventually allow natural selection to take its course. This is especially effective if their argument that sexual preference is a genetic trait holds true.

If this is a civil rights issue then everyone should have equal rights to marriage including homosexuals, polygamists, animal lovers, etc.

Until death when you will part... Adam and Bruce
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kitti1982
Report Comment 8:38pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@A Voice of Reason - get over the "animal lovers" comment...first off it's old and secondly animals are cuter and probably better lovers to their partners than you'll ever be....stop being such haters!
Bryce R.
Report Comment 7:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
confused @Reba F. - The church care because this proposition affects many of the programs that the church sponsors.
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xrpstiltsrcr
Report Comment 7:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Reba F. - Because if they can be legally married, and say, want to be married by an LDS bishop, the church can be sued for not marrying them. It does affect us. My uncle would probably be one of the gay people, requesting to be married by an LDS official.
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AwakeAndAriseOrg
Report Comment 7:41pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
And, by the way, Thank Goodness their picking on the LDS. Prophets say it does us good. @Reba F. - Also, the Latter-day saints are not hurt by persecution. It is a great blessing for them, and they'll have plenty of it. Recent Church President Gordon B. Hinckley stated at the beginning of this decade:

"....The battle with the evil one will go on and on and on. It will rise against this Church. It will rise against you individually. It will be felt in the future as it has been felt in the past." (Gordon B. Hinckley, Church News, Jan. 29, 2000. p.5.)

We can too remember that Ezra Taft Benson in his landmark "Cleansing the Inner Vessel" talk told us:

"As a people, it seems we can survive persecution easier and better than we can peace and prosperity." (Ezra Taft Benson, “Cleansing the Inner Vessel,” Ensign, May 1986, 4)

Brigham Young counseled against fearing persecution:

“You that have not passed thro’ the trials and persecutions, and drivings with this people from the beginning, but have only read them, or heard some of them related, may think how awful they were to endure, and wonder that the saints survived them at all.—The thought of it makes your heart sink within you, your brain reel, and your body tremble, and you are ready to exclaim, ‘I could not have endured it.’ I have been in the heat of it, and never felt better in all my life; I never felt the peace and power of the Almighty more copiously poured upon me than in the keenest part of our trials. They appeared nothing to me” (Deseret News Weekly, 24 Aug. 1854, 83). (L. Aldin Porter, “‘But We Heeded Them Not’,” Ensign, Aug 1998, 6)



Gordon B. Hinckley told us we did not need to fear persecution. In a 2007 address at BYU, Elder Tingey shared:

"Speaking of persecution, President Gordon B. Hinckley recently counseled General Authorities to not worry about being persecuted. He noted that it has been going on since the War in Heaven. He further counseled us that the Church is in good condition and that we should just work harder to move the work forward. He concluded by saying that he would worry more about us if people did not speak evil of us. This is good counsel from a prophet." (Earl C. Tingey, "The Watchman on the Tower," BYU devotional address, 5 June 2007.)



Now, militant homosexuals will target the church. They've already shown vandalism, vulgarity, thievery in this campaign, over 20 signs from my own yard stolen or destroyed, and this from the "diversity of opinion for everyone crowd" and the "freedom of speech for all" professing group. Such are the most intolerant to be had. They scream of suffering intolerance, and show their hypocrisy to the fullest extent in how they treat those who don't side with their pint of view. It's amazing how they reveal themselves so beautifully. They are like the anti-Christs of the Book of Mormon who will not tolerate others to "judge" them, for "there is not sin," and "there is no God." I think of Nehor who loving "freedom of speech" beat the elderly Gideon to death with a sword for speaking his mind. Those after his order (the ORder of Nehor's) with their secular religion, burned thousands of "believers" alive, along with their scriptures. Yes, these were "tolerant" people, demanding always that they be "tolerated" but never would they "live and let live."
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Martin H.
Report Comment 7:52pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Once again @Reba F. - we see that those who claim to be the most open minded people, are very narrow minded when you dissagree with them. The majority has spoken, democracy has prevailed.
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iamthepink
Report Comment 8:02pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
It does... @Reba F. - If you want to be enlightened ask one of them and maybe not here for your answer.
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M P.
Report Comment 9:07pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Confused? @Reba F. - LDS Church, Catholic church, or any other churches who campaigned,either for prop8 or obama. The point is we campaigned for what we beleive is good for our family, state and our nation.

Should I blame Obama's campaign manager because McCAin didn't win? Should I protest on Oprahs show for campaining for Obama?

As a matter of fact majority voted. Obama won, I accept it and I respect it. Why can't you respect peoples vote for Prop8? They voted using their free will not a dictate from the LDS president. I am not an LDS. I know it is hard that you canot marry but we have to accept it, as it is hard for me think that Obama supports abortion.
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chivstirrir
Report Comment 9:10pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Reba F. - they care because they cant use mind controll on gay people nor non members
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peterson_587
Report Comment 9:50pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Reba F. - If this did pass, it may affect our tax exempt status, along with every other non homo allowing church. Plus the prophet has spoken, none more needed. Bring it on california.
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Kay_M
Report Comment 9:59pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Disappointed with the hate that is being spread @Reba F. - I too am very sorry to see Proposition 8 pass. I believe that the echoes of this event are going to be for my generation, the equivalent of what the Civil Rights Movement was for the generations of the 60's and 70's. I am standing out against this because I do not want to look back in 30 years and feel that I was influenced by group-think and acted as a bigot.

I am a 20-year-old female member of the LDS faith, and I am saddened by the fact that I have to be associated with such hate, intolerance, and scare tactics.

Allowing homosexuals the right to marry will not in anyway invalidate or demean marriage among man and a woman. It will also have many more positive ramifications than most people will care to see such as promoting monogamy and helping to get underprivileged children out of the foster care systems, as gays tend to adopt more children from foster care than straight couples do, and I see no reason to believe love from two parents of the same gender is worse than no love at all. We live in an imperfect world, and these children do not often have the opportunity to be raised by two parents of opposite gender. As for the argument that gay couples can only raise gay children, to this I would respond that straight couples always raise straight children and there is no reason to make such accusations.

I see this movement as an intrinsic violation of human dignity and equal rights. I refuse to participate in such degradation. I hope that we will see progress come and will one day live in a nation where people will not be forced to partake in second class citizenship based upon sexual orientation. I see no reason to feel that my marriage to a male will be threatened by this movement and hope others will realize this too.
SoJoBoy
Report Comment 6:37am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Kay.... @Kay_M - ... I am seriously wondering why you continue to call this hateful. Can you seriously point to one General Authority that has issued one "hateful" statement? Can you point to one church publication that has written something hateful? Even on this board can you find someone who is obviously LDS that has said something hateful. Granted there have been some terms used here that make me cringe, but there are many people who have tried to explain in a very thoughtful way their own position and that of the church. Try seriously reading some and point out the hate.
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Wildman_001
Report Comment 10:57pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
It's like... @Reba F. - When there was a big deal that someones daughter wanted to join the Boy Scouts. Even though they weren't a boy. Because it is "discrimination" that a girl could'nt be a "Boy" scout. Guess what - Life Happens. Now that that's out of the way. I may not support same-sex "Marraiges", but I do support legislation that allows any person to cover any other person on issues like health care... Although, I am still not sure how I feel about adoption or foster care. Kids are confused as it is and we make it more dificult because of our "lifestyles".
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Robyn P.
Report Comment 11:22pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Let me explain... @Reba F. - The lds church doesn't care what happens outside of there faith. They just state that the lds church believes a marriage is defined between a MAN and a WOMAN. They also tell there members to support this...so when a vote comes up to ask if they want to make same sex marriage ok, of course they are going to say no. They urge all members to vote in every election and since this was a voting issue the members voted. It's not a hate crime. Members are not out there day after day after day protesting that this is wrong. The issue came up in a vote, the members voted and then they where done. The members don't stand out side sacred places and yell hurtful things. But most people aren't respectful enough to realize that yelling in front of sacred establishments is ok.
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mkelley_Acs
Report Comment 11:23pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
for all of you supporters of prop 8 @Reba F. - you are all safe here debating on your own turf, let me just say it is the ones who appose you in this forum that should be applauded for stepping out of their comfort zone to confront you, think about taking your beliefs to uneven ground and maybe you'll stand strong or maybe sit silent when there aren't so many to back you. just a little personal challenge for those who feel so comfortable voicing their opinion only in the presence of their own masses. as controlled ones only move with the masses that they are spawned in and rarely have the courage to stand as an individual.
follow the leader and you will be safe ......right
if it makes you sleep better at night
El Viejo
Report Comment 11:37pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Confused? @Reba F. - "marraige"
"thier"
"effect"
You're more than confused, you're functionally illiterate. For anyone on either side of the debate to state that the issue doesn't affect (Reba-see the difference between "effect" and "affect"?)every one of us and our families is to bury our head in the sand. By the way, it was a ballot issue and the majority voted in favor of the proposition. That represents a nice confirmation that in a democratic republic, the majority rules. I didn't see any McCain supporters demonstrating in front of the nation's capital against Obama's election victory, nor did I see anyone on the news attributing his victory to wealthy donors. Yet front and center in Los Angeles, we have a woman stating that the proposition passed because the "Mormons" pumped money into the issue, not because the majority spoke. Bizarre, but unfortunately typical. I also didn't see the demonstrators carrying signs protesting any of the other organizations that supported the proposition. Were there other demonstrations?
Glen B.
Report Comment 11:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Still Confused? No Need to Be @Reba F. - Churches care about moral issues and religious institutions. That's the answer. Marriage is first and foremost a religious institution, established by the Creator himself. Long after the Creator instituted marriage between man and woman, the state became involved.

My church and any other church has the right and obligation to speak on any issue that it believes affects the moral fabric of the society in which it dwells. And, do governments legislate on the basis of morals? Certainly they do. What are the bases of laws against environmental contamination, assault, trespass, larceny, robbery, making false statements, driving under the influence, domestic violence and so forth and so on? All of those laws have a basis in morals and virtue.

Finally, I see accusations of hatred against my church. The real hatred, however, that I see is in the photos of the protesters. Their "mormons [removed]" sign is full of hate.
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Ryan H.
Report Comment 12:30am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
For real @Reba F. - Why should the LDS cult care
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Ryan H.
Report Comment 12:34am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Lets Look @Reba F. - I will look in my trusty hat here and.... oh golly gee lets see. oh my here it comes.... nothing there is nothing in the hat. the only thing i say was that i was crazy for looking in my hat for the truth.
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swimgurl_08
Report Comment 7:15am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Reba F. - I don't understand why people think that the reason proposition 8 passed was because of the LDS church. The population in California is HUGE and if they really want to think that more than half of that population is LDS well then....they are very wrong.
They are just mad it passed and just trying to put the blame on someone. I really am glad the LDS church stood up for what they believe. I believe it too! Marriage is to be between a man and a woman. That is how God stated it, that is how it shall stay.
Sure homosexuals can be together, whatever, but they don't deserve the rights of being married.
If we allow same sex relationships to be married, well then lets just pass a law where we can marry animals too. It's as ridiculous as it sounds.
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dragonswife
Report Comment 7:26am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Reba @Reba F. - People do care, they do not want the definition of marriage changed. Marriage is a union ordained by God and state and is between two people, a man and a woman. Parts fit... We don't want marriage defined as a union between two men or two women or whatever...Parts that don't fit... Troll away. But, the people of California HAVE spoken. And no, I am not in California...
j_d
Report Comment 7:30am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
but it does @Reba F. - check out this link
http://link.brightcove.com/services/player/bcpid1815825713
lauralee3
Report Comment 12:44pm - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
@Reba F. - Actually, it would affect the LDS church. For one thing, for those that get married in the temple. The temple is very sacred to us and if the law was passed, people of the LDS faith would have to get married civilly before they could get married in the temple. Now, people might say so what, but it is something very important to us to marry inside the temple. California is like a trend setter. I believe that people have their choices but if it affects my religion and what I believe in, then I can't help but fight for it just like everyone else fights for what they want and believe in.

I'm not sure if you were really asking, but I hope that clarifies a little.
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Sambecks C.
Report Comment 4:35pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Homosexuals - The people have voted Now let it go!
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Reba F.
Report Comment 4:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Tell me how it effects you? @Sambecks C. - Tell me how your marriage is compromised by gay marriage? They can't be married in the temple, probably not at all in your religion. How does it effect you?
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4:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
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Reba F.
Report Comment 4:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
You can't answer my question? @Sambecks C. - That is not my question. How does it effect you in your daily life?
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Sambecks C.
Report Comment 4:48pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
IT OFFENDS ME!!!! OKAY???? @Reba F. - YES!!! IT OFFENDS ME!!! IT OFFENDS GOD!!! NOW JUST LET IT GO!!! GEEZ!!! YES I AM YELLING!!!!

[Please don't shout with ALL CAPS.]
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Euclid
4:49pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Sambecks C. - Why does it offend you? Did God come down and tell you it offends him?
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Tell Me Something New
Report Comment 5:08pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
In the opinion of the Religious @Euclid - Then yes, God did tell men that. IT is in the bible. It is the foundation of Morals on this earth. So telling people that it shouldn't offend them when it is part of the core of their lives is like telling you to start being offended by gays.
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don't be a weiner
Report Comment 6:13pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Dear Euclid God did teach against it!! (homosexuality)Old & New Testament @Euclid - I know you won't beleive it but if you are a christian and check your scriptures, in the New Testament in Galations chapter 5 verses 19-21

19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, FORNICATION, uncleanness, lasciviousness,

20 Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies,

21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and SUCH LIKE: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

Fornicton by Definition:

"In Biblical usage, 'fornication' can mean any sexual congress outside monogamous marriage. It thus includes not only premarital sex, but also adultery, homosexual acts, incest, remarriage after un-Biblical divorce, and sexual acts with animals, all of which are explicitly forbidden in the law as given through Moses (Leviticus 20:10-21).

"pornea" Latin for Fornication
According to Christs Freedmen, now includes "premarital sex, orgies, fetishes, anything to do with pornography, 'improper' thoughts about the opposite sex, homosexuality, and just about any other sexual sin you could think of."


Also in The Old Testament Leviticus 20:10-15
the sins of the flesh are stated plainly

READ VERSE 13 GAY PEOPLE


10 ¶ And the man that committeth adultery with another man’s wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour’s wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.

11 And the man that lieth with his father’s wife hath uncovered his father’s nakedness: both of them shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.

12 And if a man lie with his daughter in law, both of them shall surely be put to death: they have wrought confusion; their blood shall be upon them.

13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
(Well that's pretty clear on that topic, right)

14 And if a man take a wife and her mother, it is wickedness: they shall be burnt with fire, both he and they; that there be no wickedness among you.

15 And if a man lie with a beast, he shall surely be put to death: and ye shall slay the beast.



All scripture references from the King James Version of The Bible.
Generally accepted to Christians everywhere as
The Word of God (ENOUGH SAID)
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Charlie184
Report Comment 7:48pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Read the Bible, Euclid... @Euclid - As I've already said, I defy you--or anyone--to show me a Biblical passage that defines marriage as other than between males and females (by the way, polygamy is okayed by God when He permits it; it's right there in the Old Testament). You can't do it, can you? I'm sticking with God. You can fend for yourself.
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SoJoBoy
Report Comment 10:22pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I don't think this view... @Charlie184 - ...is exclusively Biblical. I am certainly no expert, but I cannot think of any form of religion that condones it. Well maybe that guy with the pyramid that mummifies cats and such.
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Tim G.
Report Comment 4:50pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
calm yourself fella... @Sambecks C. - seems more like an irrational fear than a reasonable distaste...
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Reba F.
Report Comment 4:52pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Sambecks C @Sambecks C. - I think you got some anger; you may want to get that looked at :)
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Service for you
Report Comment 4:59pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Geez @Sambecks C. - lol I didn't know adults still used that word

"Geez"
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Mojojackson
Report Comment 5:04pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Sambecks... @Sambecks C. - Sam I'm sorry it offends you. However it offends me that kids as young as 8 and 9 years old have commited SUICIDE because they were afraid they were gay, that they had heard their parents say that being gay is "sick" "evil" "wrong' and "wicked". What will you do, and what will the rest of you do when your child comes home and says "mom, I am gay". How will you take back all the painful hurtful things you've said? You can't unring the bell Sambecks, and the rest of you. Please please please be tolerant of everyone.
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Tim G.
Report Comment 5:11pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
didn't you hear? @Mojojackson - they can cure Gay now. Yep, just a trip to Camp Scare the Gay Outtaya will turn em straight as an arrow. Of course relapses are common, most often after 5 years of marriage and 2 kids, but as long as that marriage is to someone of the opposite sex and you still attend church every week you're in the clear!
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Sambecks C.
Report Comment 5:13pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Kids commit suicide because they go against the conscience and it causes them pain. @Mojojackson - Like I said before, if two men want to go bum-jug in the closet, I realy don't want to know about it. My problem is when this agenda gets pushed into our faces telling us we have to "accept" this sick lifestyle. That is where the problem is.
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Tim G.
Report Comment 5:17pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
right... @Sambecks C. - it has nothing to do with them feeling disowned by their family over something they have no control over, it couldn't be that...
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honest777
Report Comment 6:01pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Having Gay Feelings is NOT necessarily evil or wicked @Mojojackson - Having gay thoughts pop into your head is not evil. Everyone has thoughts (not necessarily gay) pop into their heads. Letting the thoughts grow and turn into actions which deprive you of a traditional family will deprive you of the joy that comes from raising your own children with a mom AND a dad.

A man may have thoughts that he wants to sleep with every girl that he sees. Having that "tendency" or thought pop into his head is not wrong, but letting that thought grow, or "living it out" would be wrong. This life is about which thoughts you choose to act on. Self control. The gay community puts out lies like "you can't deny who you are." But the truth is everyone must deny themselves from carrying out any wrong thoughts like stealing something they might like to have, hitting someone that makes them mad, or having a homosexual lifestyle.
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Panda
Report Comment 5:15pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
well @Sambecks C. - Sam Tell your god not to be so evil.

HOW UNGODLY IS THAT.

God is a loving and accepting being.
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Tammy W.
Report Comment 11:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
hate @Sambecks C. - and discrimination is what offends God. It's too bad that people for centuries have used God to promote hate and violence instead of what God is really about - LOVE.
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Jani S.
Report Comment 5:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
consider it from their point of view @Reba F. - You miss the point entirely. The LDS church was very plain about what it considered the problem with legalized gay "marriage." They weren't talking about daily living, they were talking about defense of what they consider a divine institution (you are allowed to disagree with that, but try to look at it from their perspective as to why this is such a big issue for them). They affirm the rights of gay couples to have all the basic civil rights everyone else does in committed relationships - it is in their official statement if you want to verify that point. The LDS church has not fought any legislation that allows for domestic partnership benefits, including the laws passed in the Salt Lake City government that grant these rights.

The concern comes from the legal standard being set - if, legally, all marriages between adults are sanctioned by law, it has the POTENTIAL to adversly affect the constitutional rights of churches to continue their social services programs, their congregational requirements, their preaching practices - could missionaries or pastors potentially be sued for preaching against homosexual marriage? Yes. This is a big issue for every church out there - not many could handle the financial burden of repeated discrimination lawsuits, that they shouldn't have to defend, because freedom of religion should be protected as a basic right. But if marriage is not legally defined, it leaves a great many loopholes for certain fringe advocate groups to squirm through and prosecute religions, just because they could do it.

So, in response to daily life, what would happen if your church was forced to close because it was facing a class action lawsuit that it couldn't defend itself from? You think that would affect someone's daily life. You bet.

I won't even get into the parental rights issue. I think everyone is aware of that.
SoJoBoy
Report Comment 6:25am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
Very well put Jani..... @Jani S. - The sad thing is I highly doubt that Reba will read it and will, multiple times ask the question again.
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Roger B.
Report Comment 4:50pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Let me explain... @Reba F. - There are many, many, many people who believe that as society continues to walk away from traditional moral values, the country as a whole is going downhill. This is true in terms of violence, crime, corruption, and much more.

Does two gays marrying in California affect me and my wife? No, probably not. However, allowing the traditional value of marriage to be changed and twisted would be just another step in the wrong direction for our country. Also, gay marriage is one step. What's the next? You and I both know there will be another.

I support civil unions that allow homosexual couples to enjoy the rights of partnership under the law, but marriage is sacred - for me and many others. It is a step I am not willing to accept.

I know there will be those to pick apart my reasoning and opinion. Go ahead! I enjoy a good, reasoned debate, even if I don't agree with everything said.
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Darren R.
Report Comment 4:57pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Roger B. - Roger, I just want to say I could not of said it better.
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Kristin G.
Report Comment 4:58pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Reba F. - Edmund Burke stated, "All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." I think this pretty much sums up why Prop 8 passed in California...enough people recognized how morally detrimental this would be and they refused to just sit by and watch it happen. Same-sex couples are still able to form domestic partnerships and enjoy the many rights that this legal definition affords them. They just can't call their relationship a "marriage." The citizens of California decided that traditional marriage, as it has existed for centuries, should remain between a man and a woman.
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Fred charles rayovac
Report Comment 8:10pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Wow! @Kristin G. - You define denying gays the right to marriage an act of goodness and gay marriage as an evil. Explain how gay marriage is an evil? How does it cause anyone suffering?

Homosexuality is not a moral issue.
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klftboller
Report Comment 5:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Reba F. - They'll have to start teaching that it's okay in school. Instead of Mommy and daddy it's mommy and mommy or daddy and daddy, oh wait they're not probably really your kids either, cuase you can't have them together. Everythings affected by it.
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angieo
Report Comment 6:12pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Evil perversion... @Reba F. - ...is like a cancer on society. If not stopped, it will negatively taint every aspect of life.
Reba, why are you opposed to a clean, wholesome, decent way of life?
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Service for you
Report Comment 4:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Hmmmm @Sambecks C. - If the LDS voiced there opinions held there signs, why cant these people? Hmmm sounds VERY Hypocritical
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Rich C.
Report Comment 4:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I tell ya.... @Sambecks C. - Sam still needs a hug....
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Service for you
4:46pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I think SAM @Rich C. - has some homosexual tendencies that he's afraid of
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Tim G.
Report Comment 4:48pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
that's an insult... @Service for you - to homosexuals everywhere!
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Panda
Report Comment 5:20pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Arguing @Service for you - Arguing this with most religious people is moot point.


I will laugh and smile when the day comes when Gays are allowed to marry in Utah...

One day it will be... just as that one day came when women had rights, blacks had rights, and a black man became president. :D
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I Want The Truth behind Utah
Report Comment 4:36pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
What a crock, The Mormon church did not defeat proposition 8. There are deeper lying issues than have been reported in Utah such as "abuse" of same sex marriages which insurance companies provided video of on a few California TV news stations.
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Tim G.
Report Comment 4:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
yeah... @I Want The Truth behind Utah - and I'm certain that no one "abuses" traditional heterosexual marriages for insurance, citizenship, etc...
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I Want The Truth behind Utah
Report Comment 5:07pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Tim, @Tim G. - I am sure of it but the people insurance companies were tagging are also people who would have had to pay their entire life savings just to get it cause the treatments were so expensive but through a spouse they got it and botta bing insurances saw a huge rise in cost in just a short period of time. Thats what the investigator interviewed on 7 news at eleven said man.
Tim G.
Report Comment 5:15pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
you must be right... @I Want The Truth behind Utah - I hear "the investigator interviewed on 7 news at eleven" is the foremost authority on the matter...
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I Want The Truth behind Utah
Report Comment 5:31pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Its pretty hard when to explain away when, @Tim G. - Investigator goes to Jacks house ask Joe if Jack is home and Joe does not know then investigator ask Joe hey is this Jack this Jill in the video. In that video piece the investigator even showed his partner chowing out while capturing video of Jack and Jill dining togeter kissing and who knows what ever else so be the judge believe the video or what some one says. its pretty hard to get around video documentation documented day in day out for a long time.
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mich1
Report Comment 4:37pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
The church cares because gay marriage destroys the moral fabric of society. All children deserve to be raised in a home with ONE dad & ONE mom. PERIOD. End of discussion.
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Reba F.
Report Comment 4:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
mich1 @mich1 - Aren't you being a little dramatic, I mean really moral fabric?

Although I did get a good chuckle. Thanks!
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richs78camaro
Report Comment 4:47pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Thats the @Reba F. - POINT you and people like you dont understand things like morals or commitments or decency....
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Nonldsmatt
Report Comment 5:02pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
like me? @richs78camaro - You want to say that I don't have things like morals, commitments or decency? You are a small minded little man.

I am not gay and don’t agree with it. I am respectful towards others though which you are not. My not liking it does not give me the right to deny their happiness. Don’t give me any bull about it ruining the American family or how you might be worried about kids becoming gay just because they see a gay couple. It does not affect me or you so let them marry. If you argue based on religion you need to remember that we have freedom of religion and no religion or beliefs based on such should be forced on others.

Doesn’t the bible say something about not judging your neighbor?
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Mojojackson
Report Comment 4:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
and mich1... @mich1 - are you telling me that a kid is better off with one mom and one dad, regardless of what kind of child abusing raping freaks they are..rather than two adults who love them and love each other. Two consensual adults who are responsible and caring parents are always better than two of opposite sexes who hate each others guts and fight, do drugs, and ignore their children.
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Roger B.
Report Comment 5:06pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I won't judge parenting skills, @Mojojackson - but I do know that in my family, my children benefit from having a mother and a father. My wife and I are able to help our children through different problems, and having a male and a female perspective has been very helpful.

This has been especially true as my daughter has gone through puberty and is close to dating. There are some issues she is more comfortable discussing with her mother and some she is more comfortable discussing with father.

By the way, your argument of "child raping freaks" is just insulting. Neither heterosexuals nor homosexuals can claim to be perfect in that arena.
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Euclid
Report Comment 4:45pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
So @mich1 - I guess we should outlaw single parent homes then.
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Rotorblade
Report Comment 6:57pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@mich1 - And your proof of gay marriage destroying the moral fabric of society is....?
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MyOpinion4U
Report Comment 4:38pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
THIS IS NOT ABOUT THE LDS CHURCH it is about the people of CALIFORNIA MAKING A CHOICE AND CHOOSING GOD's WAY OVER THE DEVIL's WAY, I salute the people of california for STANDING UP THE EVIL AND DOING THE RIGHT THING. so leave the LDS CHURCH ALONE, they do NOT HAVE A VOTE IN CALIFORNIA and you dont have to tell people what is right because they already know, but sometimes you can confuse them with what is wrong and make it seem RIGHT
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Reba F.
4:41pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
I feel bad for all of you... @MyOpinion4U - I feel bad for all of you that call yourselfs Christians.
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Sambecks C.
Report Comment 4:44pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
For evil to triumph, all a good man has to do is nothing @Reba F. - We stood up to this because we have had enough!!!
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MyOpinion4U
Report Comment 4:46pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
we, being the public cannot @Reba F. - change what homoseuxals do , but at the same time WE THE PUBLIC do not have to accept it or approve of it and none of the things being done can make us change our mind. GOD made a mirale happen between a woman and a man and that miracle is CALLED LIFE, when a homosexual relation can achieve that miracle THEN WE CAN DISCUSS IT.
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PurplePuddleNut
Report Comment 5:06pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@MyOpinion4U - Reading HUGE LETTERS ABOUT POINTLESS RAMBLING offends me. You offend me. I am guessing you find intolerance, hate and bigotry right? You must if you where for prop 8. You know what a bigot is right? B I G O T
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Jared0809
Report Comment 6:50pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Gay @PurplePuddleNut - I am blessed to have several gay friends. I have talked to them in detail on the subject. They want the same right as married people. The LDS church is fine with granting gay people the same rights, they just don't want it to be called marriage. Why don't we just call it some thing else, for everybody, and go on our way.
AwakeAndAriseOrg
Report Comment 7:45pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Correct Jared, They have the same rights, let them call it other than marriage @Jared0809 - It's about protecting the 1st Amendment. My other post gives my position---if it is approved and posted.
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Mojojackson
Report Comment 4:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
What a shame.. It's all such a shame. Why did the LDS church have to hop right into the middle of this hotbed? It disappointed me so much that the church would do that. The church preaches tolerence and equality yet when the rubber hits the road, the Church encouraged its members to fight tooth and nail to discriminate against our gay brothers and sisters. What did the LDS leader think would happen? I'm a straight LDS woman, born and raised here in good old Utah. I have seen the pain that a homosexual kid has when they are LDS and their parents hate gay people so badly. I have seen kids commit suicide rather than tell their LDS parents they are gay. What a tragedy that the LDS church is now adding to that pain by openly endorsing such a unfortunate proposition. The church leaders say "we don't hate gay people, we love and tolerate them" but you just watch as this board gets going, how many high and mighty LDS members preach the bible, the scriptures, the morality of it all. That gay people are evil and "sick and wrong". What a terrible shame.
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boycrazy
Report Comment 4:46pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Mojojackson @Mojojackson - How can you claim to be a member of the LDS church, if you disagree with what is a very basic precept of the faith? The gospel is not a buffet, you don't pick and choose the parts you like. If you are this bitter, you may want to take a deeper look at your faith.
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Mojojackson
Report Comment 4:57pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
boycrazy... @boycrazy - What precept of the faith? The one that says love and tolerate each other? Oh, I can live with that. I can live with the fact that we should follow the church leaders advice and be kind to gay people. I cannot accept the fact however, that many members say "this is so sick" "this is just evil" "they should all be burned alive" "they are sick and wrong" when in fact, the leader of our church tell us to tolerate gay folks. To have a child commit suicide because of what he hears his parents say, things like "gay people are going to hell" "gays are sick" "no kid of mine will ever be gay" "I would disown a kid of mine if he was gay". Why oh why do members have to speak so harshly of our brothers and sisters we are supposed to love? How tragic that a kid would take his own life over admitting that he is gay. A deeper and more burning pain cannot be found than that of losing a child, to think he or she took their own life because they thought were "evil, sick, wrong" is heartbreaking. Yes, I have questioned my faith for a long time. I have questioned how the members of this church that is supposed to be such a loving, caring organization can cast aside a whole population. Two people, consenting adults who love each other living in peace, are not hurting anybody, why can't the members of the church see that?
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boycrazy
Report Comment 5:03pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
mojo @Mojojackson - The precept that says marriage is a divine union between a man and a woman. It's a cornerstone.
Exactly who is telling you that gay people "should be burned alive"? And while you're talking about people "speaking harshly" and being intolerant, take a look in the mirror sister.
Saying gay marriage is an abomination is not saying gay people are an abomination. Love the sinner, hate the sin. Sound familiar?
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Mojojackson
Report Comment 5:10pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
don't call me sister, boycrazy @boycrazy - Read the posts above and below this post boycrazy. Look at the HATE and vile hurtful words coming out of the keyboards of our LDS faithful. That's who's telling me gay people should be burned alive, that they are sick and evil and wrong. What a shame, that's all I can say. What a shame.
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boycrazy
Report Comment 5:17pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Mojo, I wish @Mojojackson - That was all you could say.
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Lalalaa
Report Comment 5:12pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Mojo.. @Mojojackson - I am for the ban on gay marriage and do believe the gay lifestyle is wrong, but I certainly don't think anyone should be burned alive or that they are going to hell. And I am certainly not alone in my beliefs. I work with several gay people that I think are absolutely wonderful and I have no issues with them whatsoever. However, I do believe the sanctity of marriage is between a man and a woman. Period. Even though I believe this, I certainly don't wish any ill will on anyone that believes differently. Stop thinking that the vocal minority are speaking for the rest of us. Some people just don't know how to handle their emotions.
RosieNik
Report Comment 5:31pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Mojojackson - The problems you are addressing are problems with the individual. Members of the Church are IMPERFECT. I understand there are some may have a hard time hearing that, but it is a simple truth. It is a church for imperfect people who are TRYING to perfect themselves. Yes everyone messes up, and yes it is absolutely horrible that children have killed themselves because they were too afraid to tell their parents they were gay. Clearly those parents DID NOT listen to the Prophet when he told them we are to love them. But that is their problem as an individual and no doubt they, just like all of us will be held accountable for their actions and how they treated others.

To this day I remember the words my father spoke nearly on a daily basis, "The Church is TRUE despite the saints!" Members do not always act in accordance to the teachings of the gospel. It is quite obvious that the leaders of the Church are aware of this as they continue to tell us to LOVE ONE ANOTHER, specifically in reference to ALL PEOPLE, not just those who are LDS, but to ALL PEOPLE. Unfortunately for many of us is it easier said than done.
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Euclid
5:00pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@boycrazy - Sometimes people have the ability to look at the world around them and think for themselves, instead of blindly following every word parroted from the pulpit.
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hjman
Report Comment 5:12pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Yes and... @Euclid - some people have the ability to lie, cheat, steal, commit adultry, kill, molest children, drive drunk, and do all sorts of things. I prefer to follow the words I hear from the pulpit. The world would probably be a better place if more people did. I don't think people should blindly follow as you say. I think questioning things is just fine.

The fact is, that the majority voted yes to ban gay marriage and you may not agree with it, but you need to accept it. I didn't want Obama to win, but the majority of the country thinks he is the best one for the job, so I accept it and will try and support him as our next president.
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froggy123
Report Comment 5:02pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@boycrazy - You "Boycrazy," and views like that are what always make me question if I should really be a member of this church.

Who are you to judge or even question a person's level of faith. SHAME ON YOU!!!
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boycrazy
Report Comment 5:15pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Froggy @froggy123 - I'm not judging, I'm asking how you can be a member of a religion you don't agree with. Seems counter productive to me. If you don't like the teachings, no one is forcing you to stay. (thanks for the "shame on you", I like a little absurd comment every now and then).
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nikkirocksleo
Report Comment 5:18pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
boycrazy @boycrazy - is all you can do is think that your way is "right"? & insult peoples opinions? sad very sad. I know its off topic but had to get that off my chest ha ha ha
boycrazy
Report Comment 6:02pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
nikki @nikkirocksleo - Good one.
law
Report Comment 1:12am - Fri Nov 7th, 2008
boycrazy @boycrazy - I agree with your intentions but it's not productive to harass someone because their testimony or faith is not the same as yours. This is especially true when it's obvious they are in pain about something they perceive as stemming from their faith or the church.

Mojo, I'm sorry you struggle with your faith. Members of the church are only human. Remember the Lord himself said that the whole need no physician, but they that are sick. If the church is the physician then we who belong must be in need of a physician. It's not a sin to love or to feel sympathy for those who suffer in clouds of confusion or darkness. But I tell you that a greater form of love is to stand for that which will lead a soul back to our home and our Father who loves us all.

The prophet knows this and if we humble ourselves to the will of God, he will whisper peace to us so that we can know it also. Love is what counts in everything so the higher the form of love, the higher priority it is to God and he will be judge of all in the end. Trust in Him and learn from Him and He will bring you peace. I'm sorry for your pain... Good luck!
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cgb
Report Comment 5:03pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Are you really judging @Mojojackson - the LDS Church by postings on KSL's comment board?

That would be the same as judging all gay rights activists by those that produced the Mormon missionary commercial (which some on this board have done).

The church did not encourage its members to discriminate against gays. In fact, they've done just the opposite, per their official statements--of which you as an LDS church member are fully aware, I imagine.

Proposition 8 defines marriage. That's all it does. Society has a right to define important societal institutions. The California Supreme Court took away that right. I would have preferred to see Proposition 8 say: the CA Supreme Court no longer has jurisdiction to rule on the meaning of marriage. But, given the choice between court-defined marriage and society-defined marriage, I'll take the latter.
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RosieNik
Report Comment 5:10pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Mojojackson - Actually the Church teaches people Love the Sinner, not the Sin! You have seen problems with individuals who are members of the Church, not the Church. Being a member of the Church does not make you perfect, although yes there are individuals who act that way. Again, that is a problem with those individuals, NOT the Church.

Are you opposed to members of the Church preaching from the Bible? Last I checked we believed the Bible to be the word of God. "Go Forth and Multiply." I am unsure of how homosexual couples may accomplish something like this. True there are several heterosexual couples who are currently not able to fulfill this commandment, however, they at least have the proper "equipment" for such a task to take place.

Maybe you might want to re-read the "The Family: A Proclamation to The World." The Family is ordained of God.

And as flattering as it may sound to say the LDS Church is responsible for the passing of Prop 8, it is simply untrue. There are not THAT many LDS memebers in California to carry the vote itself. Accept the fact that there are plenty of other moral people in California who do not belong to the LDS Church. This is the second time MORAL PEOPLE have spoken against Gay Marriage in California, stop robbing them of THEIR CLEAR CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHT!
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P.O.
Report Comment 5:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
mojojackson @Mojojackson - The church preaches tolerence?? it does???

maybe tolderence of people but not of sin.
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Jonathan M.
Report Comment 4:39pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Send the Postcards Maybe they can make a nice castle out of the many postcards that will to sent to the church office building.
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Aggie13
Report Comment 4:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Bring it on!
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juke
Report Comment 4:40pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
The vote The vote showed that there is discrimination still instilled in our country. We must fight this.
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Diane M.
Report Comment 4:42pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Many churches Many other churches beside the LDS faith oppose gay marriage - why does everyone blame the LDS church?
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Jon!
Report Comment 5:18pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
can you name the other churchs... @Diane M. - -that release public statements.

-donated large sums of church money.

-read documents at church to compel their members.

if so list them I will blame them too.
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Rich C.
Report Comment 5:31pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Ask and you shall recieve @Jon! - http://www.sfgate.com/webdb/prop8/

hope the link shows up, last time it didn't
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Jon!
Report Comment 5:34pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Thanks @Rich C. - which column shows the "using their congregation to sway votes" ?
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Bean
Report Comment 4:42pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Wow I love the LDS church. I'm SO proud of it I can hardly stand it. They stand FIRM and they are kind as can be about it. I will love this church forever and ever.
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bubbles456
4:49pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@Bean - That's gross. I hate the LDS church.
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PurplePuddleNut
Report Comment 5:12pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
So question @Bean - When you have a kid and they turn out to be gay and your church does not love them will you love him or them? Cause you don't get both.
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kawilkin
Report Comment 5:35pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Yes you do get both... @PurplePuddleNut - The LDS church does not teach us to hate homosexuals it teaches us that this is an unnatural behavior and that it is not the way God intended for things to be. Yes there are certain people of all faiths who take it too far and descriminate against gays, that is a reflection on them as a person not the religion they belong to. I am personally against homosexual relationships, but I do not judge those who choose to live that lifestyle. If someday I have a child that decides that is their path I will tell them why I don't agree with it, but that I will love them no matter what.
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bubbles456
Report Comment 6:47pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
@kawilkin - Unless you've spoken to God yourself, you do not know what he intended. Everyone should have to right to marry the person that they love and want to share their lives with. If you're scared your kids are gonna be "exposed" to it, guess what? That's too bad. Whether gays marry or not, they will always be around. There's nothing wrong with being gay, it's just their lifestyle.
Tell Me Something New
Report Comment 8:43pm - Thu Nov 6th, 2008
Bubbles @bubbles456 - did God speak to you and tell you it was ok?